Anonymous wrote:Just break up and tell him there’s no chemistry and you don’t see it going anywhere
. Don’t offer to be friends or any of that. Nobody wants to be just friends.

Anonymous wrote:Five dates? I hate to ghost but...

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Anonymous wrote:You're not an AH. Sometimes people aren't attracted to someone, and that's fine.

Imagine if the roles were reversed - would you want a guy to force himself to sleep with you if it grossed him out? Of course not.

5 dates is still very early. Ending things over the phone is fine. Even a text is fine.

If you're still chicken - when I was younger I used to sometimes pull "just found out I'm pregnant. I'm 12 weeks along so it's not yours. Sorry! Good luck with everything!"

Uh, wow.

Anonymous wrote:Don't mean to ruin everyone's thanksgiving evening with such a negative post but I don't think I can bottle up my emotions for much longer.
Exactly as the title says, other than that he's a wonderful gentleman. Smart, caring, with great decorum. I like him a lot as a friend, and do enjoy spending time with him. But I don't want to kiss him. Any form of physical intimacy is like a torment to me because I have to pretend that I like it.

I really don't know how to break it to him. We are already on date #5. I feel I'm a coward, an a**h***, and I know the longer I avoid it the more I may hurt him. What should I do? Any advice is appreciated.