Anonymous wrote:Consider that a true antique is at least 100 years old, so furniture from 1924. That era was wood/all brown and trend is away from brown furniture so most pieces get repainted or donated or trashed.
The scale seems off - positively tiny in today’s new homes with open plans. I know from experience in that I was fortunate to furnish nearly my entire first home with so much from my late grandparents everything from nightstands to dressers to desks and a cedar chest. Twenty years later, only a few pieces remain. Some I’ve passed along to family members, some have broken and I’ve recently donated even more - I just want something newer and fresher and these pieces seem just…tired.
Same reason I’m about to donate my very plain wedding china - it’s just lost its appeal and my lifestyle and tastes have changed.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spin off from another thread.
I cognitively understand that antiques are worth less these days. I just don’t get why. I love antiques. They’re often sturdy, always better for the planet, and made without hazardous chemicals. They’re safer in a house fire, due to slower burn time and not letting off noxious gas. If damaged, they can be refinished. Sure, I don’t care for ceramic figurines, commemorative plates, or other tchotchkes, but surely there’s a place for nice case goods.
It depends on an antique of course, but I wouldn’t put such a blanket statement that antique items are free of hazardous materials. Even if not exposed at production, no guarantees that the previous owners did not apply paints / varnishes / pesticides to item.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Spin off from another thread.
I cognitively understand that antiques are worth less these days. I just don’t get why. I love antiques. They’re often sturdy, always better for the planet, and made without hazardous chemicals. They’re safer in a house fire, due to slower burn time and not letting off noxious gas. If damaged, they can be refinished. Sure, I don’t care for ceramic figurines, commemorative plates, or other tchotchkes, but surely there’s a place for nice case goods.
It depends on an antique of course, but I wouldn’t put such a blanket statement that antique items are free of hazardous materials. Even if not exposed at production, no guarantees that the previous owners did not apply paints / varnishes / pesticides to item.
Anonymous wrote:Spin off from another thread.
I cognitively understand that antiques are worth less these days. I just don’t get why. I love antiques. They’re often sturdy, always better for the planet, and made without hazardous chemicals. They’re safer in a house fire, due to slower burn time and not letting off noxious gas. If damaged, they can be refinished. Sure, I don’t care for ceramic figurines, commemorative plates, or other tchotchkes, but surely there’s a place for nice case goods.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m with you, op!
I’m the gal who has multiple sets of China (my own, as well as sets that belonged to my mother and grandmother). I can’t imagine hosting a holiday without family China. I hate serving platters and vases that belonged to my great grandmother!
I have artwork and family pics going back generations. The frames are likely more valuable than what’s inside.
I love antique furniture. The tables and dressers are solid and they bring a warmth to a home that more modern furniture can’t.
And I love China cabinets, sideboards with hutches, etc. I’m actually trying to figure out where to put two China cabinets I’m inheriting from my mother and MIL.
Somewhat relatedly: I’m baffled as to why armoires fell out of favor. Remember when everyone hid their tv in grand armoires? And now they’re proudly displayed on walls. So weird. I have a gorgeous armoire that I will keep forever and hand down to one of my kids. It’s probably the most solid piece of furniture I have.
Pro tip: you can pick up antique china plates and use them for dessert plates at parties. They don’t need to match. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a party guest compliment my assorted dishes. People routinely comment it reminds them of dishes their mother or grandmother had.
I like all the same things you like, and I have access to nice family antiques, but I think we just live very different lives. Dessert plates at parties? I don't have time to host a lot of parties, and why would I keep a second set of dishes for them instead of using everyday ware?
I get it, I grew up in a house that hosted large family parties, but my generation is smaller and geographically scattered. It's hard to make any of the old stuff fit my life.
I like this stuff too, but I live in a 1500 sq foot house. The TV is mounted on the wall because an armoire would take up half the 10×11' room it's in. And I am really sad that I don't use the non-microwaveable, non-dishwashable family China regularly, but I have small children and only space to store "everyday" dishes, so the China is in a box in the attic. There definitely isn't space for separate dessert plates!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m with you, op!
I’m the gal who has multiple sets of China (my own, as well as sets that belonged to my mother and grandmother). I can’t imagine hosting a holiday without family China. I hate serving platters and vases that belonged to my great grandmother!
I have artwork and family pics going back generations. The frames are likely more valuable than what’s inside.
I love antique furniture. The tables and dressers are solid and they bring a warmth to a home that more modern furniture can’t.
And I love China cabinets, sideboards with hutches, etc. I’m actually trying to figure out where to put two China cabinets I’m inheriting from my mother and MIL.
Somewhat relatedly: I’m baffled as to why armoires fell out of favor. Remember when everyone hid their tv in grand armoires? And now they’re proudly displayed on walls. So weird. I have a gorgeous armoire that I will keep forever and hand down to one of my kids. It’s probably the most solid piece of furniture I have.
Pro tip: you can pick up antique china plates and use them for dessert plates at parties. They don’t need to match. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a party guest compliment my assorted dishes. People routinely comment it reminds them of dishes their mother or grandmother had.
I like all the same things you like, and I have access to nice family antiques, but I think we just live very different lives. Dessert plates at parties? I don't have time to host a lot of parties, and why would I keep a second set of dishes for them instead of using everyday ware?
I get it, I grew up in a house that hosted large family parties, but my generation is smaller and geographically scattered. It's hard to make any of the old stuff fit my life.