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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Of course, victims shouldn't stay. But they do. Many, many victims stay. My mother stayed with her abuser (my father) and went back to him over and over again. He cheated until the day she died, and she took him back over and over until the day she died. Yes, it sounds crazy, and maybe my mother was crazy. But I also know she hated herself for it, but couldn't find her way out of it.

My mom was like this too until my dad finally left her for another woman. He's a narcissist but my mom also met him when she was 14 yrs old. So I don't support the claim that Cassie was groomed when she was a full adult during her Diddy relationship. My dad was also poorer than my mom and Diddy is super rich so Cassie stayed for the $$ and lifestyle she had

I'm the person you quoted. My father left my mother for another woman and even married her. And my mom still took my dad back. My mother met my dad when she was 20. Abuse is complicated.

Sounds more like a dependency issue honestly. I guess I would call my mother's relationship abusive but only because I saw yelling, screaming, throwing matches and my dad always had a short temper and he hid my mom when she was younger and he even hit me once when I was a kid and my mom was super dependent on my dad for all her life. I still wouldn't consider Cassie to be groomed though. Abused yes but she was an adult woman with super rich man. Without that abuse people would say that she's only with him for the money, but obviously the money had something to do with it with her staying because I doubt that she would have stayed if diddy was a Popeyes or Wendy's worker.

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Of course, victims shouldn't stay. But they do. Many, many victims stay. My mother stayed with her abuser (my father) and went back to him over and over again. He cheated until the day she died, and she took him back over and over until the day she died. Yes, it sounds crazy, and maybe my mother was crazy. But I also know she hated herself for it, but couldn't find her way out of it.

My mom was like this too until my dad finally left her for another woman. He's a narcissist but my mom also met him when she was 14 yrs old. So I don't support the claim that Cassie was groomed when she was a full adult during her Diddy relationship. My dad was also poorer than my mom and Diddy is super rich so Cassie stayed for the $$ and lifestyle she had

I'm the person you quoted. My father left my mother for another woman and even married her. And my mom still took my dad back. My mother met my dad when she was 20. Abuse is complicated.

Sounds more like a dependency issue honestly. I guess I would call my mother's relationship abusive but only because I saw yelling, screaming, throwing matches and my dad always had a short temper and he hid my mom when she was younger and he even hit me once when I was a kid and my mom was super dependent on my dad for all her life. I still wouldn't consider Cassie to be groomed though. Abused yes but she was an adult woman with super rich man. Without that abuse people would say that she's only with him for the money, but obviously the money had something to do with it with her staying because I doubt that she would have stayed if diddy was a Popeyes or Wendy's worker.

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Of course, victims shouldn't stay. But they do. Many, many victims stay. My mother stayed with her abuser (my father) and went back to him over and over again. He cheated until the day she died, and she took him back over and over until the day she died. Yes, it sounds crazy, and maybe my mother was crazy. But I also know she hated herself for it, but couldn't find her way out of it.

My mom was like this too until my dad finally left her for another woman. He's a narcissist but my mom also met him when she was 14 yrs old. So I don't support the claim that Cassie was groomed when she was a full adult during her Diddy relationship. My dad was also poorer than my mom and Diddy is super rich so Cassie stayed for the $$ and lifestyle she had

I'm the person you quoted. My father left my mother for another woman and even married her. And my mom still took my dad back. My mother met my dad when she was 20. Abuse is complicated.

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Of course, victims shouldn't stay. But they do. Many, many victims stay. My mother stayed with her abuser (my father) and went back to him over and over again. He cheated until the day she died, and she took him back over and over until the day she died. Yes, it sounds crazy, and maybe my mother was crazy. But I also know she hated herself for it, but couldn't find her way out of it.

My mom was like this too until my dad finally left her for another woman. He's a narcissist but my mom also met him when she was 14 yrs old. So I don't support the claim that Cassie was groomed when she was a full adult during her Diddy relationship. My dad was also poorer than my mom and Diddy is super rich so Cassie stayed for the $$ and lifestyle she had

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Of course, victims shouldn't stay. But they do. Many, many victims stay. My mother stayed with her abuser (my father) and went back to him over and over again. He cheated until the day she died, and she took him back over and over until the day she died. Yes, it sounds crazy, and maybe my mother was crazy. But I also know she hated herself for it, but couldn't find her way out of it.

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

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Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

I would never say that Cassie isn't a victim but victims shouldn't stay. No matter how they try to rationalize it, they sound crazy.

Anonymous wrote:All those posters who are blaming Cassie for staying and saying he's not a victim should be listening. She's speaking to why victims stay, what their state of mind is, etc.

Anonymous wrote:She just testified that the prosecution is paying her 6k a day for court. She was getting $500 in the Depp / Heard trial. The prosecution led with that, btw. Which is smart because the defense would've brought it up anyway.

Anonymous wrote:Our daily updater hasn't posted yet (appreciate them) so I will:
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/live-blog/diddy-sean-combs-trial-testimony-live-updates-rcna207379


"Sean "Diddy" Combs' trial will today hear from Homeland Security Investigations Special Agent Gerard Gannon, who led searches of his properties in Miami.

Dawn Hughes, a forensic psychologist expected to testify later today

Grammy-winning rapper Kid Cudi will not testify today, prosecutors said. But now it looks like Kid Cudi won't begin his direct examination by federal prosecutors until tomorrow."

Anonymous wrote:Our daily updater hasn't posted yet (appreciate them) so I will:
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/live-blog/diddy-sean-combs-trial-testimony-live-updates-rcna207379


"Sean "Diddy" Combs' trial will today hear from Homeland Security Investigations Special Agent Gerard Gannon, who led searches of his properties in Miami.

Dawn Hughes, a forensic psychologist expected to testify later today

Grammy-winning rapper Kid Cudi will not testify today, prosecutors said. But now it looks like Kid Cudi won't begin his direct examination by federal prosecutors until tomorrow."