Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 10:43     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My husband was killed by a drunk driver on his way home from work one day. Two of my kids were too young to have any memory of him. I try to have grace when I hear about this highly preventable crime but it is very, very difficult.

+1

Drunk drivers have taken multiple people from my family, including my aunt, a mother of 6. They’ve destroyed my body. PP, I am so sorry for your loss. Like you, I try to give grace, but find it hard to see this post. I hope the parents are not only seeking legal help but taking this with the gravity merited, and that they see to it that if their daughter escapes legal consequences, she gets whatever intervention is necessary to never do this again.


Nothing either of you wrote means the person who committed a crime should not be adequately represented in court. That's all OP asked for.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 10:40     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:https://maryland-criminallawyer.com/our-team/kush-arora/


He's good. Strong recommendation for him.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 10:38     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:My husband was killed by a drunk driver on his way home from work one day. Two of my kids were too young to have any memory of him. I try to have grace when I hear about this highly preventable crime but it is very, very difficult.

+1

Drunk drivers have taken multiple people from my family, including my aunt, a mother of 6. They’ve destroyed my body. PP, I am so sorry for your loss. Like you, I try to give grace, but find it hard to see this post. I hope the parents are not only seeking legal help but taking this with the gravity merited, and that they see to it that if their daughter escapes legal consequences, she gets whatever intervention is necessary to never do this again.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 09:07     Subject: Re:Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Try to get probation before judgement and the arrest expunged.

Assuming they had probable cause and she’s guilty.

Good luck.

They used to have a program called REDO not sure if it exists or changed names for 1st offenders to get the record expunged


DUI is a specifically excepted from expungable offenses in many jurisdictions, including Maryland.


That is great! Good for Maryland!
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 05:18     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why should it be expunged?

It is a serious offense.

Consequences teach valuable lessons.


She’s 19 she could literally have blown a .000001 and it’s DUI.

My oldest (99th percentile IQ, AAP, attending selective university, planning to attend t14 law school) would have never done something like this. It's sickening to think unstable individuals such as this poster's daughter are allowed to roam free. Before the mob attacks: no, I am not religious, no I am not kidding, no I am not uptight.


Virtually every parent thinks not MY child until it happens.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 01:26     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
My husband was killed by a drunk driver on his way home from work one day. Two of my kids were too young to have any memory of him. I try to have grace when I hear about this highly preventable crime but it is very, very difficult.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 21:54     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why should it be expunged?

It is a serious offense.

Consequences teach valuable lessons.


She’s 19 she could literally have blown a .000001 and it’s DUI.

My oldest (99th percentile IQ, AAP, attending selective university, planning to attend t14 law school) would have never done something like this. It's sickening to think unstable individuals such as this poster's daughter are allowed to roam free. Before the mob attacks: no, I am not religious, no I am not kidding, no I am not uptight.


Nobody give a f&@# about your rule following cog.

They will do 1000 ethical things in the finance job because their boss said so and you will brag about it.


Lol I mean you kids gonna be a lawyer (not finance) even worse defending drunk drivers, rapists and murders…. Oh no wait they will do corporate law and figure out for healthcare CEOs to deny legit claims “legally”.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 21:51     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why should it be expunged?

It is a serious offense.

Consequences teach valuable lessons.


She’s 19 she could literally have blown a .000001 and it’s DUI.

My oldest (99th percentile IQ, AAP, attending selective university, planning to attend t14 law school) would have never done something like this. It's sickening to think unstable individuals such as this poster's daughter are allowed to roam free. Before the mob attacks: no, I am not religious, no I am not kidding, no I am not uptight.


Nobody give a f&@# about your rule following cog.

They will do 1000 ethical things in the finance job because their boss said so and you will brag about it.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 19:44     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why should it be expunged?

It is a serious offense.

Consequences teach valuable lessons.


She’s 19 she could literally have blown a .000001 and it’s DUI.

My oldest (99th percentile IQ, AAP, attending selective university, planning to attend t14 law school) would have never done something like this. It's sickening to think unstable individuals such as this poster's daughter are allowed to roam free. Before the mob attacks: no, I am not religious, no I am not kidding, no I am not uptight.

The rich kids do worse than alcohol! Learned this from my EMT rotation. The Ivy kids come in with heroin, the Catholic kids come in with alcohol poisoning
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 19:41     Subject: Re:Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:1) every single one of you would try to help your kid if they did this. So lay off your high horses please.

2) I doubt she will get jail time but that’s what a good lawyer is for.



"Help your kid" has different meanings to different people. Daddy bailing her out is not what I have in mind.

If my teen got a DUI I would "help" them by sending them to rehab and doing everything I could to make sure that they don't drive for the foreseeable future. I would expect them to suffer some consequences that hopefully will teach a lifelong lesson.


Oh please. I love it when DCUM posters get all hysterical for no reason. She asked for a layer recommendation. You have no idea what else they’re doing or not doing. A DUI at 19 does not equal a necessary trip to rehab. Not that you or anyone else could make an adult do that. Calm down.

You're right you can't force them into rehab, but the average person drives drunk 100 times before they get pulled over. Virtually all people with DUI have a bad relationship with alcohol.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 16:05     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
I was hit and almost killed by a drunk and drugged up driver. Five minutes from home

I know how to give grace. I know how to forgive and more importantly let go of all of what I can’t control and isn’t my business.

Signed
Person who left a good lawyer recommendation and mother of two under 22 yo olds.






Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 15:56     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why should it be expunged?

It is a serious offense.

Consequences teach valuable lessons.


She’s 19 she could literally have blown a .000001 and it’s DUI.

My oldest (99th percentile IQ, AAP, attending selective university, planning to attend t14 law school) would have never done something like this. It's sickening to think unstable individuals such as this poster's daughter are allowed to roam free. Before the mob attacks: no, I am not religious, no I am not kidding, no I am not uptight.


No one cares about your kids stats.


This x 1000000000000
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 15:16     Subject: Re:Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:1) every single one of you would try to help your kid if they did this. So lay off your high horses please.

2) I doubt she will get jail time but that’s what a good lawyer is for.



"Help your kid" has different meanings to different people. Daddy bailing her out is not what I have in mind.

If my teen got a DUI I would "help" them by sending them to rehab and doing everything I could to make sure that they don't drive for the foreseeable future. I would expect them to suffer some consequences that hopefully will teach a lifelong lesson.


Oh please. I love it when DCUM posters get all hysterical for no reason. She asked for a layer recommendation. You have no idea what else they’re doing or not doing. A DUI at 19 does not equal a necessary trip to rehab. Not that you or anyone else could make an adult do that. Calm down.


You are so wrong. If your drinking is threatening other areas of your life (school, career, financial, reputation), you have a problem .

And the younger kids start, the more likely they are to develop a substance abuse disorder.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 15:12     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
This post is a good wake up call for those who allow underage kids to drink alcohol.

It is not true that they all do. Many do, but the ones who have condoning parents drink more. And more often. While they are still young, make the behaviors that can have life changing consequences difficult for them to carry out.
Anonymous
Post 01/13/2025 10:08     Subject: Need recommendations for DUI lawyer for my 19 year old
Anonymous wrote:I do think that in this day and age with all the messaging about dui and all the ride share options, that someone who still chooses to drink and drive should lose their license. They do not have the maturity or sense of responsibility to drink responsibly. Since you can’t stop them from drinking, then the goal should be to make it as hard as possible for them to drive and to come down hard when they do.

While anyone charged with any offence has a right to legal help and should access that, the goal should not be to minimize consequences.


Do you even know what lawyers do?

OP, I'm sorry. I know this must be hard and worrying. I hope you find a good lawyer and your daughter learns a valuable lesson, if for nothing else but for her own safety. And ignore most of these sanctimonious posters. They either have super young kids or are clueless about what their kids actually do. Teens do dumb things. Their teens are no better.