Anonymous wrote:I can’t believe all of this is over pushing another student.
Not hitting, not beating up, pushing. Someone wants your son out, bad. Maybe he just pushed the wrong guy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does your child Have a Behavior Plan as part of their IEP? Was it Followed? Is this a manifestation of their disability? Know your Procedural rights.
Behavior goals, I don't think there's a "plan" per se; DC tried to follow the supports he had in place, but some of the options weren't available that day. According to the doctor it is a manifestation of the disability.
Anonymous wrote:For DC's situation, right now we're waiting on the principal to make a decision on consequences, but we were told that if he (principal) chooses one of several options, that means a referral to the district superintendent. We were also told this means the District Super can assign DC to a different school, among other things.
For context, DC has an IEP with some goals related to modifying his behavior. I mean, he's been suspended before (1 day), but is a different school assignment something I need to be truly concerned about? School wants to meet with parents only to "discuss next steps".
Anyone have experience with this? We're in FCPS, if that helps.
Anonymous wrote: BLUF, your kid shouldn't be hitting another student and if they did, they should be disciplined.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP I get that you want to protect your privacy, but being super coy doesn't really help clarify your situation.
Yes, if your child hurt another child then your child might be reassigned to a different school. Obviously it didn't work so well at the current school so unless you have ideas for improvement, switching schools could Ibe an attractive option. Options to consider are the public option and getting to pay for a private placement.
Sorry, not trying to be super coy, just trying to protect privacy. They have several supports in place at the high school, but some of the team wasn't available to help deescalate the situation.
DC pushed/hit another student, but according to the school, the other student is fine. It was broken up pretty quickly, from what I understand.
I guess my question is - does being referred to the district superintendent mean that's a likelihood? Or am I jumping to the negative thoughts too quickly?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A "manifestation of the disability" does not absolve the perpetrator of responsibility. I think a lot will hinge on what your child understands of the situation, and how able he is to control himself should a similar trigger arise again, from this student or any other adult or child. Are there private supports you can tweak, such as medication and therapy, to try and reduce the risk of recidivism; and how likely is it that this school will regularly find itself without the correct supports for your child?
Well it should absolve him; he has an IEP !!!
Anonymous wrote:A "manifestation of the disability" does not absolve the perpetrator of responsibility. I think a lot will hinge on what your child understands of the situation, and how able he is to control himself should a similar trigger arise again, from this student or any other adult or child. Are there private supports you can tweak, such as medication and therapy, to try and reduce the risk of recidivism; and how likely is it that this school will regularly find itself without the correct supports for your child?
Anonymous wrote:The demands or insistence of the parents of the child your son hit will probably be a factor. Do you have any insight about whether the child's parents are plugged into this situation and making demands (like transferring your child)? I'm not saying their demands would over rule your child's needs, but it would be helpful for you to know if there are people advocating for your child's removal.