Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.

Tinderella LOL
Let me Google that one..

Agree with above poster. Dump her. Not a real friend, you don't want her.

Definitely agree - cut her from the wedding. Uninvited.

Why is a male date being called a tinderella? Is this a lesbian bridesmaid? I can't figure out what op keeps using that word.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.

*but I didn't say that in my Original Post because I'm making this up as I go along.

*and not as much fun as I hoped

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.

*but I didn't say that in my Original Post because I'm making this up as I go along.

What a goon. Wrong.

^^^^^^ THIS THEY GOT A POINT

Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.

*but I didn't say that in my Original Post because I'm making this up as I go along.

Some facts:

1) Guest refused to RSVP until weeks after the deadline because she did not know if she was going to break up with guy first/before wedding.

2) Everyone else is married. This "date" is someone no one has met, lives long distance from ex-friend and has no relationship with anyone.

3) Wedding party is mostly family, everyone is married.

4) You don't call us yelling at us because we wouldn't let you bring a Tinderella. Our day, our rules.

5) Not a troll, real life.

6) If you Urban Moms want to chip in for her plate of food, its about $300 per head. Why would we pay for that?

Usually if they’re true friends they’ll do it because they love you. But I guess some people need incentives to show up to their close ones big day. Wild.

Anonymous wrote:It’s beyond tacky for you not to give a bridesmaid a +1, whether he’s a boyfriend, a husband, or even just a friend. You are tacky, tacky, tacky for not immediately and graciously giving a member of your wedding party a +1.

That’s all.

This. ugh. So what if she breaks up with him. She doesn't want to go to the wedding solo.

Anonymous wrote:Apparently everyone gets an opinion of someone else’s special day. It’s their day. Give it up.

Are you not aware that most of the time being in the wedding party is a pretty big financial and time commitment? This is why you buy a gift for the people you asked to do this. I can't imagine being this rude.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s beyond tacky for you not to give a bridesmaid a +1, whether he’s a boyfriend, a husband, or even just a friend. You are tacky, tacky, tacky for not immediately and graciously giving a member of your wedding party a +1.

That’s all.

This times 1000!!!

OP sounds like a bridezilla.

+20000

Not tacky of you to say no plus one, tacky for her to yell at you like that.

Anonymous wrote:Original Poster here. Only those married or engaged got plus ones. She wanted to bring her tinderella.

I’m guessing most of the bridal party has plus ones, then? Agree with others it’s tacky of you. Also tacky of her to yell at you, though 🤔