Anonymous wrote:The 40 year olds must lie

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WIFE LIED ABOUT HER AGE
Dear Prudie, Three years ago at 34, I married my wife, who I thought was 33. We both wanted children, but when this didn't happen we began consulting a fertility specialist. After she started asking questions, my wife admitted she is actually eight years older than she and led me to believe. She's 44 years old! She's willing to try massive doses of hormones to get pregnant, but I don't want her to do that for health reasons. I'm willing to consider adoption. She says, of course, that she feared I would walk away if I knew the truth, but she must have known it would come out sometime. I think I still love her, but I feel so betrayed! Any thoughts on helping us get through this?

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EMILY YOFFE :
Let's get to the most impotant issue first -- what is your wife's beauty regimine because if she convincingly looks eight years younger she's doing something right. You say you're willing to consider adoption, but I think that gets you to the wrong kind of professional. If I were you, I'd be considering the services of a lawyer. People betray their spouses all the time. But letting a husband believe you're years younger than you are -- with all the implications for child-bearing, is a grotesque deception. From now on, you're always going to wonder if anything she says is the truth. Because you are a man, at 37 you are lucky enough to not have big worries about your fertility. Maybe if your wife had been honest with you from the beginning, knowing her age you would have adjusted your planning and expectations for children. But she lied. So I think you need to prove her right in her assumption that when she found out the truth, you would walk away.

– December 23, 2013 12:34 PM

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Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

Nonblack women who fuck black men make themselves unworthy of dates/marriage because of their terrible judgment. Black men have 10 times the AIDS infection rates of white men. TEN times.

So it either means ignorance or recklessness to fuck black men (for nonblack women).

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Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

Nonblack women who fuck black men make themselves unworthy of dates/marriage because of their terrible judgment. Black men have 10 times the AIDS infection rates of white men. TEN times.

So it either means ignorance or recklessness to fuck black men (for nonblack women).

OMG dying. Can't believe I just read this.


Hahahahahhaaha

Dying of a horrible disease is funny to you?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

Nonblack women who fuck black men make themselves unworthy of dates/marriage because of their terrible judgment. Black men have 10 times the AIDS infection rates of white men. TEN times.

So it either means ignorance or recklessness to fuck black men (for nonblack women).

OMG dying. Can't believe I just read this.


Hahahahahhaaha

Anonymous wrote:I am 40. I wouldn't date me either. Man I wish I were still in my 20's. I am married to a younger guy. I think if there is ever a next husband I am going for one who is older, so I can enjoy feeling younger for a change. Not that that would matter to a man, no matter how old he is he will still be wanting and being able to get the young ones. It is just life. That is why men are fertile forever. I would just go be a lesbian but I don't know if girls in their twenties would fall for 40 year olds either. Just can win. Ugh.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

Nonblack women who fuck black men make themselves unworthy of dates/marriage because of their terrible judgment. Black men have 10 times the AIDS infection rates of white men. TEN times.

So it either means ignorance or recklessness to fuck black men (for nonblack women).

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Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked that there is push back against the notion that men dont want to wife sluts if they have alternatives.

We disagree with you, maybe because we've seen it play out much differently.

Also, using the word "slut" makes you sound like an insecure misogynist. Don't try to push your issues on women with more experience and confidence than you.

You're actually defending promiscuity in the age of AIDS? and calling it "experience" and "confidence"? LOL

There's a huge difference between experience and promiscuity. Also, there are these handy prophylactics called condoms. They help prevent pregnancy and protect against STDs.

I'm sorry a woman confident in her sexuality is so offensive and threatening to you. Seek therapy. And fuck you for trying to attach value to a woman's sexual past. That's very wrong and shows a lack of respect.

Go out and find yourself a virgin, but don't come back and complain in 5 years that she won't fuck you the way you want or as often as you'd like.

There's a big gray area between "virgin" and woman who's fucked 50 men, including blacks, threesomes, etc. big middle ground.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

Nonblack women who fuck black men make themselves unworthy of dates/marriage because of their terrible judgment. Black men have 10 times the AIDS infection rates of white men. TEN times.

So it either means ignorance or recklessness to fuck black men (for nonblack women).

Anonymous wrote:Did you actually say.... blacks??? Wow. Go watch some Duck Dynasty and STFU, you racist fuck.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm shocked that there is push back against the notion that men dont want to wife sluts if they have alternatives.

We disagree with you, maybe because we've seen it play out much differently.

Also, using the word "slut" makes you sound like an insecure misogynist. Don't try to push your issues on women with more experience and confidence than you.

You're actually defending promiscuity in the age of AIDS? and calling it "experience" and "confidence"? LOL

There's a huge difference between experience and promiscuity. Also, there are these handy prophylactics called condoms. They help prevent pregnancy and protect against STDs.

I'm sorry a woman confident in her sexuality is so offensive and threatening to you. Seek therapy. And fuck you for trying to attach value to a woman's sexual past. That's very wrong and shows a lack of respect.

Go out and find yourself a virgin, but don't come back and complain in 5 years that she won't fuck you the way you want or as often as you'd like.

There's a big gray area between "virgin" and woman who's fucked 50 men, including blacks, threesomes, etc. big middle ground.

Wtf? What does fucking black guys have to do with threesomes? Not that there's anything wrong with a threesome but they are in no way similar to each other. You probably have a tiny weiner so feel emasculated by the bbc.