Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:41
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
I am a woman and this thread is making my day. Thank you.
I have long hair and had no idea it was that popular with men.
I find that actually men are not asking that much.
I have three kids, and a job that I love, but I am slim and fit and as somebody else mentioned in another post, I speak several languages, read books, go to shows, theaters and I enjoy sex. That is pretty much all that is asking in this thread.
I had not idea I was such a catch ? but I am happily married.
Creepy.
Are you working mom from the other thread????
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:40
Subject: Re:Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Use pronouns correctly.
No, seriously, nagging less will get you 90% of the way.
No, seriously, nagging less will get you 90% of the way.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:29
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Eh, Not everyone who opts out of marriage does so because it's not an option for them. I mean, Leonardo DiCaprio is pretty old and still single, but I'm sure he could settle down in a heartbeat if he wanted to.
From what I heard he is spending his days with his cats.
LOL! Well the market has spoken, and he is just not desirable... Sad but true.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:29
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Eh, Not everyone who opts out of marriage does so because it's not an option for them. I mean, Leonardo DiCaprio is pretty old and still single, but I'm sure he could settle down in a heartbeat if he wanted to.
I know that might be hard to believe, given the fact that men to whisper to each other that women love "high value" men, but that's actually probably true for many women. I dont know a single one of my friends who is attracted to the dude anymore- he's really pudgy and yes, old looking. Not to mention seems like a sleaze, which is massively unappealing.
Women do have preferences.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:28
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Eh, Not everyone who opts out of marriage does so because it's not an option for them. I mean, Leonardo DiCaprio is pretty old and still single, but I'm sure he could settle down in a heartbeat if he wanted to.
From what I heard he is spending his days with his cats.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:26
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Eh, Not everyone who opts out of marriage does so because it's not an option for them. I mean, Leonardo DiCaprio is pretty old and still single, but I'm sure he could settle down in a heartbeat if he wanted to.
His penis probably doesnt work anymore, so we wouldnt be interested.
Sin,
Dcum harpies in this thread]
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:23
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Eh, Not everyone who opts out of marriage does so because it's not an option for them. I mean, Leonardo DiCaprio is pretty old and still single, but I'm sure he could settle down in a heartbeat if he wanted to.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:17
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
This thread is fascinating. I almost feel like counting the responses to see which traits come out on top.
I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?
In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?
I have a question though. What if a woman hits all the marks but one? For example, she's warm and happy, nice to you, long hair, makeup, loves having sex with you, but she's a size 10 instead of a 6. She likes her body and knows how to wear clothes that flatter it (dresses, skirts, fitted pants, etc). What then?
In other words, if you had to pick one top trait that's most important, which would it be?
Anonymous
02/20/2015 21:16
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Well, it looks like I now know why so many of my single female friends are not interested in dating. My one friend, who is actually thin and super in-shape (military bootcamp workouts 5 days a week) tells me that she has had so many bad experiences with jerks she has basically given up dating her in 40s. Got a cat.
Eh, in my experience, markets may be cruel, but they are rarely wrong. If she's adopting cats in her 40s, the market has spoken.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 20:29
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:You know, some women gain weight when married not because they are lazy and selfish in at their comfort weight, but because they fall into a depression and have low self esteem caused by a very bad marriage. I didn't even know I was having depression issues until I saw a therapist post separation. I did put on some weight the first several years of marriage as did my ex because we enjoyed way too much food together. but he punished me for it, punished me dearly. It has taken a lot of therapy to regain my self esteem and the food seeking part of me is fading away.
The reasons don't matter, though. The thread question was just about what men find attractive. That doesn't mean they demand it. But you can't help what you like.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 20:26
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
I am a woman and this thread is making my day. Thank you.
I have long hair and had no idea it was that popular with men.
I find that actually men are not asking that much.
I have three kids, and a job that I love, but I am slim and fit and as somebody else mentioned in another post, I speak several languages, read books, go to shows, theaters and I enjoy sex. That is pretty much all that is asking in this thread.
I had not idea I was such a catch ? but I am happily married.
2 kids and slim (though not as fit as I'd like to be), but feeling more attractive.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 19:56
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
No, no...I'm glad you spoke up. Just confirmed for me that I need to stay alone and happy.
x2. I'd rather know what I'm getting so I can just outright avoid it.
Besides, in this day and age, if you are financially successful, you can have children and raise them alone quite easily as a child. This thread definitely makes that option seem all that more appealing!
Anonymous
02/20/2015 19:42
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
I am a woman and this thread is making my day. Thank you.
I have long hair and had no idea it was that popular with men.
I find that actually men are not asking that much.
I have three kids, and a job that I love, but I am slim and fit and as somebody else mentioned in another post, I speak several languages, read books, go to shows, theaters and I enjoy sex. That is pretty much all that is asking in this thread.
I had not idea I was such a catch ? but I am happily married.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 19:29
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
No, no...I'm glad you spoke up. Just confirmed for me that I need to stay alone and happy.
Maybe. Some guys are cool, and some women are easy going. It probably works out for them.
Anonymous
02/20/2015 19:20
Subject: Men: How can us women make ourselves more attractive?
Anonymous wrote:A thread asks what men think makes women attractive. They answer & are called disgusting. You can see why men so often just keep quiet in real life. Then women ask "why doesn't he like me." And their friends give them incorrect answers in response. "Your hair looks sassy!" And so forth.
No, no...I'm glad you spoke up. Just confirmed for me that I need to stay alone and happy.