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Anonymous wrote:the kids at the top boarding schools have a lot less pressure because they all have a safety net.
Most if the kids from TJ will have to make it on their own.

+ and family connections.

TJ kids maybe as capable as BS kids but TJ parents cannot provide the same level of support BS parents can.

You win. You're better than us just as capable but not old money upper middle class families.

the game was lost before you started... before you got married, before you had your kid. you just didn't know it.

That's it. This Republican has officially decided to turn Democrat.

? You think one's better than the other?

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Anonymous wrote:Hesitant to weigh in here since this thread has devolved, but I haven't seen anyone mention the actual value and benefits of the BS education. I went from a top public high school, all AP classes, to Andover and the difference was astounding - not just the grade level/difficulty but the enthusiasm and depth. Reading Shakespeare outside with a class of 12 on a beautiful New England spring day is memorable to me even with my 25th reunion coming up. Yes I got into HYP, and I found it a lot easier than my roommates who had not gone to prep school because I had already experienced a soul-crushing amount of homework at Andover, but the depth of study and the way we were pushed to learn and explore and think, not just study and memorize, was remarkable. My kids are in elementary school still but I have them at a progressive school in the hopes that they will learn to love learning, not just learn how to learn.

How does experiencing a soul-crushing amount of homework teach one to learn to love learning?

Hey, she got int HYP. Now she can teach her kids to have a love for learning.

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

At Stanford?

Speaking of Stanford, here is something BS parents cannot say. TJ is the ONLY school in the United States that produced a student who was admitted to Harvard and Stanford at the same time.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/476545.page

Harvard and Stanford made a special and first time program (just for her!!) where she gets to study at both places roughly 50-50 and she gets to choose which school should have the honor of granting her the degree after 4 years. That was what was the big deal since she claims both schools came up with this special unprecedented program just for her because they both wanted her to attend their school so much.

Except... It was all lies.

I am sure she is not the only one. She's the only one who got caught.

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

At Stanford?

Speaking of Stanford, here is something BS parents cannot say. TJ is the ONLY school in the United States that produced a student who was admitted to Harvard and Stanford at the same time.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/476545.page

Harvard and Stanford made a special and first time program (just for her!!) where she gets to study at both places roughly 50-50 and she gets to choose which school should have the honor of granting her the degree after 4 years. That was what was the big deal since she claims both schools came up with this special unprecedented program just for her because they both wanted her to attend their school so much.

Except... It was all lies.

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

At Stanford?

Speaking of Stanford, here is something BS parents cannot say. TJ is the ONLY school in the United States that produced a student who was admitted to Harvard and Stanford at the same time.

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/476545.page

Harvard and Stanford made a special and first time program (just for her!!) where she gets to study at both places roughly 50-50 and she gets to choose which school should have the honor of granting her the degree after 4 years. That was what was the big deal since she claims both schools came up with this special unprecedented program just for her because they both wanted her to attend their school so much.

Except... It was all lies.

Anonymous wrote:I went to one of the BS mentioned here. I loved it, and it continues to feel like home to me when I visit. I was a FA kid, so not by any means the old money 1% club. We're at that level (at least wealth-wise) now, and it's probably not in small part as a result of skills I developed and people I met at that early age. Not really a comparison vis a vis TJ (since I'd never heard of it before moving here), but just my experience. I do think the point a PP raised above is very true and, while subtle, very important. BS kids at Harvard or Yale are on a different footing from public school kids. There were around 25 kids from my senior class that were also in my class at Yale, and I had a natural fluency them and with other kids from similar environs that ends up being important in all sorts of ways that you can't really appreciate from the outside (though I was probably more sensitive to them being an "outsider" on the inside).

Anyway, this thread is unfortunate. Class differences are (understandably) very frustrating to those on the outside looking in. But it sounds like we are talking about a very small, elite universe of highly capable kids (whether BS or TJ) who are all going to do just fine.

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

At Stanford?

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

At Stanford?

Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

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Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

I used to think this too, but then I started working at a boarding and day school. Most of the boarders were typical kids who just wanted a different experience for high school. I don't think this school is on the same academic level as TJ, but one could definitely get a top notch education there. I think comparing TJ to boarding school is difficult because they are so different. Honestly, if you are considering both, move beyond the prestige label, think about what each school offers and how that benefits your DC.

Also totally off-topic, but before moving to DC, my only knowledge of TJ came from that discrimination suit that girl filed against the Silicon Valley entrepreneur who was ten years older than she was, but she was having a relationship with him? So I guess that goes to show TJ grads can do weird things too.

Anonymous wrote:Teenagers should be at home for developmental reasons unless the family situation is dysfunctional. They need guidance. Support and a chance to separate in a more natural way than BS. I wNt to BS because of divorce. The social interactions with parents for most kids were not normal

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Anonymous wrote:the kids at the top boarding schools have a lot less pressure because they all have a safety net.
Most if the kids from TJ will have to make it on their own.

+ and family connections.

TJ kids maybe as capable as BS kids but TJ parents cannot provide the same level of support BS parents can.

What does "support" mean? You mean pure cash, right? Because nothing about the BS parents suggests they are full of love and care (their time is spent cheating people to amass that ill-gotten wealth. Did you learn nothing from the banking crisis ?? ) You must be one of those idiots who went to BS

If you have to ask, you will never get it. Where you are in the food chain is where you are meant to be. Bottom feeders will always be on the bottom.