I've said this before: she needs to let go of the celebrity power couple aspiration. It never works out for the woman. Yo-yoing to a broke dancer isn't the answer either. Plenty of successful, attractive men who are not celebrities!

Anonymous wrote:I don't think she is a mess. I greatly admire her. She looks 35 and she has energy to match. She is a huge over-achiever and I think she genuinely loved this man. Stop trashing her.

yeah, she's definitely an over-achiever when it comes to marriages, divorces, and broken relationships and engagements!

Anonymous wrote:I don't think she is a mess. I greatly admire her. She looks 35 and she has energy to match. She is a huge over-achiever and I think she genuinely loved this man. Stop trashing her.

If you watch her documentary you will see she looks great but very clearly not 35.

I don't think she is a mess. I greatly admire her. She looks 35 and she has energy to match. She is a huge over-achiever and I think she genuinely loved this man. Stop trashing her.

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Anonymous wrote:Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

Does JLo accept responsibility for her 2 broken engagements and 4 divorces, or does she blame her exes?

I don't know but I have certainly heard her rationalize the earlier ones as not really "real" marriages which is a sampling of her tendency to spin the truth to serve her fantasies.

+1 If they were legal, they were "real." Of course, it is always possible that she didn't take her vows seriously.

She's trashing him now.

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Anonymous wrote:Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

Does JLo accept responsibility for her 2 broken engagements and 4 divorces, or does she blame her exes?

JLo talks about this part of her. Has she trashed her exes the way Ben has? Not that I remember.

She talked about it when it serves....the beginning of the doc is her admitting that for years she presented herself as just fine and strong after her breakups and then she admits that was all "bullsh*t" as if the average person did not know, well of course that was bullsh*t. It was obvious. Her self involvement made it difficult for her to realize how she looked to outsiders, no matter what she said or how her team spinned it. She really thinks people are dumb dumbs. Maybe many were, but a lot of us saw her self delusions pretty clearly.

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Anonymous wrote:Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

Does JLo accept responsibility for her 2 broken engagements and 4 divorces, or does she blame her exes?

I don't know but I have certainly heard her rationalize the earlier ones as not really "real" marriages which is a sampling of her tendency to spin the truth to serve her fantasies.

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Anonymous wrote:Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

Does JLo accept responsibility for her 2 broken engagements and 4 divorces, or does she blame her exes?

JLo talks about this part of her. Has she trashed her exes the way Ben has? Not that I remember.

Anonymous wrote:Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

Does JLo accept responsibility for her 2 broken engagements and 4 divorces, or does she blame her exes?

Marking my spot for when jlo is long gone and this man is back in rehab blaming yet another woman for his troubles…

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Anonymous wrote:Seems to be a lot of infidelity "rumors" surrounding her relationships. She has become a diva and how does a man compete with that? Mariah Carey, diva. Dianna Ross, diva. She's in her 50's. She should figure out herself first, before she jumps into another relationship. What is she teaching her daughter? Rebound Aaron fast as you can? She's not prioritizing her kids. Leaving dating alone for a long time JLO.

She has always struggled to be alone.

She's a hot mess.

Anonymous wrote:Jlo has never been in rehab, suffered from alcoholism, etc. She keeps herself healthy, fit. She should just sit back and let this man continue to self destruct. She will be just fine. Time will reveal… it always does.

She should just sit back and leave all men alone for awhile and get some serious therapy. Time will reveal...it always does... if she jumps too soon to yet one more relationship. She's been in so many relationships, breakups, engagements, weddings, marriages, divorces, etc that we've all lost count.

Wanting companionship, needing it even, is child’s play compared to his demons. Give me a break. This woman will bounce back like she always does. Him…who knows? If this were Vegas, I would bet on her.