Anonymous
Post 12/18/2025 08:02     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
My parents spent equal amounts on our gifts and my in-laws do the same. It would be weird for there to be a big disparity. Both sets of parents spend more on the grandkids then the adults, which is also how it should be.
Anonymous
Post 12/18/2025 06:35     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
I received $150-200 in check/ maybe gifts from iLs in similar situation.
Anonymous
Post 12/17/2025 07:46     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
Haha Muddle class was meant for us as we don't have unlimited resources.
Anonymous
Post 12/16/2025 21:27     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
I spend about 2-300 each for a few gifts on both, maybe a little more on daughter because she has more wants and then give a joint check for 500.
Anonymous
Post 12/11/2025 12:31     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
Anonymous wrote:I may steal "muddle class".


My first read was "muggle class" - sounded like an reformed Slytherin asking for advice.
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 13:07     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
Anonymous wrote:Just make the check out to the couple, no need to give a separate spouse gift.


This!
Anonymous
Post 12/01/2025 05:49     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
OP just wants her to feel good about regifting a 5 dollar Starbucks card.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2025 14:44     Subject: What's an appropriate gift card amount for a working kid's working spouse from muddle class parents for Christmas visit
Anonymous wrote:what does what kind of economic class the significant other’s parents are in have anything to do with it?

Please give what you want and can afford. The seriousness of the relationship I might pay most attention to (ie 2 months or 2 years, near engagement or new.)
it says spouse