Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 20:18     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.


Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 20:16     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He seems like such a big baby


Agreed. Blaming his drinking on being married to Jennifer Garner was truly immature. Own your choices.


And Pitt blamed his pot addiction on Aniston…and her even Angelina’s wiles couldn’t keep him from boozing and abusing like she thought.

I don’t know why these women don’t learn from the first wives!!! Honey, you ain’t any better and it’s not because she didn’t treat him right or have enough sex or was a nag. It’s what is wrong with these men!
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 20:15     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She's a lot of course, in the ways we can all know. But I'm sure he's a moody pia as well. The big difference is, she is highly contained and has an iron will and an iron discipline. Just highly controlled and very, very aware and mindful of her of her self created public persona . She must have enormous self control and self possession.

He's sloppy, obviously struggled with impulsively (as his addiction reflects) and much less contained. After the honeymoon is over, the ways he is a mess are going to be challenging for her and her belief in her power to control. I rarely say this, but I feel oddly bad for her...she likely believes he is much stronger internally than he actually is, because she's in love and in idealization. Time will tell


And his banging the nanny and cheating on everywoman he dated or married…


True. He certainly nailed lots of women other than Garner and Paltrow when with them, so this just seems like his m.o. maybe he’ll be literally too exhausted to act like a cheating dog?
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 20:13     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:She's a lot of course, in the ways we can all know. But I'm sure he's a moody pia as well. The big difference is, she is highly contained and has an iron will and an iron discipline. Just highly controlled and very, very aware and mindful of her of her self created public persona . She must have enormous self control and self possession.

He's sloppy, obviously struggled with impulsively (as his addiction reflects) and much less contained. After the honeymoon is over, the ways he is a mess are going to be challenging for her and her belief in her power to control. I rarely say this, but I feel oddly bad for her...she likely believes he is much stronger internally than he actually is, because she's in love and in idealization. Time will tell


And his banging the nanny and cheating on everywoman he dated or married…
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 20:10     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He’s going to realize he had it so much better with Garner.

JLo is much more controlling.

Shame they, and the public, don’t realize your SO does not have to be with you at every event. Did Swift’s hubby or BF go with her? No.



I think Garner was more of a taskmaster about expecting full maturity in a partner, and was completely anti-his various vices. We know Jlo is ok with his gambling and smoking at least, and shares his desire to "live large." They seem superficially compatible in some ways but she's so controlling about public image, that part will get him down fast. Both women seem to expect him to be a grownup with the kids. That part is good!


Gross. Smoking makes your hands and mouth smell and it permeates everything. It’s like kissing an ashtray. He looks like every alcoholic/addict in any blue collar town across America when he’s doing it. Gross. All addicts pick up smoking.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 19:28     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.



Well she does have him groomed and dressed like he's a child. It's really weird.


Maybe she persuaded him it’s good for his professional rep too. But, yeah, he never struck me as the type who’d go along with this.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 19:14     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
He looked like he had diarrhea.

The dyed beard made him looks like a pedo too.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 18:54     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
He looked tired, beaten down, no light inside. Except here:



See the difference?
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 18:36     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:NP. I also think the lack of facial expression is Botox. He looks like he just got a bunch of fresh injections. Super puffy, shiny, slick face.



Maybe in part. CDAN says he was drunk. Not a reliable source, of course, but I did wonder if maybe he wasn't just a little out of it.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 18:33     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:He’s going to realize he had it so much better with Garner.

JLo is much more controlling.

Shame they, and the public, don’t realize your SO does not have to be with you at every event. Did Swift’s hubby or BF go with her? No.



I think Garner was more of a taskmaster about expecting full maturity in a partner, and was completely anti-his various vices. We know Jlo is ok with his gambling and smoking at least, and shares his desire to "live large." They seem superficially compatible in some ways but she's so controlling about public image, that part will get him down fast. Both women seem to expect him to be a grownup with the kids. That part is good!
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 18:23     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
NP. I also think the lack of facial expression is Botox. He looks like he just got a bunch of fresh injections. Super puffy, shiny, slick face.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 18:03     Subject: Re:Bennifer Revisited
He’s going to realize he had it so much better with Garner.

JLo is much more controlling.

Shame they, and the public, don’t realize your SO does not have to be with you at every event. Did Swift’s hubby or BF go with her? No.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 17:58     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.



Well she does have him groomed and dressed like he's a child. It's really weird.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 17:10     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
Anonymous wrote:I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.


You got all this from one picture?!
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2023 14:31     Subject: Bennifer Revisited
I'm just amused by watching HER become the controlling nag. I'm sure she had him convinced she was a cool girl who'd be all romance and sex. He'd have to be pretty dumb not to realize he'd have it even worse with her. Not that any woman should put up with his immaturity, this is just from his childish perspective.