Anonymous wrote:So, I'm coming back to this thread because I can't get it out of my mind.

I think that while most victims of abuse do not go on to abuse, the majority of people who DO abuse, had been abused themselves.

Which is no excuse, but as a PP said, some they flip the role of abuser/abused.

If you look at her comments to the UC, she talks as if the girl will like it, be excited by it. There are no comments of enjoying any force or pain, or anything against the girls' will. It's this fantasy that the girl's world will open up sexually, and she (the woman) will be there to witness it, which is arousing to her.

It's so sick. She's loving the father-daughter dynamic, so...if I were her dad, I'd be worried now as it casts implications on him

Totally agree with this. Also the fact that Richmond Times Dispatch STILL does not have a single mention of this story is so disturbing.

So, I'm coming back to this thread because I can't get it out of my mind.

I think that while most victims of abuse do not go on to abuse, the majority of people who DO abuse, had been abused themselves.

Which is no excuse, but as a PP said, some they flip the role of abuser/abused.

If you look at her comments to the UC, she talks as if the girl will like it, be excited by it. There are no comments of enjoying any force or pain, or anything against the girls' will. It's this fantasy that the girl's world will open up sexually, and she (the woman) will be there to witness it, which is arousing to her.

It's so sick. She's loving the father-daughter dynamic, so...if I were her dad, I'd be worried now as it casts implications on him

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.

There was a child in the abuse material she distributed. I hope they can track down who she got it from, who made it, and they all get fried too.

It may well have been her.

I meant she might have made it.

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.

There was a child in the abuse material she distributed. I hope they can track down who she got it from, who made it, and they all get fried too.

It may well have been her.

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.

There was a child in the abuse material she distributed. I hope they can track down who she got it from, who made it, and they all get fried too.

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.

The government pulled her history on the site so at least if she was using the same message board they should have the info they need to find similar victims.

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

That was fake.

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Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

There was no child; it was an FBI sting.

Not that there couldn't have been other children prior to this.

Anonymous wrote:Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

How about for that poor child she lured to the hotel with her dad, who likely does not have access to the vast resources that her children do.

Finding out more about this, as I read these comments, especially those who know her well. Yes, she can rot in jail forever. It is where she belongs. I hope her two beautiful girls, whom I know well, get all the help, love, and support that they need, fo the rest of their lives. They will need it. I hope that Eleanor never has anything to do with her children again. Never. This is so beyond tragic. My heart bleeds for these girls and their friends. They are brilliant, talented, and just generally lovely kids. Oh God, this hurts.

I don’t think a PR firm or her family is keeping this story out of the news. Her Facebook would be gone in that scenario. I don’t see any family member standing by her after seeing the overwhelmingly awful complaint. Any care and support would logically be devoted to her children. Mom can rot in jail.

Anonymous wrote:She had to have been sexually abused at one point.

Who cares. People like her cannot be in society. Throw away the key.

I am one of the PP that has known her a very long time. Her parents are super snobs and very rude. Her brother used be a pain and got in trouble with the law as a teen (but nothing like this) and his parents quietly got him out it. He’s living a low key life, seems to have calmed down. His fb has now disappeared.

I have always liked the exH and never understood why he dated or married her. I don’t know if it was her father’s law connections or what. the ex is a nice guy, good looking, smart, maybe a bit goofy but he never had problem getting dates. Remains a big mystery to a lot of us.

Eleanor has always been like her parents. Rude and mean. She seemed to be mainstream, have friends, run with the popular kids in a way that money buys. Nothing really stands out as abnormal until she got arrested a few years ago which the article touches on. From what I have heard, while she was still married she got caught having sex in a public park with some random guy which produced the “unlawful dressing” charge in Chesterfield, which is south of Richmond and not near Charlottesville. It’s a really weird story, but I believe this is what caused the divorce. The rumor being pushed through is that she has severe mental health issues but IMO that in no way excuses any of what she’s done. She should never get out of prison.

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Anonymous wrote:How are adults like her okay with hurting children? I don’t understand what mental illness or trauma lets this happen. What she was trying to do to an 8 year old is just so evil. Too evil to understand. And someone that evil should be obvious to all right?

I don’t accept the word “evil” as an explanation for anything.

Same. I want to know why, even if th answer is "psychopath" or whatever it is. With this one, I cannot guess, never heard another case like it.

I was caught in the sights of a psychopath for many years of my youth. This guy raped me, killed animals in front of me, as well as killing 2 of my cats and telling me about it, he strangled me near to death, beat me, threatened me and stalked me for years. Yes, he is 100% a psychopath. He is also evil.

Oh gif, I just looked at her fb profile. I literally am sick to my stomach. She is a monster and blessed with those two beautiful girls. Her ex-husband, I wonder what happened with him. Like, did he know? Why did he leave his kids with her? Why didn’t he report her? All those people with kids in their circle that I know she had access too and maybe even sleepovers and vacations with… I am just so sick. I am trusting no one with my kids.