Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 18:30     Subject: Re:Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:Rashguards protects against the sun. Even if she wants a bikini, she still needs to protect her skin. My son can go topless but he wears a rashguard due to our family history.


Same here. My 13 yo son hates sunscreen, so he wears a rash guard still.

DD is 11 and still wears a rash guard.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 15:21     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.


“Nipple action” doesn’t need to be 100% obscured, god forbid someone know you have nipples while wearing a swimsuit. I wouldn’t make my daughter wear multiple layers at the beach because of nipples. Unless she wants to put on multiple layers, I wouldn’t go casting your insecurities on her.


LOL the "it's just your body" mom chiming in on how to make sure your kid looks like they don't have an adult in their life.

This is not hard. You wear a bikini and put a rash guard/swim shirt on over it. Millions of people are doing it everyday.


Just like millions of women are wearing bikini tops or one pieces without foam cup inserts and where-gasp- a nipple outline is visible. Not a big deal


She’s 11.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 12:09     Subject: Re:Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Rashguards protects against the sun. Even if she wants a bikini, she still needs to protect her skin. My son can go topless but he wears a rashguard due to our family history.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 12:03     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.


“Nipple action” doesn’t need to be 100% obscured, god forbid someone know you have nipples while wearing a swimsuit. I wouldn’t make my daughter wear multiple layers at the beach because of nipples. Unless she wants to put on multiple layers, I wouldn’t go casting your insecurities on her.


LOL the "it's just your body" mom chiming in on how to make sure your kid looks like they don't have an adult in their life.

This is not hard. You wear a bikini and put a rash guard/swim shirt on over it. Millions of people are doing it everyday.


Just like millions of women are wearing bikini tops or one pieces without foam cup inserts and where-gasp- a nipple outline is visible. Not a big deal
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 09:59     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.


“Nipple action” doesn’t need to be 100% obscured, god forbid someone know you have nipples while wearing a swimsuit. I wouldn’t make my daughter wear multiple layers at the beach because of nipples. Unless she wants to put on multiple layers, I wouldn’t go casting your insecurities on her.


LOL the "it's just your body" mom chiming in on how to make sure your kid looks like they don't have an adult in their life.

This is not hard. You wear a bikini and put a rash guard/swim shirt on over it. Millions of people are doing it everyday.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 09:57     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.


“Nipple action” doesn’t need to be 100% obscured, god forbid someone know you have nipples while wearing a swimsuit. I wouldn’t make my daughter wear multiple layers at the beach because of nipples. Unless she wants to put on multiple layers, I wouldn’t go casting your insecurities on her.


You’re the outlier on the nipple issue, sweetheart.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 08:23     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.


“Nipple action” doesn’t need to be 100% obscured, god forbid someone know you have nipples while wearing a swimsuit. I wouldn’t make my daughter wear multiple layers at the beach because of nipples. Unless she wants to put on multiple layers, I wouldn’t go casting your insecurities on her.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 08:14     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Lands End rash guards for girls have lining in the front.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 08:14     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
I would look for a bralette style swim top.

I (an adult woman, natch) wear boardshorts and a rashguard frequently. I burn easily and like outdoor sports.

I personally am a DD and wear an underwired bikini top with some support. Lots of ways adult women can wear shorts and a rashie.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 08:01     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:I’m an adult woman with a C cup and I wear board shorts and a sleeveless rash guard. It’s fine. I’m way more covered uo than someone wearing a bikini. Let her wear what she wants


😳😳😳
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2023 00:47     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:I’m an adult woman with a C cup and I wear board shorts and a sleeveless rash guard. It’s fine. I’m way more covered uo than someone wearing a bikini. Let her wear what she wants


So you think! Lol.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 20:55     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
I’m an adult woman with a C cup and I wear board shorts and a sleeveless rash guard. It’s fine. I’m way more covered uo than someone wearing a bikini. Let her wear what she wants
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 20:34     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:You can definitely get rashguards with a built-in bra.

If nipplage is a concern, get silicone nipple covers on Amazon. They're great (but don't help with bouncing, obviously).


Wow nipple covers for swimming? That seems risky. Hey, what’s that floating in the pool?
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 19:26     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:Depends how much support she needs/want. If she doesn’t feel like she needs actual support, why does she need to wear a separate top under the rashgaurd? It’s the same thing as wearing a non padded, no shelf bra one piece.


When my DD was 11, the nipple action started to happen, even though she was still mostly flat-chested. That’s when - and why - she started wearing a bikini top under the rash guard.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2023 18:37     Subject: Developing Tween DD and rashguard question
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:swimsuit top underneath or a sports bra.

However, I'd ask her if she wants to just wear a swim suit. She may be outgrowing the rashguard/swim trunks look.


+2 If she is 11, I bet she has outgrown the swim trunk/rash guard look by spring break or summer.


What a weird assumption All kids are different.