Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:19     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:I think it’s so weird for women to wish other women HMD.

It’s a holiday for kids to celebrate their moms/grandmothers. Period.


Some women might have mothers. I am not a biologist.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:17     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:How clueless and rude. I don't need your insipid text with heart and bouquet emojis. Let me sleep. Let me clean up the sloppy breakfast my kids made for me. Let me just have a Sunday morning.


You keep your phone by your bed? Don’t do that.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:16     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
There are more complaints on DCUM about Mother's Day not being celebrated in just the right way than any other holiday.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:16     Subject: Re:Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
I'm a DINK and I get next level passive aggressive behavior from some people (friends) if I don't acknowledge. I've settled on a a message in the group chat to all of them. I can't win apparently.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:10     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
It’s called Do Not Disturb. It’s a modern marvel.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:04     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
I don’t mind the texts but feel they are a bit overboard. My kids are older. My husband is buying bagels and we’re having brunch with my in laws. It’s work for him, which I don’t think is necessary. I like just a verbal happy Mother’s Day or flowers (I bought potted flowers for myself yesterday). I’m just not into being the center of attention.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:00     Subject: Re:Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wow OP. Who feels this way?? So bitter. It could not be any easier to ignore a text.


Seems like a least a few others feel this way...


Because this site is full of women who want to be miserable and find any excuse to do so.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:00     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't mind this at all! But I have my phone on silent.



My do not disturb turns off around 8. Doesn’t mean I want to get an early text


DP. Maybe change your settings to when you’re ready to receive?


DP i will never be ready to recieve a HMD text from my coworker early Sunday morning. I have professional boundaries


Well you don’t if they have your cell number and they feel comfortable texting you. I doubt someone has never texted your personal cell prior and then started this morning.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 09:00     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
I think it’s so weird for women to wish other women HMD.

It’s a holiday for kids to celebrate their moms/grandmothers. Period.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:59     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
My college student texted me at 2:30 AM and I saw it when I woke up. I appreciated that he was thinking of me.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:59     Subject: Re:Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Old coworkers have your personal cell? Why?

I would block these people. And don’t give out your personal cell if you are this offended by contact.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:58     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:The Op has a point. The HMD texts are not coming from her kids. They are coming from outsiders who she is not the mom to. People have over sensationalized this made up holiday. Let the kids treat mom today. Have you noticed how every mom friend, sister, aunt, etc. send these HMD texts? It’s gone over board. I can see how that irritated the Op.


NP and I agree. It’s one thing to hear from my own mother, my MIL, and my sister. Maybe an aunt or two. But I really don’t need to hear from friends and *old coworkers.* Like, just focus on your own mom and people close to you! I don’t need junk texts from every corner of my extended acquaintence.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:58     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't mind this at all! But I have my phone on silent.



My do not disturb turns off around 8. Doesn’t mean I want to get an early text


DP. Maybe change your settings to when you’re ready to receive?


DP i will never be ready to recieve a HMD text from my coworker early Sunday morning. I have professional boundaries
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:56     Subject: Re:Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:Wow OP. Who feels this way?? So bitter. It could not be any easier to ignore a text.


Seems like a least a few others feel this way...
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2025 08:56     Subject: Don't text at 8 AM to say Happy Mothers Day
Anonymous wrote:How clueless and rude. I don't need your insipid text with heart and bouquet emojis. Let me sleep. Let me clean up the sloppy breakfast my kids made for me. Let me just have a Sunday morning.


Sounds like you have an issue with your phone. Maybe put it away on your amazing Sunday morning.