Anonymous
11/11/2025 20:25
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:I'd find it super weird if my kid was invited to a sleepover at a hotel.
+1000 so many reasons why I would say no!
Anonymous
11/11/2025 20:23
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Please don't do this. There was a terrible story about this such scenario at our school. A very bad thing happened at the hotel.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 19:52
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:No, you don't do karaoke or make racket in a hotel room unless you want serious trouble.
+1
Anonymous
11/11/2025 11:33
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I find it odd that so many people think hotel sleepovers are weird. I had them when I was a kid and I'm in my 40s. They are really popular with middle school kids here and it's a nice option when you don't want kids at your house and you get the benefit of an indoor pool. Most people get suites with adjoining rooms and there's more than enough space. As a parent, I actually feel a bit more comfy with a hotel sleepover than one at a home because you're less likely to be dealing with the worry of guns/drugs/alcohol or additional family members that could pose abuse risks.
For an 8/9 year old? I feel like middle school would be a little better but still not my first choice.
I think this is better for older kids too. but also don't see the problem with a hotel room.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 11:16
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:I find it odd that so many people think hotel sleepovers are weird. I had them when I was a kid and I'm in my 40s. They are really popular with middle school kids here and it's a nice option when you don't want kids at your house and you get the benefit of an indoor pool. Most people get suites with adjoining rooms and there's more than enough space. As a parent, I actually feel a bit more comfy with a hotel sleepover than one at a home because you're less likely to be dealing with the worry of guns/drugs/alcohol or additional family members that could pose abuse risks.
For an 8/9 year old? I feel like middle school would be a little better but still not my first choice.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 11:07
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:I find it odd that so many people think hotel sleepovers are weird. I had them when I was a kid and I'm in my 40s. They are really popular with middle school kids here and it's a nice option when you don't want kids at your house and you get the benefit of an indoor pool. Most people get suites with adjoining rooms and there's more than enough space. As a parent, I actually feel a bit more comfy with a hotel sleepover than one at a home because you're less likely to be dealing with the worry of guns/drugs/alcohol or additional family members that could pose abuse risks.
I wouldn’t let a kid be in a hotel room alone. No lifeguard at the pool.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 11:05
Subject: Hotel sleepover
I find it odd that so many people think hotel sleepovers are weird. I had them when I was a kid and I'm in my 40s. They are really popular with middle school kids here and it's a nice option when you don't want kids at your house and you get the benefit of an indoor pool. Most people get suites with adjoining rooms and there's more than enough space. As a parent, I actually feel a bit more comfy with a hotel sleepover than one at a home because you're less likely to be dealing with the worry of guns/drugs/alcohol or additional family members that could pose abuse risks.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 04:17
Subject: Hotel sleepover
My kid was invited to a hotel sleepover and I didn't let her sleepover. She went for the pool and pizza and then she left.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 01:05
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:I went to a party like this in middle school. There were 4 of us. We went to the pool, ate pizza, and watched a movie. It was like a glorified sleepover with a pool in the middle of winter. parents had the adjoining room. The hotel was geared for business travelers- pretty empty on a Friday or Saturday night.
I could see somewhere like an Embassy Suites working for this.
Anonymous
11/11/2025 01:01
Subject: Hotel sleepover
maybe OP has a dog, or lives in an intergenerational home, or uses the living room as an office. I wouldn't do anything loud in a hotel. But if taking a small group of kids that you know well, I would be okay with a hotel. Pool parties do make me nervous in general, so I might wait until the kids are a little older unless I knew they could swim. or the hotel pool was shallow.
Anonymous
11/10/2025 23:00
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:How does this even work? Do you get adjoining rooms? I try to book adjoining rooms all the time for a larger family and we often don’t get them. The rooms won’t adjoin with a a door between them, or they are across the hall. I don’t want to sleep in the same room as a bunch of kids.
Agree, really curious how many kids/ what you are envisioning for the sleeping arrangements as it seems that would be a major issue.
Anonymous
11/10/2025 22:40
Subject: Hotel sleepover
We saw a slumber party last time we went to Great Wolf Lodge and it seemed so fun. Otherwise it definitely seems a little weird. Is there a reason you can’t have it at home? You could go to a county indoor pool if you desperately wanted to swim.
Anonymous
11/10/2025 22:34
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Anonymous wrote:I'd find it super weird if my kid was invited to a sleepover at a hotel.
+1, I’m sorry but this has total creeper vibes
Anonymous
11/10/2025 22:22
Subject: Hotel sleepover
I went to a party like this in middle school. There were 4 of us. We went to the pool, ate pizza, and watched a movie. It was like a glorified sleepover with a pool in the middle of winter. parents had the adjoining room. The hotel was geared for business travelers- pretty empty on a Friday or Saturday night.
Anonymous
11/10/2025 22:06
Subject: Hotel sleepover
Don't hog the pool.