Anonymous
Post 07/26/2025 07:04     Subject: 100% remote and style

I think OP is Autistic, quite frankly. They do't seem to pick up or understand the "unwritten social cues" that most normal people understand.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2025 06:57     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You’re that person who is always on camera when everyone else is off?

God, I hate you, you obnoxious twit.


Why is this bad? Sometimes I'm all ready, camera on and nobody else turns theirs on. I try to find a time to turn it off naturally like when someone shares a document, but I think it's more awkward to be talking without it.


JFC. Read.The.Room. We've been doing this for years now since Covid and many of us for years and years before that, without video because that was less off a thing. It's a conference call. It's "bad" to be an outlier in any work circumstance, so you're definitely ticking people off left and right by being "that person" who is insisting on video and presentation when everyone else wants to get the work done and we don't give a crap if someone has perfectly applied eyeliner and a flippy blowout, it actually gives "my deliverables may be mid, but...pencil skirt" water cooler girl vibes. This is bordering on career here but I have like 50k in high end career wear and always do some hair and makeup, but insisting on camera to show this off is tone deaf and I'd show you the door.


NP. You are a weird angry person. You give a lot of credence to the idea that people who want cameras off all the time have social issues.
Anonymous
Post 07/26/2025 01:09     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You’re that person who is always on camera when everyone else is off?

God, I hate you, you obnoxious twit.


Why is this bad? Sometimes I'm all ready, camera on and nobody else turns theirs on. I try to find a time to turn it off naturally like when someone shares a document, but I think it's more awkward to be talking without it.


JFC. Read.The.Room. We've been doing this for years now since Covid and many of us for years and years before that, without video because that was less off a thing. It's a conference call. It's "bad" to be an outlier in any work circumstance, so you're definitely ticking people off left and right by being "that person" who is insisting on video and presentation when everyone else wants to get the work done and we don't give a crap if someone has perfectly applied eyeliner and a flippy blowout, it actually gives "my deliverables may be mid, but...pencil skirt" water cooler girl vibes. This is bordering on career here but I have like 50k in high end career wear and always do some hair and makeup, but insisting on camera to show this off is tone deaf and I'd show you the door.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 23:29     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:at home all day in a pencil skirt? this is frightening


+1. That and putting on this getup very early morning to go out and walk the dog is almost trollish, and I'm someone who wore a skirt suit and 4 inch heels daily for most of my career before wfh full time. Almost trollish.


Why would you get dressed up to walk the dog? At the very least, if you feel compelled to dress up, wear workout clothes to walk the dog, then come home and shower and change.

But I just don't get why you're dressing up at all.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 22:35     Subject: 100% remote and style

It may help you to learn that “style” is not synonymous with “business attire.” This could be an opportunity to develop real personal style! Business clothes can look out together but there is so much more you can explore fashion wise.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 22:31     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You’re that person who is always on camera when everyone else is off?

God, I hate you, you obnoxious twit.


Why is this bad? Sometimes I'm all ready, camera on and nobody else turns theirs on. I try to find a time to turn it off naturally like when someone shares a document, but I think it's more awkward to be talking without it.

…you’ve never talked on a conference call? Does that feel awkward? I encourage you to turn the camera off once you sign into the meeting and realize no one else is turning theirs on.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 21:56     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wear business on the top, soft pants on the bottom. You do you.


+1


This. I wear a nice top, jewelry and makeup, but shorts or sweatpants on the bottom. I don’t even wear jewelry on my hands because those are hardly seen.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 21:54     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:I can’t relate to you in the slightest. I work from home, no camera, and wear my nightgown all day that I slept in.


You’re my hero.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 21:20     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:You’re that person who is always on camera when everyone else is off?

God, I hate you, you obnoxious twit.


Why is this bad? Sometimes I'm all ready, camera on and nobody else turns theirs on. I try to find a time to turn it off naturally like when someone shares a document, but I think it's more awkward to be talking without it.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 16:58     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:You wear a pencil skirt and blouse to walk your dog? And you think you’re the normal one here?


Poor dog probably isn't getting a.very good walk.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 16:53     Subject: Re:100% remote and style

That's why I go out at 6am or 630am. It's not 109 then.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 16:06     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You wear a pencil skirt and blouse to walk your dog? And you think you’re the normal one here?


+1 She want's to feel superior to those who wear soft clothes all day.


You're not out in a pencil skirt and silk blouse in "feels like 109" temps picking up dog poop?



lol And no sane person is!

Such an idiotic post!
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 15:53     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You wear a pencil skirt and blouse to walk your dog? And you think you’re the normal one here?


+1 She want's to feel superior to those who wear soft clothes all day.


You're not out in a pencil skirt and silk blouse in "feels like 109" temps picking up dog poop?
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 12:39     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:You wear a pencil skirt and blouse to walk your dog? And you think you’re the normal one here?


+1 She want's to feel superior to those who wear soft clothes all day.
Anonymous
Post 07/25/2025 12:33     Subject: 100% remote and style

Anonymous wrote:I wear business on the top, soft pants on the bottom. You do you.


+1