Anonymous
02/07/2023 23:51
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
She seems to have the emotional maturity of a teenager. He is similar.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 23:46
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
I suspect he already drives her crazy privately. She has always believed mightily in her own mind, will, and power to "manifest" . She has omnipotent fantasies and has for years, but the success and drive and control that took her to the top cannot In fact make her partners stay sober or strong or faithful. But she doesn't accept this on an, emotional level. She's a slow learner that way, and she has held on to romantic fantasies with an iron grip, for reasons that are unknowable to the rest of us. Obviously being alone and not having a man is extremely uncomfortable and probably deeply threatening to her. Why, I don't know.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 23:03
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wonder what he said to her.
Oh, yeah. I saw that and found their behavior weird. They did not seem to know they were on TV.
"Stop," JLo reportedly told her husband, according to lip reader, who spoke to the Daily Mail. "Look more friendly. Look motivated."
"I might," Ben responded.
This would be funny if it were true. But controlling as I think J Lo is, who the heck say "Look motivated" at an event? Unfortunately for my own amusement, seems an unlikely conversation...
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:30
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wonder what he said to her.
Oh, yeah. I saw that and found their behavior weird. They did not seem to know they were on TV.
"Stop," JLo reportedly told her husband, according to lip reader, who spoke to the Daily Mail. "Look more friendly. Look motivated."
"I might," Ben responded.
Jen's body language indicated she was annoyed at her partner. The Shotgun Wedding star quickly adjusted her stance and pasted a smile on her face when she realised Grammys host Trevor Noah was sitting next to her and being filmed.
Ben seemingly couldn't hide his boredom throughout the night, with a clip of the pair going viral showing JLo dancing excitedly during a Motown tribute performed by Stevie Wonder, Chris Stapleton and Smokey Robinson, with the Batman star looking miserable as he nodded his head slightly to the beat.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:29
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Why should JLo be embarrassed? She had iron control and discipline. She has reached the heights of fame and fortune on her talent and tenacity.
She will control Ben Affleck. Either he will straighten up or he will be thrown out. Jenny from the block is not the White girl J Garner. She will not tolerate his stupidity. Love or no love. JLo is not a naive teenager. Jenny from the block has been around the block a few times and with more gangsta men than poor ol addict sad sack boy!
Disagree. She is obsessed with making it work with him. She had a whole album dedicated to him and rumour is her next album is part II. He has an inexplicable hold over her (ever read the lyrics to Dear Ben?) and she will cling on to him for dear life. If things end between them it will be due to his choosing.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:29
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Wonder what he said to her.
Oh, yeah. I saw that and found their behavior weird. They did not seem to know they were on TV.
"Stop," JLo reportedly told her husband, according to lip reader, who spoke to the Daily Mail. "Look more friendly. Look motivated."
"I might," Ben responded.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:22
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Jlo never won a Grammy. Wild. She seems good at attracting attention.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:19
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Why should JLo be embarrassed? She had iron control and discipline. She has reached the heights of fame and fortune on her talent and tenacity.
She will control Ben Affleck. Either he will straighten up or he will be thrown out. Jenny from the block is not the White girl J Garner. She will not tolerate his stupidity. Love or no love. JLo is not a naive teenager. Jenny from the block has been around the block a few times and with more gangsta men than poor ol addict sad sack boy!
I think it would be embarrassing to argue and look like that on national TV, but you sound like you're okay with all of it. And, yes, I get that she's "been around the block" a few times.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:15
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Wonder what he said to her.
Oh, yeah. I saw that and found their behavior weird. They did not seem to know they were on TV.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:03
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Why should JLo be embarrassed? She had iron control and discipline. She has reached the heights of fame and fortune on her talent and tenacity.
She will control Ben Affleck. Either he will straighten up or he will be thrown out. Jenny from the block is not the White girl J Garner. She will not tolerate his stupidity. Love or no love. JLo is not a naive teenager. Jenny from the block has been around the block a few times and with more gangsta men than poor ol addict sad sack boy!
How many divorces will that be, not even counting all of the broken engagements.
Jenny needs to learn to live with herself. She has an incredibly bad picker.
Marc Antony cheated on her too. He’s on his 4th marriage. A-Rod cheated on her. The year marriage to the waiter, then the back up dancer dude, Pdiddy engagement. I think Ben was cheating the first go around
Anonymous
02/07/2023 22:00
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Why should JLo be embarrassed? She had iron control and discipline. She has reached the heights of fame and fortune on her talent and tenacity.
She will control Ben Affleck. Either he will straighten up or he will be thrown out. Jenny from the block is not the White girl J Garner. She will not tolerate his stupidity. Love or no love. JLo is not a naive teenager. Jenny from the block has been around the block a few times and with more gangsta men than poor ol addict sad sack boy!
How many divorces will that be, not even counting all of the broken engagements.
Jenny needs to learn to live with herself. She has an incredibly bad picker.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 21:13
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Why should JLo be embarrassed? She had iron control and discipline. She has reached the heights of fame and fortune on her talent and tenacity.
She will control Ben Affleck. Either he will straighten up or he will be thrown out. Jenny from the block is not the White girl J Garner. She will not tolerate his stupidity. Love or no love. JLo is not a naive teenager. Jenny from the block has been around the block a few times and with more gangsta men than poor ol addict sad sack boy!
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:33
Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.
I'm sure she's dying inside that practically the whole world has seen this side of her.
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:26
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:He seems like such a big baby
Agreed. Blaming his drinking on being married to Jennifer Garner was truly immature. Own your choices.
And Pitt blamed his pot addiction on Aniston…and her even Angelina’s wiles couldn’t keep him from boozing and abusing like she thought.
I don’t know why these women don’t learn from the first wives!!! Honey, you ain’t any better and it’s not because she didn’t treat him right or have enough sex or was a nag. It’s what is wrong with these men!
I know, the second wives both buy the guys’ sad sack stories (she doesn’t understand me!) and believe they’re special and history won’t repeat itself. Oops!
Anonymous
02/07/2023 20:22
Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:She's a lot of course, in the ways we can all know. But I'm sure he's a moody pia as well. The big difference is, she is highly contained and has an iron will and an iron discipline. Just highly controlled and very, very aware and mindful of her of her self created public persona . She must have enormous self control and self possession.
He's sloppy, obviously struggled with impulsively (as his addiction reflects) and much less contained. After the honeymoon is over, the ways he is a mess are going to be challenging for her and her belief in her power to control. I rarely say this, but I feel oddly bad for her...she likely believes he is much stronger internally than he actually is, because she's in love and in idealization. Time will tell
+1 I think you totally nailed it.