Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 19:00     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:Also avoid Prep and St Albans


Why?
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 15:51     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:Dying that the person who wrote this: "billionaire alpha spawn who let you know the minute you walk in the door that the fix is in: They have it all sewn up, and you are there as window dressing to fill out the high school so they can hoover up all the awards and college placements."
about children wants to make sure no one is mean to their most kindest precious baby.


The same American who shared that gem also warned me that some Americans can be humorless and that the very thing that would inspire a person to buy you a drink (we prize an ability to laugh at oneself and situations in a lighthearted way) and have a laugh at the pub will leave people oddly riled up in the States.

As for “nice kids”, what we are looking for is the sort of people who are kind, fun to be with, enjoy life and don’t take everything so seriously. As I said, I’m keeping an open mind. Another trait we value.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 13:50     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Look at Tabor Academy - grew up nearby and it's gorgeous (right on the water in MA)
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 13:47     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Peddie has rowing and nice kids.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 13:42     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
*Cate
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 13:42     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Taft is pretty culturally New England.

West Coast may fit Aussie Culture better. Care, Thatcher. A little bit less uptight and hierarchical.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 11:12     Subject: Re:Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:I would agree with PP and many others that have posted. If possible, try St. Joe's Prep in Philadelphia and/or any other boys school on the rankings on East Coast. I don't know anything about boarding school rowing so only chiming in to suggest you look at college crew teams to get a sense of where they are recruiting from. Go to websites for Cornell, Yale, Harvard, etc and you will get a sense of the best boarding school programs.

I knew alot of Aussie rowers out in San Francisco. Definitely check out Marin if West Coast is an option.


The Prep is a rowing powerhouse but no boarding as far as I know.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 11:09     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Taft is located right on a river do you can row right there, without traveling to a boathouse.

No school is going to be all nice kids. Because boarding is a relatively rare choice in the US, and extremely expensive, the families tend to be atypical in some way (affluence usually). Or unusual family situation/structure. But of course those kids can still be nice.


This isn't really true at all. Did your kids go to boarding school? This might be the perception but not the reality.


My spouse went, my relatives went, young relatives attend now. My spouse’s boarding school friends are nice people (mostly) but down to a one they are from extremely rich families and/or have unusual backgrounds (parents overseas or dead, things like that). My spouse included. I’m sure there are families who do not meet that description but many do.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:26     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Taft is located right on a river do you can row right there, without traveling to a boathouse.

No school is going to be all nice kids. Because boarding is a relatively rare choice in the US, and extremely expensive, the families tend to be atypical in some way (affluence usually). Or unusual family situation/structure. But of course those kids can still be nice.


This isn't really true at all. Did your kids go to boarding school? This might be the perception but not the reality.


the vast majority of even very affluent families in the US don’t use boarding schools. it’s by definition atypical.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:21     Subject: Re:Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
OP, look at Deerfield. Son graduated from there. Great school with very good rowing program (so I heard). My son was a hockey and soccer player, so don't know rowing that well.

Other thing to look for is a school that doesn't have a huge contingent of day students and not too many boarders that live close to the school--it can make the kids feel more lonely when all of their classmates have their families around a lot. Deerfield and NMH fit this pretty well as the locations aren't very close to...much.

Kids are nice for the most part (nowhere has ALL great kids), and the education is excellent.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:16     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:Taft is located right on a river do you can row right there, without traveling to a boathouse.

No school is going to be all nice kids. Because boarding is a relatively rare choice in the US, and extremely expensive, the families tend to be atypical in some way (affluence usually). Or unusual family situation/structure. But of course those kids can still be nice.


This isn't really true at all. Did your kids go to boarding school? This might be the perception but not the reality.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:12     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
St. Paul’s.
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:09     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Anonymous wrote:Aussie family excited to soon move your way! We would love feedback/suggestions about school culture for boarding schools that fit the following:

1. Eastern US region
2. Must have a rowing program. (His absolute most favorite sport. Rugby is a distant second.)
3. And the single most important factor: Nice kids! Not excited about schools filled with billionaire alpha spawn who let you know the minute you walk in the door that the fix is in: They have it all sewn up, and you are there as window dressing to fill out the high school so they can hoover up all the awards and college placements.

I know 3 sounds rough, but it is what we were told by a few US families at our school here in Sydney. They are discouraging us. The culture is very different from the marketing is what we are told. Toxic is what they said, but I am keeping an open mind. However, our transfer might have us moving around, and we would like a consistent four year experience with solid relationships for our child.

We are not as hung up on the "perceived prestige" factor. I've read up on the acronyms and rankings. Interesting, but not persuasive. Great teaching and community for a bright kid is the goal.

Sooo....... what have you got for me? Thanks mate


I haven’t been on campus in 20 years; with that caveat, I went to The Hill School for 3 years, and my experience fits the parameters you posted.

Details on the crew program below:

https://www.thehill.org/athletics/team-pages/coed/crew
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:06     Subject: Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
Isn’t it more important for you to see your young teen daily vs having to move once or twice in high school? Why not have one parent stay put and the other move?
Anonymous
Post 05/02/2024 09:03     Subject: Re:Looking for our boarding school unicorn?
I would agree with PP and many others that have posted. If possible, try St. Joe's Prep in Philadelphia and/or any other boys school on the rankings on East Coast. I don't know anything about boarding school rowing so only chiming in to suggest you look at college crew teams to get a sense of where they are recruiting from. Go to websites for Cornell, Yale, Harvard, etc and you will get a sense of the best boarding school programs.

I knew alot of Aussie rowers out in San Francisco. Definitely check out Marin if West Coast is an option.