Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 09:08     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

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Anonymous wrote:1. Don't care about infertility struggles.
2. Don't care about doormats who won't DO something to
address their problems.
3. Tired of the SN Trump Card.


NP here. I am enraged by all the free stuff SN parents get that have nothing to do withy their child's SN. I can kinda see the free PT/OT/Speech maybe, but my very wealthy friend also gets FOR FREE from the county: preschool withh bus service, 42 hours/week nanny, Medicaid and food stamps. FOR FREE. And the nanny does her laundry and watches her NT kids too!!


Uh, wha? Food stamps is a means-based program, as is Medicaid -- if they are indeed "very wealthy" then they wouldn't be eligible for those programs. And I've never heard of a free nanny, no way. Maybe an aid in the classroom? If her child is eligible for a free special needs preschool and full-time aid, you shouldn't be enraged or envious...it means her child is quite disabled.



It's all true. The means test for Medicaid/food stamps is done ON THE KID, who has no assets. All his copays and RX's are paid by Medicaid, and his food is bought with food stamps. In addition to preschool five days a week, his mom is allowed 42 hours of nanny care paid. She does not work, has two NT kids, lives in a 6000sf house and drives a large luxury SUV. Her SN child walks, talks, eats, and is potty trained, he is just delayed pretty significantly. I don't see why she needs a tax payer paid nanny because of that.


I'm somewhat skeptical about all this. For a disabled child to get on Medicaid, they generally have to qualify for SSI (needs based benefits based on family income). A wealthy family will not qualify. I am under the impression most social programs use household income/assets, not just the child. If her child is qualifying for a full time nanny/aide, it sounds like the child must be pretty severely disabled, which is sad. And I say this as someone who can't stand people who try to abuse the system.


All I know is what she told me directly herself. So I guess she is lying? She buys his food with food stamps. When he gets an ear infection (unrelated to his SN), her insurance pays first and Medicaid pays the doctor and Rx copays. She pays nothing. Same for all of the therapy copays. She pays nothing. She just put a huge addition on to her already huge house (not for the child.) I am not a troll and I am not lying. You don't want to believe it because its so outrageous, but it's true. She has a network of other SN mom friends and they all tell each other how to "max out" the system.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 09:07     Subject: Re:Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

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Anonymous wrote:I think that people who think they are transsexual actually suffer from psychological problems.


I'll add that I don't judge them for this. I actually have a great deal of sympathy for them. But, I don't believe people are born in the wrong bodies.


This. It's a mental disorder and we should not allow people to butcher themselves due to this illness.


Do you actually know any transgendered people? I grew up with two transgendered kids in my community. If you met either one of them now, you would never guess that either one had ever been labeled a girl. They are bright, successful men with normal, healthy relationships. They are not ill and they have not butchered themselves.


I think the media attention on these people and their "rights" are ridiculous.


Which "rights" do you take issue with?
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:55     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

I am not against the homosexual lifestyle and gay marriage per se but I don't think it should be talked about. To each his own if you're happy but let's not celebrate it. I think the world was better when men were men and women were women. Changing your genetalia, being hard core butch, being a flagrant gay man -- ugh. Most people do not want to see or hear about that!
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:48     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

I don't think we should have been spending so much money on NASA space/flight projects.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:47     Subject: Re:Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think that people who think they are transsexual actually suffer from psychological problems.


I'll add that I don't judge them for this. I actually have a great deal of sympathy for them. But, I don't believe people are born in the wrong bodies.


This. It's a mental disorder and we should not allow people to butcher themselves due to this illness.


Do you actually know any transgendered people? I grew up with two transgendered kids in my community. If you met either one of them now, you would never guess that either one had ever been labeled a girl. They are bright, successful men with normal, healthy relationships. They are not ill and they have not butchered themselves.


I think the media attention on these people and their "rights" are ridiculous.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:46     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

My minority opinion: I like pencil dicks.

Seriously. I'm small and it's more comfortable. I see big, I think "ow" not "yum".
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:41     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

- I don't believe that weight gain and loss is solely a result of calories in/calories out. If this were true every person would experience the same positive results from calorie restriction and exercise and the same negative results from overindulgence.

- I think the earth's population is a result of a fine balance and the more we improve our health and longevity and cure diseases like cancer, the more we'll see natural disasters, new diseases, and acts of violence and terrorism in order to counteract the population.

Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:30     Subject: Re:Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

I think that with the advancement of robotics manned spaceflight is a waste of billions of dollars.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:25     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

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Anonymous wrote:I think some animal rescue organizations are in cahoots with puppy mills. Puppies that used to be sold in pet stores are just funneled through shady "rescue" organizations now. The puppy mills haven't disappeared even though you mostly can't buy puppies at stores any more.

I don't like it when I hear people brag about "rescuing" yet have no idea where this convenient supply of dogs comes from, unless they're rescuing pit bulls or chihuahuas.


OMG. This hadn't occurred to me. You could be right!


Wait, but then how do the puppy mills make money?
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:17     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

Anonymous wrote:I think all the worship of pets is ridiculous. I think chemotherapy and insulin shots for animals while we have hungry, homeless children is an absolute crime. Your pet is not a person.

Too many stupid, unfit people have children. Birth control and, failing that, abortion ought to be freely available.

We're becoming a nation of immature, self-involved morons.


Are you saying that people should be forced to pay for hungry homeless children and let our pets die? That would be a very interesting....dictatorship....
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 08:08     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

Anonymous wrote:I think some animal rescue organizations are in cahoots with puppy mills. Puppies that used to be sold in pet stores are just funneled through shady "rescue" organizations now. The puppy mills haven't disappeared even though you mostly can't buy puppies at stores any more.

I don't like it when I hear people brag about "rescuing" yet have no idea where this convenient supply of dogs comes from, unless they're rescuing pit bulls or chihuahuas.


OMG. This hadn't occurred to me. You could be right!
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 07:38     Subject: Re:Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority


I secretly judge people who buy breeder dogs.

I think Michael Brown deserved to be shot. While I do believe there are real problems between police officers and minority communities, I don't think that means every time a black person gets shot it is automatically police brutality. Seriously -- there had to have been a better case of police violence to protest over than a kid who black witnesses said charged at a police officer.

I don't think Johnny Depp is attractive at all.


I agree with this. The video of him in the store prior to the shooting kind of said it all to me. Not to mention the evidence supports the cop. Now Eric Garner is a completely different story. That cop should have been brought up on manslaughter.


I'm sure you also think that the two Bonnie and Clyde white teens should have been shot and killed. Armed robbery, auto theft times three, gun theft... Those thugs do not belong in normal society. Do you also believe those armed white teenagers deserved to be shot and killed? Or just the unarmed big black teenager?


NP, but ah, yes. I do not think any person who is not actually putting cops in danger of their lives "deserves" to be shot. But any person, black or white, who is committing a violent crime, waving a gun, charging a cop, etc. may get shot and I don't think this result is necessarily "murder."
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 07:30     Subject: Re:Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why some educated and smart people participate in any form of organized religion.


+2
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 05:58     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

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Anonymous wrote:I think society wants women to be skinny because they want to shrink them down and make them powerless.

Which is why I refuse to diet. Happy with my size four.



This is a silly humblebrag. What if you were a size fourteen?


+1 gimme a break! Size 4 is tiny.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2015 05:09     Subject: Tell an opinion you have that is in the strong minority

I think all the worship of pets is ridiculous. I think chemotherapy and insulin shots for animals while we have hungry, homeless children is an absolute crime. Your pet is not a person.

Too many stupid, unfit people have children. Birth control and, failing that, abortion ought to be freely available.

We're becoming a nation of immature, self-involved morons.