Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We’ve heard this tired trope before. Guys who do chores actually get LESS sex. It’s a scientific fact. Google it. You’re right it’s on the mind of the female. Who get bored of their husband after about 7 to 10 years.

I did Google it and you are wrong. http://time.com/4378502/yes-couples-who-share-chores-have-more-sex/

Nope. He is right. Try again.

http://www.asanet.org/sites/default/files/savvy/journals/ASR/Feb13ASRFeature.pdf

this study investigates the links between men’s participation in core (traditionally female) and non-core (traditionally male) household tasks and sexual frequency. Results show that both husbands and wives in couples with more traditional housework arrangements report higher sexual frequency, suggesting the importance of gender display rather than marital exchange for sex between heterosexual married partners.

Anonymous wrote:NP. Is sex once a month or less “enough” for you? It seemed from your OP that you were looking for ideas to increase sex life but now it sounds like you want to follow wife’s lead (I.e. every 4-6 weeks).

If you have no issue with that, why even post?

No, once a month or less is not good. But I'd regard once a week as good.

As for what's going on now, we've declined to about once every 4-6 weeks. However, like I mentioned, she initiated that quicky the other night which seems to be her way to up the frequency above the 4-6 week level -- the downside being that she wasn't as up for it as she usually is during our once a month sessions. The hope would be that the quality follows the quantity once we get in the habit.

Anonymous wrote:Having sex is like changing diapers. It takes time, it has to be done frequently, it's messy, it can stink, and married women are fine with never having to do it again with her husband, especially if there are zero consequences to her and he still cares to "hear about her day".

Fixed that for you