You all are nuts. Jennifer Lopez has not single handedly overpowered Marc Anthony, Jennifer Gatner and Ben Affleck, and the kids' own free will to remove the children she doesn't like and use the remaining ones as paparazzi bait.

Rumor has it he connected with Ana. Don’t forget the FBI raided Diddys house. Maybe they shared photos with Ben.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, criticize JLo all you want. She is a narcissist and deserves most of it. But Ben is a ridiculous man child who takes no responsibility for his many personal failings, including promising JLo the moon to get her back. I doubt either one is capable of making a LT relationship work.

He’s so ridiculous. He gave her a ring that said “not.going.anywhere” and signed all his love letters snd emails with not.going.anywhere. He trolled J Lo and found her via social media showing “support” for Arods emotional affair scandal. Why would a two timer and long time adulterer like Ben,
Cheated on J Lo during his bachelor party with a stripper, offer heart emojis and support for an emotional affair?

He likes the chase, not the work.

Anonymous wrote:She’s still spending the Hamptons summer with Violet.

This is so weird. Ben is still in LA. Her kids are nowhere to be found.

Her kids may be with their Dad.

Anonymous wrote:It does seem sad she prefers the girly girl Violet over the non binary Emme and Finn and her actual son.

Is she using a gal pal friendship with Violet to manipulate Ben? I am starting to see why Ben drinks because both Jens seem borderline insane about him.

Is Violet a girly girl? I mean, she is wearing a lot of dresses, but always with sneakers and no makeup that I can see.

I would think Violet would want to spend more time with her actual parents in LA given she goes off To Yale this month.

Why is she on the East Coast alone with J Lo?

It does seem sad she prefers the girly girl Violet over the non binary Emme and Finn and her actual son.

Is she using a gal pal friendship with Violet to manipulate Ben? I am starting to see why Ben drinks because both Jens seem borderline insane about him.

She’s still spending the Hamptons summer with Violet.

This is so weird. Ben is still in LA. Her kids are nowhere to be found.

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I remember when Ben was on the celeb dating app Raya in 2021 a few weeks before getting back with JLo.
He said "Nivine, why did you unmatch me, it's me."
Vid here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JShzoxxF1fM

Ben is truly a dumbass. I can’t believe someone in this thread said he has a 160 IQ lolz.

This is the same guy who used his 5 year old son’s IPad to sext the nanny and Garner found out.

He’s gross and J Lo can do much better.

Bens a total slob. I think he will have a fourth child with one of his future trusts. He’s accident prone and a major mess

He has a 154 IQ
https://www.msn.com/en-us/entertainment/entertainment-celebrity/hot-and-high-iq-10-stars-who-have-surprisingly-high-iqs/ss-BB1l4YRB#image=8

You can have a high IQ but a low EQ and bad judgment / behaviors. They are not mutually exclusive.

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Anonymous wrote:That video with Ben is real. I'm surprised some of you don't remember what a joke he looked like afterwards. To publicly pursue young women and put himself out there with no sense of embarrassment, it was crazy.

Well you’ve got to admire his DIY spirit. Most of the stars have “people” who find them young women to date. He’s willing to roll his sleeves up and do the work himself, apparently.
He does seem like one of those guys that’s not really able to be alone.

Maybe, but I would admire it more if these women were realistically better suited for him. Age, backround, looking IRL, not an employee.

the woman from the video is not really that young. this is her instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/nivinejay/

Ben is literally 20 years older than she is.

He spent*

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez has a big problem. Mainly her ego.
A Rod lost interest and when she pressured him to get married, he wouldn't do it.
Ben Affleck is a big dummy ..
Their first engagement many years ago ended because she was a controlling B.
I watched an interview with the two of them at that time and I couldn't believe how mean she was to him.
Didn't work the first time and it didn't work this time.

In all fairness, Ben needs someone to control him. Garner was just as firm
With him. Alcoholics and man childs like him need a second mother for their second adolescence.

He has to buy homes cash because he doesn’t trust himself to not go bankrupt or homeless from gambling. He says she spent hours at casinos people watching and advising them
On plays after he was banned from
Playing. He loves it.

He needs help

Anonymous wrote:Yes, criticize JLo all you want. She is a narcissist and deserves most of it. But Ben is a ridiculous man child who takes no responsibility for his many personal failings, including promising JLo the moon to get her back. I doubt either one is capable of making a LT relationship work.

He’s so ridiculous. He gave her a ring that said “not.going.anywhere” and signed all his love letters snd emails with not.going.anywhere. He trolled J Lo and found her via social media showing “support” for Arods emotional affair scandal. Why would a two timer and long time adulterer like Ben,
Cheated on J Lo during his bachelor party with a stripper, offer heart emojis and support for an emotional affair?

Trysts*

Anonymous wrote:

I remember when Ben was on the celeb dating app Raya in 2021 a few weeks before getting back with JLo.
He said "Nivine, why did you unmatch me, it's me."
Vid here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JShzoxxF1fM

Ben is truly a dumbass. I can’t believe someone in this thread said he has a 160 IQ lolz.

This is the same guy who used his 5 year old son’s IPad to sext the nanny and Garner found out.

He’s gross and J Lo can do much better.

Bens a total slob. I think he will have a fourth child with one of his future trusts. He’s accident prone and a major mess