For several weeks I've seen the OP's title (Hug Your Child Today) and didn't open the post, thinking it would say something I already knew and so browsing forums, looking for mind-numbing trivia or threads or anything other than what I didn't know I needed: a quick reminder, a lasting impression, that what matters most is what holds a community together and what keeps a memory alive, always -- love.
OP and all others who have dealt with the cruelest of losses -- may the fact that so many of us hold you in our thoughts help. We'll keep the thread going for as long as you need. Print it out now, just in case you find yourself without a computer someday, someplace, and need to remember how a world full of strangers wrapped their arms around two angels: you and your daughter.
Bless you, now and always.