Anonymous wrote:At 18.

I provided a handful of dates that I could be available if my prescience was desired. DH did the same. But otherwise, we stepped back.

They’ve done fine.

Your prescience! How brilliant!

Late 20s.

Anonymous wrote:My dd turned 18 and she says she has strep. She's a bit of a hypochondriac and I actually doubt she does. I thought it'd be a good opportunity for her to make her first appointment but she had no success, left the minute clinic bc she didn't like the lady, said no to tomorrow at pediatrician. Now she's mad at me bc I have not found her an appointment for today. I asked what she'll do in college and she said she'd call me. At 18 I made my own appointments.

Summer before freshman year of college. My oldest had turned 18 a month prior, my middle child was a few months shy of turning 19, and my youngest was a month away from 19. Hand off some scheduling at the end of junior year while providing back stopping but hand off full accountability prior to college. Exact age is less important than proximity to having more responsibility.

At 18.

I provided a handful of dates that I could be available if my prescience was desired. DH did the same. But otherwise, we stepped back.

They’ve done fine.

Anonymous wrote:I am curious what was wrong with the lady (?) at the Minute Clinic? Did she mean the receptionist?

Guessing she didn't cater to her pouting and rude behavior and expected her to follow the rules like everyone else.

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Anonymous wrote:It's not a big deal, just help her make the appointment. This will not cripple in life, I promise.

I did help (explained what to do, gave her everything she needed) The minute clinic I recommended is fine as a walk-in. She did not like the provider. Then I was right here when she tried pediatrician. Now she doesn't want to try Walgreens. It just felt like this was a good opportunity for her to try and handle things. I said so and she goes "but I'm a kid, it's normal I need help"...I did help!

You spoiled her. You always swooped in and fixed it anytime she didn't like something anytime she pouted.

My DD just turned 18. She wasn't feeling well yesterday and asked about making an appointment. I wasn't home, so I told her to go to the urgent care in town. She did it without issue and was able to get an antibiotic.

She also went to her regular doctor alone to update her vaccinations. She forgot the form needed for college, but we can drop that off at any time.

Now, my oldest DD is 20 and she is not as willing to do those things.

I’m literally in the thick of this. Kid2 has been home for two weeks.. I’ve made five appts for this child.

Annual Physical
Lab appt
Eye Exam
Dental Appt and
A hair appt

Husband too
Oil change for her car

Every appt I/we showed her exactly what to do and how much to pay for the next time.
Advised her these are annual appts… and she should be able to handle moving forward.

At the end of the day .. We’re teaching them how to adult .. They will eventually get it all.

Mine started making appointments at around 16 after the second time I had to reschedule an appointment because she decided she was unavailable at the selected time.
I don't mind helping, but I am not a private secretary, so I turned the job over to her.

Don't make an age contest out of something so silly OP. You could have made 20 appointments in the time you've spent posting here.

My sons started making their own appointments at 18.

She needs to make her own appt. Come on.

Anonymous wrote:I am curious what was wrong with the lady (?) at the Minute Clinic? Did she mean the receptionist?

+1. It’s fine to not like the receptionist/nurse/doctor/whatever, but then she needs to take responsibility for finding a medical practice she does like and getting herself established as a patient.

I am curious what was wrong with the lady (?) at the Minute Clinic? Did she mean the receptionist?

My daughter is 18, and I still schedule her appointments. She went to a new doctor 3 weeks ago and I went with her after she asked me to.

She's independent and at this moment is at an appointment to get fingerprinted for a job by herself, but just because she's 18, if it makes her more comfortable for me to go, then I go.