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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

This last paragraph has taken it very far. No one is saying they “seeth” at every post on social media. It’s a balance, there is a spectrum. If someone puts up one photo, that isn’t the same as groups of them with every trip or holiday. Plenty of people sprinkle things out in social media while including some real life moments. Plenty of people don’t. This thread is about people who are in the more extreme range.

No need to catastrophize ANYONE who posts. I think some annoyance is part of what social media works.

No, sorry, the tone of those posts is definitely seething. They’re angry you went somewhere they thought was cool 20 years ago. They’re angry you went somewhere that now doesn’t feel exclusive. They’re also angry you went to an unimpressive and common place though. They’re angry you aren’t staring at your kids the entire vacation instead of taking pictures, they’re angry you posted the pictures. They’re just sad and angry people whether they think so or not.

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

This last paragraph has taken it very far. No one is saying they “seeth” at every post on social media. It’s a balance, there is a spectrum. If someone puts up one photo, that isn’t the same as groups of them with every trip or holiday. Plenty of people sprinkle things out in social media while including some real life moments. Plenty of people don’t. This thread is about people who are in the more extreme range.

No need to catastrophize ANYONE who posts. I think some annoyance is part of what social media works.

No, sorry, the tone of those posts is definitely seething. They’re angry you went somewhere they thought was cool 20 years ago. They’re angry you went somewhere that now doesn’t feel exclusive. They’re also angry you went to an unimpressive and common place though. They’re angry you aren’t staring at your kids the entire vacation instead of taking pictures, they’re angry you posted the pictures. They’re just sad and angry people whether they think so or not.

Nope. No one is angry you WENT anywhere. But the fact that you don’t understand (or choose to ignore) the difference is very telling.o

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

This last paragraph has taken it very far. No one is saying they “seeth” at every post on social media. It’s a balance, there is a spectrum. If someone puts up one photo, that isn’t the same as groups of them with every trip or holiday. Plenty of people sprinkle things out in social media while including some real life moments. Plenty of people don’t. This thread is about people who are in the more extreme range.

No need to catastrophize ANYONE who posts. I think some annoyance is part of what social media works.

No, sorry, the tone of those posts is definitely seething. They’re angry you went somewhere they thought was cool 20 years ago. They’re angry you went somewhere that now doesn’t feel exclusive. They’re also angry you went to an unimpressive and common place though. They’re angry you aren’t staring at your kids the entire vacation instead of taking pictures, they’re angry you posted the pictures. They’re just sad and angry people whether they think so or not.

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Anonymous wrote:I love seeing photos from friends. I do post photos on social media.

I have to admit that watching Bling Ring on how people robbed Paris Hilton's house based on social media postings made me feel more tentative about posting photos. But I only post on Facebook.

I know this bothers some and makes them jealous. But they can block me if they don't want to see it.

I love seeing photos from places I'll never make it to. So fun.

Jealous? No. But posting travel photos on social media can make you a mockery.

Wow. You sound mean. I don't mock my friends.

You are receiving yourself. We all do that. But I will plaster on a smile when I see you in the car pool line and chuckle under my breath about your trip to the Amalfi Coast or USVI or wherever. And I’m not alone.

This is really unhinged behavior.

If someone posts a couple stories or photos of a trip, I enjoy seeing their adventures and feel happy for the person. Like a different PP said, it sometimes gives me good ideas for future trips and it's an easy conversation starter the next time you see the person. If they post an album a day, I scroll on by and don't go through it - but I can't imagine laughing at someone for sharing a trip.

It's patently obvious that pp has a serious character defect.

Nah. A serious character defect is expecting others to care about our trips. It’s called narcissism, and clearly you (and the other travel instagrammers on here) have it.

Naw, you’re just a defective person. Normal, healthy people don’t think the way you evidently do.

Take what you just write and read it to yourself. Posting vacation pictures to beg for attention and validation is pathetic and makes you a defective person,

People who post vacation pictures aren’t begging for attention. God, that really is such a defective way of thinking.

I hope you find happiness and peace somewhere.

[not PP]

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Anonymous wrote:I love seeing photos from friends. I do post photos on social media.

I have to admit that watching Bling Ring on how people robbed Paris Hilton's house based on social media postings made me feel more tentative about posting photos. But I only post on Facebook.

I know this bothers some and makes them jealous. But they can block me if they don't want to see it.

I love seeing photos from places I'll never make it to. So fun.

Jealous? No. But posting travel photos on social media can make you a mockery.

Wow. You sound mean. I don't mock my friends.

You are receiving yourself. We all do that. But I will plaster on a smile when I see you in the car pool line and chuckle under my breath about your trip to the Amalfi Coast or USVI or wherever. And I’m not alone.

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

Some people are just unhappy. If they were happy with their lives and family, they would not be so triggered by others.

sure, a few people are a bit annoying with their posts. I have one friend who only posts selfies. I don’t want to like another picture of her face. She is pretty but the selfies are boring. Another constantly posts about pink and some other celebrities. Another posts her workout starts. One definitely does post brsfy posts as all her vacations show glitz, like look at my luxurious lifestyle. It is the style of posting. These are not interesting. I want to unfollow them but don’t want to hurt their feelings. Most of my other friends don’t post that often and I like their posts.

But those of us complaining are saying the exact same thing you are. You see some people on social media who post a lot and it’s self-congratulatory or braggy or just biting and it annoys you, but you don’t unfollow because that seems confrontational. People in this thread are saying the exact same thing about SOME travel posters, the ones who post a lot of photos and are over the top or very braggy about it. That’s all.

I think fir most social media there’s a threshold and it’s hard to know where it is but you know when someone leaps over it. Like love photos of kids, but even I roll my eyes when someone is posting photos of their kids daily or documenting every mundane thing. Same with travel or anything. I take this to heart and self-limit my posting. Sometimes that’s easy because I’m just busy and not thinking about social media, or because the urge to be private is stronger than the urge to post. But I’ve also felt a strong desire to post a million pics because I’m doing something really cool, and I’ve learned to just think “ok pick one photo I think people will like and keep the rest to myself.” I’ve also trained myself to reduce frequency of posting. I think it’s better for me and probably less annoying for others.

Lots of people in this thread are getting prickly but I bet most people can identify at least one friend who they think posts too much or is too braggy in their posts. So there ARE limits. For everyone.

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

Some people are just unhappy. If they were happy with their lives and family, they would not be so triggered by others.

sure, a few people are a bit annoying with their posts. I have one friend who only posts selfies. I don’t want to like another picture of her face. She is pretty but the selfies are boring. Another constantly posts about pink and some other celebrities. Another posts her workout starts. One definitely does post brsfy posts as all her vacations show glitz, like look at my luxurious lifestyle. It is the style of posting. These are not interesting. I want to unfollow them but don’t want to hurt their feelings. Most of my other friends don’t post that often and I like their posts.

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Anonymous wrote:Assuming your friends and family are terrible people who are bragging is just very strange…especially if all they did was post a few travel pics without typing any actual commentary.

People saying, “Come on! We all know these people are pressed to curate a fake image and rub their travel in your face!” are truly weird. It’s not normal to assume that. And if you are inundated with braggy posts by terrible people you follow on social, then maybe that’s something to evaluate about yourself, your circle, etc.

But it’s way more subtle—perhaps even subconscious—than that, and I think it’s either naive or self-deceiving to pretend that this isn’t how social media works.

How does it feel going through life believing your friends and family are jerks who dedicate their lives to rubbing their fabulousness in your face by posting a vacation pic on social media? It must be exhausting and very sad.

I probably saw upwards of three dozen sets of travel pics from friends and family who vacationed over winter break. Not once did I assign malicious intent to any post.

I have a handful of friends currently on some pretty unique vacations at the moment. I’ve encouraged all of them to post more pics. I love seeing where they are and what they’re doing. By the sheer volume of comments, I’m not alone in wanting to see more pics.

Same. ^^

Same for me too. Sometimes DCUM reveals itself in such bizarre ways to truly be a gathering point for some deeply weird people. Everyone on this thread who seethes at their friends and acquaintances for daring to post anything on social (which of course, they only see because THEY ARE ON SOCIAL) is walking through the world with an incredibly maladjusted mindset. It’s pretty wild to see them tout superiority when really all their posts just ooze deep bitterness and self absorption. Can’t even be happy for a friend enjoying a trip - that’s bleak

This last paragraph has taken it very far. No one is saying they “seeth” at every post on social media. It’s a balance, there is a spectrum. If someone puts up one photo, that isn’t the same as groups of them with every trip or holiday. Plenty of people sprinkle things out in social media while including some real life moments. Plenty of people don’t. This thread is about people who are in the more extreme range.

No need to catastrophize ANYONE who posts. I think some annoyance is part of what social media works.