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Anonymous wrote:College kids being political is ridiculous and embarrassing. You can't even drink legally, what do you know about anything.

Haven't voted, held a job or even stood up without parents bankrolling you, aaand from this wisdom and experience you're going to solve all our problems within 10 years

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Anonymous wrote:College kids being political is ridiculous and embarrassing. You can't even drink legally, what do you know about anything.

I agree. I am mortified when I think back on all the idiotic things I said and thought, and protested about. It really is true that the brain doesn't finish forming until a person reaches their late twenties.

Just because you were in idiot in college doesn't mean everyone else was.

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Anonymous wrote:College kids being political is ridiculous and embarrassing. You can't even drink legally, what do you know about anything.

I agree. I am mortified when I think back on all the idiotic things I said and thought, and protested about. It really is true that the brain doesn't finish forming until a person reaches their late twenties.

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Anonymous wrote:OK, changing the topic here. My minority opinion: I hate ambush returning servicemember videos involving young children and their mom or dad. I think they are exploitative.

that's the stupidest thing I have ever heard. What should the servicemember's dc do instead? Shake their hand?

Not the PP - but this is what I think she is talking about:

https://youtu.be/Y2mk_zZCZVE

Life is not a reality TV.

I still don't understand why a dc can't show emotion when their father returns from a war or why it is exploitive

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Anonymous wrote:Isn't there another thread for this ongoing stay at home vs working mom?

Why is it going on and on and on here?

Because there's one militant stay at home mommy on here who needs to

For every militant stay at home mom thee are two militant working moms

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Anonymous wrote:Wohm's have missed the whole point of motherhood

and fathers?

Also, why do you allow your DDs to go to school? Wouldn't they be better off SH with you to learn how to cook and clean in heels and pearls?

Hyperbole helps no one PP, come back when you can make a reasonable argument

This is absolutely a reasonable argument. Moms without very little education can run a household successfully. I just hope your DDs find life more interesting than you.

What about your DH? Genuinely curious to know what you think about his role in parenting?

No it is not a reasonable argument.

Not sure why you think the person that has a penis to spread his sperm has equal parenting skills as a person who was biologically intended for childrearing

This makes me sad. There is nothing wrong with being a SAHM, but to think that parents have such unequal parenting roles and that women are solely designed to bear children and not have careers is just sad. I guess if you were born in the 1800s you would be okay not voting? You don't seem supportive of the progression of women's rights.

I support women's rights. I just don't buy into the "dads can be as good as moms" fad. I have never known a child to want their father when they are sick or hurt. I doubt you have either.

Now I just feel sad for your DC. Frankly I feel bad for your whole family. My DC are happy with either parent when they are sick or hurt.

Ditto. My husband shares parenting duties and if he is the parent around, then DC runs to him when hurt. I feel sorry for the husbands and children of sahm that hold the reins so tightly that dad never forms a close bond with their kids.

I feel sorry for yours that their dad is more capable of healing them then you are. Or maybe somehow they think that you won't be there or that you'll rush away somewhere so they need to get the nearest person they see?

New poster here - you really need help. You get some kind of perverse satisfaction from being THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN COMFORT your kids. Don't you WANT them to have a close relationship with their father? Or because you contribute nothing else to your household, you convince them that only mommy will do? When they go to school, will you let the teachers comfort them? Or will you throw yourself off a bridge because your life has no meaning?

And how deeply sad for all of you that you see your husband as a paycheck, not a father.

Can you honestly not see that a child needs their mother? fathers, teachers, daycare workers(well not in my house, in yours maybe) all have their place, but no one can beat mom.

you put a parent on equal footing with paid care providers? do you seriously not see why that's whacked?

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Anonymous wrote:"Or perhaps SAHMs who are happy with their choice aren't playing the martyr at all. How does choosing to be at home make you a martyr? When I hear that accusation, especially from a WOHM, it becomes crystal clear that there are some major insecurities at play. Why else would you make such judgmental and frankly, false, accusations about another person's life choices? Has it ever occurred to you that SAHMs could easily take on employment if they wished to, but they *choose not to*? I'm extremely organized, motivated, and intelligent - as are my other friends who are SAHMs. Your remarks just make you sound bitter and resentful. If you're so delighted with your life, then you shouldn't feel the need to knock down others who wouldn't be happy working outside the home. Right?"


"Choosing to be at home would make moms who would rather work martyrs."

Certainly. But moms who choose to be home because *that's what they want to do* aren't in any way martyrs. They'd rather be doing that than WOH. So good for them for following their bliss.

As long as they admit it, that's fine. MANY SAHMs do it mostly for themselves. And again, that's fine. But don't pretend it's to make a husband's life easier or enrich a child's.

You know, those things aren't mutually exclusive. I SAH because I want to and I enjoy it. But it is also true that my husband's life is easier and my child's life is enriched. And I'm happy about that. It's all good.

And most people aren't disagreeing with you on the reasons you SAH. However, my minority opinion of you is that you are lacking in some way. Either you are lazy, unintelligent, unmotivated, disorganized, a procrastinator, undisciplined, a stress case etc. All of the SAHMs I know, besides those with DC with very high level special needs or serious medical illnesses, have any combination of these traits.

You're right - that is a minority opinion and also extremely amusing. Clearly, you don't know the SAHMs I know, who make up a good percentage of the moms in my community. These are all very accomplished women who decided to leave their careers to SAH, some for a short time, others for much longer.

I'm sure you realize that you are lacking in some way - probably multiple ways - right? Do you really want to get into the many ways in which you are lacking? I thought educated, thoughtful people had put the mommy wars behind them. You must not fall into that category.

It's actually not amusing. I find it sad for the families and the SAHMs. Most of my neighborhood is SAHMs and this describes the majority of them. Some left careers and others never had one. The vast majority that left their careers wouldn't be considered "very accomplished" in their short amount of years in their careers.

And if you'd like to talk about me, let's go ahead. I don't believe I'm lacking in any ways. Don't mistake that for being perfect, because that's subjective anyways.

I'm not actually sure what you're sad about here. a)Women are raising their own children b) DH's earning enough to they can have a SAHM c) The DW's trusting their DH enough to know that he will not try to put his dick into the nearest wohm at his office or d) The SAHM overcoming (or never having) insecurities about their intellect. No wait, now I can see why you would find this sad.

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Anonymous wrote:OK, changing the topic here. My minority opinion: I hate ambush returning servicemember videos involving young children and their mom or dad. I think they are exploitative.

that's the stupidest thing I have ever heard. What should the servicemember's dc do instead? Shake their hand?

Not the PP - but this is what I think she is talking about:

https://youtu.be/Y2mk_zZCZVE

Life is not a reality TV.

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Anonymous wrote:OK, changing the topic here. My minority opinion: I hate ambush returning servicemember videos involving young children and their mom or dad. I think they are exploitative.

that's the stupidest thing I have ever heard. What should the servicemember's dc do instead? Shake their hand?

Anonymous wrote:OK, changing the topic here. My minority opinion: I hate ambush returning servicemember videos involving young children and their mom or dad. I think they are exploitative.