Anonymous wrote:Actually, what the girls did was criminal. They produced child porn and then they showed it to a minor.
Anonymous wrote:I hope these two boys go to JV or county and have a good experience. Maybe they will come out better men. Being from a 'good family' means what? I don't even know what makes a family"good" Does "good" mean white, upper-middle class, winter and summer vacations, a country club life? Yes? That's what I thought you meant. Thanks for clarifying.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.
I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.
It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.
Totally agree. And it's not just the first instinct, posters have blamed the girls on page after page of this thread. They've made a lot of assumptions about these girls that haven't been grounded in reality. What we know from the article is what these boys did, How about we refocus the thread on the facts instead of spewing misogynistic assumptions about girls in general.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.
I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.
It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.
Totally agree. And it's not just the first instinct, posters have blamed the girls on page after page of this thread. They've made a lot of assumptions about these girls that haven't been grounded in reality. What we know from the article is what these boys did, How about we refocus the thread on the facts instead of spewing misogynistic assumptions about girls in general.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.
I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.
It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.
As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.
The ones that are dangerous are the ones with false accusations and the reason the state can't convict many rape cases.
The infrequency of false accusations is dwarfed by the sheer number of sexual assaults that go unreported out of fear that the victim will be blamed. False accusations are rare enough to be newsworthy -- that should tell you something.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
Another misogynistic attempt to blame the girls for leading the poor, innocent boys astray. One can't help but wonder if this is the general atmosphere at the high school involved in this case or just the attitude of a few individuals?
If you want the girls to take responsibility for their possible actions you need to accept that the actions of the boys were far more blame-worthy. It took time and effort to put this site together. The difference in the level of culpability has been noted numerous times. It does a child no favors to make excuses and blame others for their actions.
"It does a child no favors to make excuses and blame others for their actions." This applies equally to the girls.
Sorry, but it only applies equally if the girls both took the pictures themselves and then put them together into a website and circulated links so others could view them. At this time, there is nothing in the news indicating the girls took the pictures themselves and two boys are being investigated for starting, owning, and/or operating the website where 52 folders of pictures, 24 of which were labeled with names, were found.
It does not appear that the boys in question were dragged or forced in any way to keep, organize, and distribute these pictures. The people in the pictures were held up for embarrassment and have been placed in danger.
It is much worse to embarrass others and put people in danger than it is to do something foolish thinking someone is romantically interested in you. In terms of character, it is far worse to take advantage of another's vulnerability to put them in a position of embarrassment and possible danger.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.
As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.
The ones that are dangerous are the ones with false accusations and the reason the state can't convict many rape cases.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.
As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.
Anonymous wrote:It's more like the teens have consensual sex and then one of them tells other people. There's no rape analogy at all. It's offensive to rape victims to even suggest a similarity.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.
I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.
Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.
I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.