Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 22:09     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Insist, OP. You've got nothing to lose. It doesn't matter if you're *that* parent. It's not like your child's grade is going to get lower.


It’s grade grubbing and teachers hate that. Don’t forget that you only have one side of the story. Talk to the teacher without thinking there’s some kind of conspiracy you’ve uncovered.


Exactly. I’m guessing the teacher has a perfectly reasonable explanation for the grade.

OP can escalate it. Then the teacher can weigh in and it’ll be all over.


That’s right. If he knew he was borderline he should have talked to the teacher for extra credit work.
What grade is he in? I had my six grader write to his teacher directly when an assignment was not included in the grade and it got sorted out right away. Not sure why you should write to the teacher instead, unless your kid doesn’t care and it’s more your fight at this point.

Unless there’s a clear mathematical error in the calculation, but it doesn’t sound like this is the issue. Check the class syllabus it usually explains the grading policy and what percentages go into the grade.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 21:58     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Insist, OP. You've got nothing to lose. It doesn't matter if you're *that* parent. It's not like your child's grade is going to get lower.


It’s grade grubbing and teachers hate that. Don’t forget that you only have one side of the story. Talk to the teacher without thinking there’s some kind of conspiracy you’ve uncovered.


Exactly. I’m guessing the teacher has a perfectly reasonable explanation for the grade.

OP can escalate it. Then the teacher can weigh in and it’ll be all over.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 21:51     Subject: Re:Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Look, I never said my kid was "constantly rude." I could add much more backstory that would make my kid seem much more sympathetic in terms of their overall relationship with the teacher, but I will concede my kid didn't act perfectly, and to the extent they made mistakes, I've addressed it with them. Ultimately, how my kid acted or didn't act is mostly irrelevant to my question, which was (to put it more succinctly): There is an irregularity in the input of one assignment grade that has no obvious explanation other than error and that I am 95% sure the teacher would change on their own if alerted to it in time. Because my kid was on the borderline between grades, it turns out to make a big difference to their overall grade in the class. We tried to communicate with the teacher but suspect the teacher is no longer checking e-mail. Should we let it go as a life lesson or take further action? I appreciate everyone who's weighed in on both sides of that question and will consider what you have to say. I really don't want to end up IDing anyone involved so don't plan to elaborate any further.


Why can’t you just tell what the formula was and change the percentages and task name. Like 30% midterm and 70% final becomes, 40% lab and 60% homework.

That would not be at all identifiable. It’s kind of silly to expect an answer but dance around endlessly about what the situation is.

If your issue is your kid and another one did 7/10 correct questions on homework and yours got 65% and the friend got 75%, then you can’t do much because the teacher might give partial credit and or take credit away from the correct answer because the explanation was not satisfactory.

But seriously if you’re not capable to explain the situation clearly (yeah even without identifying yourself) you probably won’t be persuasive enough to the teacher or the administrators.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 19:01     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:Insist, OP. You've got nothing to lose. It doesn't matter if you're *that* parent. It's not like your child's grade is going to get lower.


It’s grade grubbing and teachers hate that. Don’t forget that you only have one side of the story. Talk to the teacher without thinking there’s some kind of conspiracy you’ve uncovered.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 14:24     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
I’m wondering if this isn’t a case of different weights to sub scores. Like your kid got 9/10 on content and 9/10 in grammar/mechanics so it looks like a 90%. If the content is weighted higher than mechanics, the overall grade is different from a kid with 10/10 on content snd 8/10 on mechanics.

Maybe check to make sure there weren’t weighted subscores. It would be on a rubric.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 10:13     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
That's like saying parents revel in the power that they can get a teacher to change grades or they will complain to admin to try to get us fired.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 02:00     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:Teacher just wanted to give your kid a certain grade. Certainly they manipulated it. Certainly it won't change anything to call them out on it. Teachers revel in this power. Often not fair but it happens in all aspects of life, especially small environments.


It depends on the administration. If it’s obvious and the administration isn’t somehow beholden to the teacher, they will make the teacher change it. Yes bring up the other kids. While they obviously can’t discuss other kids grades, admin can look and teacher may not want to get caught if you make it clear in a calm and direct manner that you will escalate.
Anonymous
Post 06/21/2025 01:09     Subject: Re:Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
I would make the effort to contact someone at the school and present it purely as a mathematical issue/error. If you don’t get the resolution you want, I would let it go and enjoy the summer, especially since your child is changing schools.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 18:04     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:If it’s just an input error, follow-up. I was an earlier PP and I misunderstood and thought it was a teacher judgement decision. I’m a little confused why you needed the whole backstory in this situation- you’ve made it unnecessarily confusing.


Yeah, I realize I probably didn't need to provide all the backstory. It doesn't change the underlying issue.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 17:41     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
If it’s just an input error, follow-up. I was an earlier PP and I misunderstood and thought it was a teacher judgement decision. I’m a little confused why you needed the whole backstory in this situation- you’ve made it unnecessarily confusing.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 17:38     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Don’t let it go. Truly. If she’s wrong, she needs to change it. You aren’t asking for special treatment.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 17:07     Subject: Re:Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
OP here. Look, I never said my kid was "constantly rude." I could add much more backstory that would make my kid seem much more sympathetic in terms of their overall relationship with the teacher, but I will concede my kid didn't act perfectly, and to the extent they made mistakes, I've addressed it with them. Ultimately, how my kid acted or didn't act is mostly irrelevant to my question, which was (to put it more succinctly): There is an irregularity in the input of one assignment grade that has no obvious explanation other than error and that I am 95% sure the teacher would change on their own if alerted to it in time. Because my kid was on the borderline between grades, it turns out to make a big difference to their overall grade in the class. We tried to communicate with the teacher but suspect the teacher is no longer checking e-mail. Should we let it go as a life lesson or take further action? I appreciate everyone who's weighed in on both sides of that question and will consider what you have to say. I really don't want to end up IDing anyone involved so don't plan to elaborate any further.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 16:01     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Did you try to teach your child to respect authority throughout the semester or just allow him to be outwardly rude? Seems like you allowed it to happen and are now surprised that there’s a consequence. Use this to teach your child a lesson.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 14:08     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Teacher just wanted to give your kid a certain grade. Certainly they manipulated it. Certainly it won't change anything to call them out on it. Teachers revel in this power. Often not fair but it happens in all aspects of life, especially small environments.


This is ridiculous. No, we don’t “revel in this power.” We didn’t go into this profession to battle points with teenagers (or their parents).

Sometimes children earned the lower grade. Period. I’m guessing that’s what happened in OP’s case, and she is struggling to accept it.

By all means, take this up the ladder and aggravate all levels of leadership over a point the child may not have earned. You do have that right as a parent and nobody is stopping you. It’s not what I would do as a parent, but we all make our own choices.


Oh of course, we teachers do love this power. At Friday Happy Hour, we all go around the circle and revel in how we can hurt children. Then we laugh and laugh and dance and sing. It's like Mardi Gras all year long! *This* is why we all became teachers.
/s
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 09:12     Subject: Grade discrepancy and how to handle it
One of the reasons teachers are quitting and not returning is because parents and admin have to fight teacher on every single solitary minute decision. After the double overtime we already work...it makes our profession miserably corrupt and there is no support...just shame and blame.