My husband when he was about 45. Very fit, a little gray hair, career going great and he could wear me out in bed. He’s in his early 50s now and still going strong but 45 was awesome.

It depends on how well one takes care of themselves and how they naturally age. I find women who are naturally attractive and take care of their bodies and looks to be more most attractive 37-43. Their bodies are fuller and more feminine, they walk with confidence, and their wisdom is a turn on.

Ok, I’ll be that guy. Cus most of you are either lying or delusional.

Women peak physically at 17-22.

99 women out of 100 look their best in that range… in great shape, clear skin, soft hair, everything is high and tight.

I don’t get the professed preferences here for wrinkles, sag, C section scars, etc. Older women with those attributes are often better in bed, so maybe if you’re factoring that in. But just pure physical attractiveness? No contest.

Anonymous wrote:42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I have seen this answer on DCUM more than once. What’s with the sag and muffin top being a turn on? I don’t get it.

Asking as a healthy BMI slightly saggy muffiny 41 year old mom.

It depends on the person. Most women look better when younger because that's when it's easiest and takes less effort. As people age, keeping the weight off is more complicated, and many just give up. For those who don't give up, I think looking great into the mid-50s is doable.

Anonymous wrote:I think men can be sexy until age 55.

After that it’s all downhill from there.

Sure like any + all generalizations there is always an exception to the rule - but most men just look like 👴🏿 Grandfathers after 55.
Except a select few.

Will Smith, Dr. Dre, Eddie Murphy.

The old saying, black don’t crack.

Anonymous wrote:Some gray hair and laugh lines are very attractive on a man.

+1. I don't know what it is about gray hair at the temples...

Women in their 20’s, men in their 40’s.

42 male

Preppy woman 35-45, large boobs with some sag and small muffin tops, not fat and not super skinny or overly athletic.

I’m 42 and have always had a thing for older men - like 10+ years older.

Even though men around my age and younger generally tend to be more attractive and in better shape I usually find them to be too immature. I know these are wild generalizations but speaking from my own personal experience. I know that’s not always the case.

Anonymous wrote:I think my looks have peaked at 39. I am fit, have no wrinkles or visible signs of age, and have the money and knowledge to do right by my hair, skin, and clothes. My face is round so I think the thinning out that happens with age is actually better looking on me. In my mid and late 20s I was popping out babies and did not look or feel my best.

I feel this way at 40-41. I was less confident and with a chubby face when I was younger, then I was in mommy mode for a decade. I get turned heads when I walk in places now, men of all ages.

Attractive confident people look good. I went out with a 30 year old for a work event yesterday and his imaturity wasn't attractive. I'd say seasoned men at least 35 are attractive and older as long as they're fit.

I have always been attracted to men about 10 years older than I am. Always. I'm 53, and it's still the case. Definitely not attracted to men younger than I am.

Late bloomer. Female. I was hottest 25-35. I look young for my age age my round face thinned out slightly. I went from girl next door to men beating down my door.

I find men hottest between mid 20s-mid 30s. Peak physical specimens without looking too young.

Men can be sexy as they age- but if I compare a young Paul Newman to an old one or a young Brad Pitt to an old one.

The younger is so much hotter.

I find men around 35-45 to look the best. I find the same for women too, actually. I was most attractive from 27-37. My skin is better in my 40s because I REALLY started taking care of it, but the wrinkles around my eyes bother me.

20-25 men. Need to look like they’ve been in the gym every day of that. It’s the best hair and teeth ages for them after that men let their smiles go and I hate that. These are the ages when boyfriends were fun. After this age they are naggy, racist, misogynistic and argumentative/combative, drunk and set in their ways. Just talking to old men is exhausting until they get grandpa ages and lose their filters in “endearing” ways.

If you are 20 live it up. The men are all downhill from there.