Both my spouse and affair partner are incredibly hot.

But honestly, the spouse is the one.

Wish we weren't so toxic. We don't work. But, damn.

On the outside, yes. Unfortunately, as a person she is every thing she pretends not to be, so when you get close enough she becomes pretty disgusting.

Yes, very HOT. 6'3 and 180 pounds and a great lover.

I would not have married him if he was not a 10. I'm an 11.

Anonymous wrote:LOL at all the 'hot' mid 40s women. Get real.

My boyfriend thinks I'm hot so why should I care what anyone else thinks?

Yes, I find my DH very attractive and I tell him all the time.

Anonymous wrote:LOL at all the 'hot' mid 40s women. Get real.

I see a lot of them at my Pilates studio! I hope I can look that good when I’m older!

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Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Mine is foreign.

So is mine! Still not hot!!

Most people are married. Most people are average looking. Therefore most married people are average looking.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Mine is foreign.

I once read that most women find most men unattractive. Anecdotally, I have seen more hot women with very unattractive men. Now I can't say if it's common, but I just noticed that I am more likely to see a hot woman with a man let's just say it nicely not attractive lol.

NEWS FLASH!!! NEWS FLASH!!! - It appears that this poster has found that women marry men for reasons other than the man's attractiveness. Our brave poster was able to discern this incredible fact via years of painstaking research. /s

These types of posts (e.g., is your DH/DW as "hot" as when you met them?) become backdoors for certain women to post about how there are no attractive men their age (or at any age) or how much more appealing they are than their DH.

That might be true. I believe that there are vastly more beautiful women than men at every age. However, rational people realize that it is the relative attractiveness of one person compared to their peer group that is the determinative factor in dating.

Notice how many women have posted in this thread (and in many others) that they are still "hot." Maybe, but this is only important if you are hotter than your peer group.

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Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Midwest

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

Hot is extremely subjective.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Rare for people aged 40s and up to be hot, TBH.

We're both just OK. I married my husband for his personality and how he treats me, not for his looks.

DC is the ugliest area of the country. I think if you go to other areas you'll find you are wrong about that.

I always wonder about these threads. Where are all these extremely hot men??? I do not see them in DC.

My husband just turned 50. He is still as hot as his 20s. His dedication to fitness, meditation and diet has clearly paid off. Most importantly he is the most amazing and interesting man I have ever seen. I can say with 100% certainly if he were to pass away right now I'll remain single for the rest of my life.

I'm not as attractive him, but he treats me and reminds as if I were more attractive than him.