Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 18:30     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.


You’re saying moves….but are they really moving up in the divisions or is Valor recoloring the team (Name) because the top team is possible moving to regionals or EDP?
-Are you going 7v7 to 9v9 or to 11v11 (increasing the number of the roster and the bench)
-Maybe less kids are playing as you move up in age group.
-For example look at the number of teams they combined or discontinued to support full rosters in the next age group.
-Are you in a better or worst division?
-How does that translate from last year?
-Have you really moved up are are you still sitting with the same players?


What is up with people here talking condescendingly to parents with direct experience with a situation as if they don’t know anything? Parents have directly told you what they have seen with their own two eyes, yet some of you (or maybe it’s just one of you) seems to think that you know better and the parent must be wrong. It’s really quite obnoxious.

To be fair it appears to be ONE parent saying moves happen and everyone else saying the opposite. As to the poster you are responding to I have no idea what that drivel was.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 18:13     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.


You’re saying moves….but are they really moving up in the divisions or is Valor recoloring the team (Name) because the top team is possible moving to regionals or EDP?
-Are you going 7v7 to 9v9 or to 11v11 (increasing the number of the roster and the bench)
-Maybe less kids are playing as you move up in age group.
-For example look at the number of teams they combined or discontinued to support full rosters in the next age group.
-Are you in a better or worst division?
-How does that translate from last year?
-Have you really moved up are are you still sitting with the same players?


What is up with people here talking condescendingly to parents with direct experience with a situation as if they don’t know anything? Parents have directly told you what they have seen with their own two eyes, yet some of you (or maybe it’s just one of you) seems to think that you know better and the parent must be wrong. It’s really quite obnoxious.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 15:07     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.


You’re saying moves….but are they really moving up in the divisions or is Valor recoloring the team (Name) because the top team is possible moving to regionals or EDP?
-Are you going 7v7 to 9v9 or to 11v11 (increasing the number of the roster and the bench)
-Maybe less kids are playing as you move up in age group.
-For example look at the number of teams they combined or discontinued to support full rosters in the next age group.
-Are you in a better or worst division?
-How does that translate from last year?
-Have you really moved up are are you still sitting with the same players?
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 14:36     Subject: Valor

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Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.
again not a thing in younger age groups. Teams are lumped together and then they recruit from rec to fill rosters. The earlier kids signed up will generally work out with top coach.. and Kids rotate around. Its not till 9v9 when the teams really form. The appearance of a team color is to make mommy and daddy feel good.


You have fully made up this little narrative. No longer in 7v7 but this does not match up AT ALL with what happened when our child was that age. I suspect this is what you are telling yourself so you feel better that your kid was on a lower team and never got moved up. It’s totally because you signed up later. Sure buddy…
nope. Ur lying or just dont know how it works.. once you get to 9v9 they simply dont move players.. its very rare.


Keep moving those goalposts so you can be “right”. What a joke.
no goal post at all. Valor groups the pool in 7v7. There is no moving an assigned kid up or down. Its pretty fluid and as time goes on the kids start to pool into future 9v9 teams. In 9v9 you are assigned a team.. they never move kids down mid season who are assigned specific teams. It just doesnt happen. And you are claiming it happened to multiple kids.. so we all know you are lying. Valor doesn’t operate that way.


My kids have been in Valor for a couple years...never had any kids move up or down mid season.
yep never happen moving down. Moving up it does happen. The OP is confusing the younger age groupings with an actual assigned team. The teams do coalesce during the season which gives an appearance of a team assignment. But the coaches really dont care. Its about starting the future revenue train. 9v9 if you are assigned a team they NEVER move you down midseason


At least one coach in an age group older than 7v7 has stated more than once that multiple players will be moved around for spring. If it doesn’t happen I will assume leadership has blocked it because the coach has very clearly stated their desire to make changes.
its coach speak, to shut up some parents who believe winning is goal in young age groups
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 13:45     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.
again not a thing in younger age groups. Teams are lumped together and then they recruit from rec to fill rosters. The earlier kids signed up will generally work out with top coach.. and Kids rotate around. Its not till 9v9 when the teams really form. The appearance of a team color is to make mommy and daddy feel good.


You have fully made up this little narrative. No longer in 7v7 but this does not match up AT ALL with what happened when our child was that age. I suspect this is what you are telling yourself so you feel better that your kid was on a lower team and never got moved up. It’s totally because you signed up later. Sure buddy…
nope. Ur lying or just dont know how it works.. once you get to 9v9 they simply dont move players.. its very rare.


Keep moving those goalposts so you can be “right”. What a joke.
no goal post at all. Valor groups the pool in 7v7. There is no moving an assigned kid up or down. Its pretty fluid and as time goes on the kids start to pool into future 9v9 teams. In 9v9 you are assigned a team.. they never move kids down mid season who are assigned specific teams. It just doesnt happen. And you are claiming it happened to multiple kids.. so we all know you are lying. Valor doesn’t operate that way.


My kids have been in Valor for a couple years...never had any kids move up or down mid season.
yep never happen moving down. Moving up it does happen. The OP is confusing the younger age groupings with an actual assigned team. The teams do coalesce during the season which gives an appearance of a team assignment. But the coaches really dont care. Its about starting the future revenue train. 9v9 if you are assigned a team they NEVER move you down midseason


At least one coach in an age group older than 7v7 has stated more than once that multiple players will be moved around for spring. If it doesn’t happen I will assume leadership has blocked it because the coach has very clearly stated their desire to make changes.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 13:35     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:this past fall, multiple Valor coaches were using a turf field at Ellanor Lawrence Park on Fridays for private lessons. They kicked pick up players off one day saying it was for "Valor practice" but only 1-2 kids per coach showed up. It was clearly not team practices. I am surprised Valor gives turf field space to coaches for this. Seems unethical when you are telling the County the field will be used for practices not private entrepenuriship.


Need to follow up on this… can’t tell as I don’t see valor (and some of this shenanigans) as being trust worthy
valor i believe has a blanket permit to have fields for certain windows. If you are on them its more in there rights to kick you off.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 13:32     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.
again not a thing in younger age groups. Teams are lumped together and then they recruit from rec to fill rosters. The earlier kids signed up will generally work out with top coach.. and Kids rotate around. Its not till 9v9 when the teams really form. The appearance of a team color is to make mommy and daddy feel good.


You have fully made up this little narrative. No longer in 7v7 but this does not match up AT ALL with what happened when our child was that age. I suspect this is what you are telling yourself so you feel better that your kid was on a lower team and never got moved up. It’s totally because you signed up later. Sure buddy…
nope. Ur lying or just dont know how it works.. once you get to 9v9 they simply dont move players.. its very rare.


Keep moving those goalposts so you can be “right”. What a joke.
no goal post at all. Valor groups the pool in 7v7. There is no moving an assigned kid up or down. Its pretty fluid and as time goes on the kids start to pool into future 9v9 teams. In 9v9 you are assigned a team.. they never move kids down mid season who are assigned specific teams. It just doesnt happen. And you are claiming it happened to multiple kids.. so we all know you are lying. Valor doesn’t operate that way.


My kids have been in Valor for a couple years...never had any kids move up or down mid season.
yep never happen moving down. Moving up it does happen. The OP is confusing the younger age groupings with an actual assigned team. The teams do coalesce during the season which gives an appearance of a team assignment. But the coaches really dont care. Its about starting the future revenue train. 9v9 if you are assigned a team they NEVER move you down midseason
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 12:45     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:Are there more people leaving from lower or higher tiered teams? Is moving up truly a rare occasion at valor? If it happens, when does it happen the most (mid season, during winter break, during summer break)? Is another kid getting moved down or is a vacant spot being filled?


Here's what I suggest: check out some other clubs nearby to really see how your kid stacks up with higher division coaches who run top teams (Divisions 1-3 in NCSL/NCSL-R or EDP) depending on age group/number of divisions in that given year.

-Playing devil's advocate and see what those clubs say about your kid's skills is important. If they think your child is performing at a high level, you'll have a better idea of where they fit in. Then, think about whether you're ready to put more time and money (resources) into a institution that won't support that growth.

-This will take some homework on your part, reaching out and engaging with the other club technical development trainers/directors.

-Below is the link where you can find where your team currently stacks up. Are they really being competitive or are they playing weaker teams/divisions? Maybe they got a win because you had guest players from your higher club division team.

- This will mean doing some homework on your part, like reaching out and talking to the trainers or directors at other clubs.

- Either your team is in a tournament that’s way too tough for them, or they need a lot of improvement. I’ve seen that happen a lot at Valor just to win games or tournaments. Misplacement in brackets. Just saying. Have fun and good luck.

https://www.ncsl-soccer.com/division-structure
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 12:42     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:this past fall, multiple Valor coaches were using a turf field at Ellanor Lawrence Park on Fridays for private lessons. They kicked pick up players off one day saying it was for "Valor practice" but only 1-2 kids per coach showed up. It was clearly not team practices. I am surprised Valor gives turf field space to coaches for this. Seems unethical when you are telling the County the field will be used for practices not private entrepenuriship.


Need to follow up on this… can’t tell as I don’t see valor (and some of this shenanigans) as being trust worthy
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 11:58     Subject: Valor

this past fall, multiple Valor coaches were using a turf field at Ellanor Lawrence Park on Fridays for private lessons. They kicked pick up players off one day saying it was for "Valor practice" but only 1-2 kids per coach showed up. It was clearly not team practices. I am surprised Valor gives turf field space to coaches for this. Seems unethical when you are telling the County the field will be used for practices not private entrepenuriship.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 11:54     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:…still waiting to find out if my coach is licensed. U11G.
Al and Gus are amazing coaches so why do you need a license to tell you that? If this was a concern, then you should have asked them before joining the team. After the fall, you have already spent several months with either of them, so not sure why you care. They are good or they are not. If you are concerned about their background check, come on. Please do recall that Arlington had the MD raper and Bethesda just had a coach get arrested for an authorized hand gun.


AC and GL are U12G coaches. I believe GL is currently completing his B License which means he already has his C and D licenses as those are pre-requisites. AC looks like he has a a couple grass roots licenses (9v9 and 11v11) which seems pretty reasonable for a second team coach. And to be honest, my kids have had and seen plenty of coaches (at Valor and beyond) with D,C, and B licenses who are not very good.


grassroots licenses? Those are the ones rec coaches get for free.
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 11:52     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Word on the street (field) is that one of coaches on girl team is double dipping with his own private lessons… spill it!


Paid private lessons for kids on the team he/she is officially coaching?!?!?!?


A number of coaches/clubs do this shit. It's ridiculous and a total conflict/literally pay to play.


Call them out?
Anonymous
Post 12/20/2024 09:16     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.
again not a thing in younger age groups. Teams are lumped together and then they recruit from rec to fill rosters. The earlier kids signed up will generally work out with top coach.. and Kids rotate around. Its not till 9v9 when the teams really form. The appearance of a team color is to make mommy and daddy feel good.


You have fully made up this little narrative. No longer in 7v7 but this does not match up AT ALL with what happened when our child was that age. I suspect this is what you are telling yourself so you feel better that your kid was on a lower team and never got moved up. It’s totally because you signed up later. Sure buddy…
nope. Ur lying or just dont know how it works.. once you get to 9v9 they simply dont move players.. its very rare.


Keep moving those goalposts so you can be “right”. What a joke.
no goal post at all. Valor groups the pool in 7v7. There is no moving an assigned kid up or down. Its pretty fluid and as time goes on the kids start to pool into future 9v9 teams. In 9v9 you are assigned a team.. they never move kids down mid season who are assigned specific teams. It just doesnt happen. And you are claiming it happened to multiple kids.. so we all know you are lying. Valor doesn’t operate that way.


My kids have been in Valor for a couple years...never had any kids move up or down mid season.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2024 21:06     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Word on the street (field) is that one of coaches on girl team is double dipping with his own private lessons… spill it!


Paid private lessons for kids on the team he/she is officially coaching?!?!?!?


A number of coaches/clubs do this shit. It's ridiculous and a total conflict/literally pay to play.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2024 20:18     Subject: Valor

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So we're with Valor *gasp* I know. Our age group has multiple players moving UP and DOWN mid season. This is below U13, so don't know about other age groups. These moves were NOT by parent's requests. From what we can tell the moves were warranted. Our player was not one of those moved, but we had a player move up from our team and another move down to us from the team above.

Our experience has been a good one so far, but it's a big club so I imagine opinions will vary.
again not a thing in younger age groups. Teams are lumped together and then they recruit from rec to fill rosters. The earlier kids signed up will generally work out with top coach.. and Kids rotate around. Its not till 9v9 when the teams really form. The appearance of a team color is to make mommy and daddy feel good.


You have fully made up this little narrative. No longer in 7v7 but this does not match up AT ALL with what happened when our child was that age. I suspect this is what you are telling yourself so you feel better that your kid was on a lower team and never got moved up. It’s totally because you signed up later. Sure buddy…
nope. Ur lying or just dont know how it works.. once you get to 9v9 they simply dont move players.. its very rare.


Keep moving those goalposts so you can be “right”. What a joke.
no goal post at all. Valor groups the pool in 7v7. There is no moving an assigned kid up or down. Its pretty fluid and as time goes on the kids start to pool into future 9v9 teams. In 9v9 you are assigned a team.. they never move kids down mid season who are assigned specific teams. It just doesnt happen. And you are claiming it happened to multiple kids.. so we all know you are lying. Valor doesn’t operate that way.