People are not thinking about OP nearly as much as she likes to think they are. Yes, I’m sure in that moment it’s surprising to see so many kids all out together. Then we all move on with our lives.

I think 3 kids are too many to handle. I have 2 kids which I struggle being a good mom with full time work. I don't even have my "me" time. Kids are expensive. If I look at you, I am more like wow wow amazing how do you handle all these.