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Anonymous wrote:What was the final straw that broke the camel's back?

Probably J Lo revealing all of Ben’s love letters was devastating blow. In that action, it showed Ben that nothing was sacred or private. That her greed for fame, money, and branding will always be above love for him.

Yeah, I have to say that was a huge deal. She either doesn't know him well enough to know that he'd absolutely hate that or she didn't care how he felt because her "Greatest Love Story Never Told" project was more important.

I'm not a fan or hater of either of them so I'm not invested but that right there, that was a death blow to the relationship.

H's flawed, granted...probably deeply. But he has worked a program, is likely in therapy and has been for years and has a deeper level of self awareness and therefore privacy. He is more psychologically minded bssically. She is not. It's obvious. I think he just realized it...that she has her own emptiness she tries to fill with fame and validation. And he saw that as the deeper problem it is. He said as much in regard to her always trying to fill holes inside. I agree too...he relieved the circus of twenty years ago with the negative pap attention, plus the doc failure...it just made him miserable. And he felt trapped which is his issue but in a way he was. He probably felt he lost control of his life and had to save himself.

You must be the poster who calls Ben a “creative genius”.

I am not actually....I just really think she has a lot of serious psychological problems. He does too.

I called him a creative genius. He is. That doesn't make him a nice guy / good father / sober adult / responsible friend. It just makes him very intelligent and talented. Many talented geniuses are douche bags and worse. Wake up.

DP. Creative genius, though? Genius? He's good at what he does but let's dial down what a groundbreaking figure Ben Affleck is.

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Anonymous wrote:What was the final straw that broke the camel's back?

Probably J Lo revealing all of Ben’s love letters was devastating blow. In that action, it showed Ben that nothing was sacred or private. That her greed for fame, money, and branding will always be above love for him.

Yeah, I have to say that was a huge deal. She either doesn't know him well enough to know that he'd absolutely hate that or she didn't care how he felt because her "Greatest Love Story Never Told" project was more important.

I'm not a fan or hater of either of them so I'm not invested but that right there, that was a death blow to the relationship.

H's flawed, granted...probably deeply. But he has worked a program, is likely in therapy and has been for years and has a deeper level of self awareness and therefore privacy. He is more psychologically minded bssically. She is not. It's obvious. I think he just realized it...that she has her own emptiness she tries to fill with fame and validation. And he saw that as the deeper problem it is. He said as much in regard to her always trying to fill holes inside. I agree too...he relieved the circus of twenty years ago with the negative pap attention, plus the doc failure...it just made him miserable. And he felt trapped which is his issue but in a way he was. He probably felt he lost control of his life and had to save himself.

You must be the poster who calls Ben a “creative genius”.

I am not actually....I just really think she has a lot of serious psychological problems. He does too.

I called him a creative genius. He is. That doesn't make him a nice guy / good father / sober adult / responsible friend. It just makes him very intelligent and talented. Many talented geniuses are douche bags and worse. Wake up.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

In one part of the film, Lopez revealed how Affleck had kept all their written communication to one another over the years despite his 2005-2018 marriage to ex Jennifer Garner, whom he shares kids Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11.

"This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today," the actress shared of the Good Will Hunting star, whom she tied the knot with in 2022.
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https://okmagazine.com/p/ben-affleck-saved-jennifer-lopez-love-letters-married-jennifer-garner/

And JLo couldn't figure out how hurtful this book of 20 year old letters and emsils would be to Jennifer Garner, as well as to Ben's and JG's kids? Plus, all the weddings, honeymoon and fanny pat bed pics from their honeymoon trips?JLo deserves all the "happiness" she's now experiencing.

Yeah, it seems like she was really rubbing it into JG’s face.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

In one part of the film, Lopez revealed how Affleck had kept all their written communication to one another over the years despite his 2005-2018 marriage to ex Jennifer Garner, whom he shares kids Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11.

"This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today," the actress shared of the Good Will Hunting star, whom she tied the knot with in 2022.
Source:
https://okmagazine.com/p/ben-affleck-saved-jennifer-lopez-love-letters-married-jennifer-garner/

And JLo couldn't figure out how hurtful this book of 20 year old letters and emsils would be to Jennifer Garner, as well as to Ben's and JG's kids? Plus, all the weddings, honeymoon and fanny pat bed pics from their honeymoon trips?JLo deserves all the "happiness" she's now experiencing.

Yeah, it seems like she was really rubbing it into JG’s face.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

In one part of the film, Lopez revealed how Affleck had kept all their written communication to one another over the years despite his 2005-2018 marriage to ex Jennifer Garner, whom he shares kids Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11.

"This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today," the actress shared of the Good Will Hunting star, whom she tied the knot with in 2022.
Source:
https://okmagazine.com/p/ben-affleck-saved-jennifer-lopez-love-letters-married-jennifer-garner/

And JLo couldn't figure out how hurtful this book of 20 year old letters and emsils would be to Jennifer Garner, as well as to Ben's and JG's kids? Plus, all the weddings, honeymoon and fanny pat bed pics from their honeymoon trips?JLo deserves all the "happiness" she's now experiencing.

Yeah, it seems like she was really rubbing it into JG’s face.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

In one part of the film, Lopez revealed how Affleck had kept all their written communication to one another over the years despite his 2005-2018 marriage to ex Jennifer Garner, whom he shares kids Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11.

"This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today," the actress shared of the Good Will Hunting star, whom she tied the knot with in 2022.
Source:
https://okmagazine.com/p/ben-affleck-saved-jennifer-lopez-love-letters-married-jennifer-garner/

And JLo couldn't figure out how hurtful this book of 20 year old letters and emsils would be to Jennifer Garner, as well as to Ben's and JG's kids? Plus, all the weddings, honeymoon and fanny pat bed pics from their honeymoon trips?JLo deserves all the "happiness" she's now experiencing.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

This is one of the rumored letters that Ben Affleck sent JLo during their first go round

In it, she holds a letter dated December 24, 2002, which appeared to be from Affleck. “Life’s tough but you’re sweet,” it read. “Thanks for the gift. Hope you like the flowers. You told me you could never have enough. I believe you.” The letter was signed “B.”

And I agree pp, I suspect any “love letters” written during his marriage to JG were nothing more than emails saying “hey, congrats on the new movie”. And in his defense, I still have a box in my basement that has some cards and notes written by an old college boyfriend, and could probably dig up old emails from my yahoo sent box too.

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TMZ Bennifer update: (and yes, TMZ is credible.)

Sources with direct knowledge tell TMZ … J Lo and Ben are not speaking to one another -- in person or over the phone -- and it's really slowing down their divorce.

Ben and Jen's icy relationship is really the only thing preventing this from being a quickie divorce ... we're told they have a prenup and the only asset they have to divide is their Beverly Hills mansion, which is on the market.

Our sources say J Lo and Ben have NOT hired lawyers and are instead having everything go through their respective business managers, who are trying to figure out the financials behind the divorce ... but it's complicated because the principals are not talking.

Ben and J Lo will eventually hire divorce lawyers, and we're told no documents will be filed until they reach a settlement. They will file legal docs requesting a divorce, the judge will sign it and that will be that.

But until Ben and Jen start talking again, things will continue moving at a snail's pace.

https://www.tmz.com/2024/08/05/jennifer-lopez-ben-affleck-not-talking-divorce-moving-slowly/

If they have a prenup and the only asset is the house, what’s the problem? They could be divorced to tomorrow.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

In one part of the film, Lopez revealed how Affleck had kept all their written communication to one another over the years despite his 2005-2018 marriage to ex Jennifer Garner, whom he shares kids Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 11.

"This book is a book Ben gave me on our first Christmas back together. It is every letter and every email that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today," the actress shared of the Good Will Hunting star, whom she tied the knot with in 2022.
Source:
https://okmagazine.com/p/ben-affleck-saved-jennifer-lopez-love-letters-married-jennifer-garner/

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.

I'm confused. Ben had the letters he had written to JLo? Wouldn't JLo have had those already if he had written and presumably given them to her?

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Anonymous wrote:Where are these letters????

She showed them to her team/friends in her documentary.

Where is the documentary??

So, she didn’t publish the letters? Then what’s the big deal? I don’t understand why this is SO awful?

Did he really write to her while he was married?

I don’t believe he wrote to her while married to Garner, but he held on to his previous love letters written to JLo from prior to his relationship with Garner. He held these letters for all of JG’s marriage and then gave them to JLo this second time around in a book as a romantic gift.