Anonymous wrote:There are two types, the first has a dad who married a naturally skinny model-ish woman and so she’s got genetics on her side, and she fills up fast. The second was raised by a thin woman who worked hard to stay that way and so was raised with disordered eating habits that she maintains as an adult. The second type often starves and gets a lot of her calories from sugarless booze, the first eats half a salad and legit feels stuffed.

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Anonymous wrote:Rich women:
No job = plenty of time for sauna, multiple workout classes, trainers
Rich= plenty of money for surgery
Rich = plenty of money for meal delivery

Not really. Rich women tend to be more controlling, disciplined and type A. Meal delivery and such doesn’t matter. Even if the frig is empty, no way they are rolling through Mcds. They would eat a can of tuna before it came to that

This is what I see. And these women are active themselves outdoors playing tennis, running, hiking, etc. Their kids are also active so they are constantly shuttling them here and there to sports. Being active and fit is the goal, neither the man nor woman is out of shape. When I see these parents at kid birthday parties they will never take the piece of pizza or cake. Their indulgence seems to be a glass of wine after a long day and hard workout. They are fit, active, eat well, and want to look a certain way, not so much skinny but athletic and toned.

Waned to add: when they vacation they snow ski in the winter and water ski and bike in the summer. They are active year round, they don't spend weekends on the couch.

This made me laugh because my family just came back from a ski trip. DH and I both work, me from home. We both do OTF, have (and use) our Peloton, and go on walks/hikes in the local parks around our neighborhood (Arlington). I definitely don't eat the birthday cake, and probably wouldn't eat the pizza. I do drink (all of the) wine. I'm a sz 29 jean/8 dress - 5'6" and 165. Not sure I'm the "skinny" mom, but I can probably squat with her on my back.

It's an expensive lifestyle, which is why staying fit and active is so hard for many. But, you probably look fit and at a healthy weight which is what the women I know aspire to. They want to look decent in their bathing suits for their next exotic vacation.

Such is "goals"? Some people have other aspirations.

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Anonymous wrote:The same motivation that gets people rich is simply employed to keep them thin, too.

It takes consistent discipline over time and some self control. Success in business is not much different than success in health.

Depends. Anything in excess is obviously a personality deficit and has negative ramifications. Too skinny, too fat, etc. Those bony women don't look any better than those thick necked rugby payers.

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Anonymous wrote:Rich women:
No job = plenty of time for sauna, multiple workout classes, trainers
Rich= plenty of money for surgery
Rich = plenty of money for meal delivery

Not really. Rich women tend to be more controlling, disciplined and type A. Meal delivery and such doesn’t matter. Even if the frig is empty, no way they are rolling through Mcds. They would eat a can of tuna before it came to that

This is what I see. And these women are active themselves outdoors playing tennis, running, hiking, etc. Their kids are also active so they are constantly shuttling them here and there to sports. Being active and fit is the goal, neither the man nor woman is out of shape. When I see these parents at kid birthday parties they will never take the piece of pizza or cake. Their indulgence seems to be a glass of wine after a long day and hard workout. They are fit, active, eat well, and want to look a certain way, not so much skinny but athletic and toned.

Waned to add: when they vacation they snow ski in the winter and water ski and bike in the summer. They are active year round, they don't spend weekends on the couch.

Or loafing and gorging themselves on cruise ships

Cruise ships?

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Anonymous wrote:Rich women:
No job = plenty of time for sauna, multiple workout classes, trainers
Rich= plenty of money for surgery
Rich = plenty of money for meal delivery

Not really. Rich women tend to be more controlling, disciplined and type A. Meal delivery and such doesn’t matter. Even if the frig is empty, no way they are rolling through Mcds. They would eat a can of tuna before it came to that

This is what I see. And these women are active themselves outdoors playing tennis, running, hiking, etc. Their kids are also active so they are constantly shuttling them here and there to sports. Being active and fit is the goal, neither the man nor woman is out of shape. When I see these parents at kid birthday parties they will never take the piece of pizza or cake. Their indulgence seems to be a glass of wine after a long day and hard workout. They are fit, active, eat well, and want to look a certain way, not so much skinny but athletic and toned.

Waned to add: when they vacation they snow ski in the winter and water ski and bike in the summer. They are active year round, they don't spend weekends on the couch.

Or loafing and gorging themselves on cruise ships

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Anonymous wrote:Rich women:
No job = plenty of time for sauna, multiple workout classes, trainers
Rich= plenty of money for surgery
Rich = plenty of money for meal delivery

Not really. Rich women tend to be more controlling, disciplined and type A. Meal delivery and such doesn’t matter. Even if the frig is empty, no way they are rolling through Mcds. They would eat a can of tuna before it came to that

This is what I see. And these women are active themselves outdoors playing tennis, running, hiking, etc. Their kids are also active so they are constantly shuttling them here and there to sports. Being active and fit is the goal, neither the man nor woman is out of shape. When I see these parents at kid birthday parties they will never take the piece of pizza or cake. Their indulgence seems to be a glass of wine after a long day and hard workout. They are fit, active, eat well, and want to look a certain way, not so much skinny but athletic and toned.

Waned to add: when they vacation they snow ski in the winter and water ski and bike in the summer. They are active year round, they don't spend weekends on the couch.

This made me laugh because my family just came back from a ski trip. DH and I both work, me from home. We both do OTF, have (and use) our Peloton, and go on walks/hikes in the local parks around our neighborhood (Arlington). I definitely don't eat the birthday cake, and probably wouldn't eat the pizza. I do drink (all of the) wine. I'm a sz 29 jean/8 dress - 5'6" and 165. Not sure I'm the "skinny" mom, but I can probably squat with her on my back.

It's an expensive lifestyle, which is why staying fit and active is so hard for many. But, you probably look fit and at a healthy weight which is what the women I know aspire to. They want to look decent in their bathing suits for their next exotic vacation.