My BFF told me her BF was "small" 25 years ago and they are married now and I can't not think about it whenever I see him.

I wrote a song about it, so now everyone knows. It’s track 9.

Not in any kind of detail, but we’re all around the same age and pretty open about peri symptoms, so occasionally someone mentions libido or lack thereof.

No, I'm an adult.

I have two or three friends I can but I don’t see them often.

Nope

Yes. I didn’t when I was married and I suffered alone! I’m in my early 50s and divorced as are many but not all of my friends. Many of us are in new relationships. Most of us had less than ideal sex lives in our marriages (probably strongly correlated with divorce) so we know how important it is to keep that aspect strong in new relationships. We aren’t dishing about it the way we might have in college, but we definitely talk about challenges and expectations. I’m grateful for it and I’m probably a better and more appreciative partner too.

Yes

No

I try to but most are too prude.

No, and I don't want to know about my friends' either.

Not so much after I got married and into my thirties. But pre-marriage and in my 20s, sex was >50% of our conversations

My best friend juat called me yesterday hysterically laughing on her way to work because of a sex thing that happened and needed to tell someone.

So yes.

Ladies, if your man is good in bed do NOT talk or gloat about it with your girlfriends. A few times now I have had my lady's "friends" get very flirty with me after details were spilled in these gossip sessions. Awkward.

In college and twenties, yes. Now, in forties...hardly ever. Can't think of last time.