Anonymous wrote:Btw I never see a photo of Brandon with his gal that I don’t think there’s some hot sex going on there. Real chemistry is easy to detect even in photos.

Case and point: same person.

Anonymous wrote:Brandon, Post Divorce Romantic Life: 1
Jen, Post Divorce Romantic Life: 0

Brandon coupled up. Jen, down.

And this is not a slam on Tyler.

It’s just based on obvious chemistry and comparability. Texas Barbie is hot, has a job equal to her mate, and they look super happy together.

Jen is coupled with an obvious gay man who has 1/10 the following as he does. And they are an odd looking couple.

There’s a poster on here who is very shallow and obvious. It’s always about “Texas Barbie”, how happy Brandon looks, how they must be having amazing sex, and often a reference to her “real job”. It’s really transparent, Brandon.

Oh my God.

From now on it’s Big Sis and Big Sass

Lol.

I can’t even.

Oh my God.

From now on it’s Big Sis and Big Sass

Lol.

I’m can’t even.

Jen is a NPD poster child. She is always spinning some self-aggrandizing narrative. She’s always the hero. Or the victim.

She has all the answers and is always winning. She’s the center of her own universe. Just ask her. MeCamp.

Blinded by self-delusion. The fact that she wrote a ‘manifesto’ about living the best life possible right before her own imploded. Zero self-awareness that’s almost comical.

Others are valuable and worthy to Jen but only in how they elevate her own value, status, and worth.

Likely Jen’s NPD has helped her write a new narrative around her divorce that’s aided her speedy recovery. Yesterdays post also had a delusional aspect. All this gushing about how safe she is in this long distance romance with a man who is her main source of info. about himself. He’s lived 45+ years of his life already single doing itinerant art type jobs so there’s no telling what all has really transpired. Particularly if he has narcissistic tendencies as well and has taken some liberties with the truth in his self narration. Remember they’ve only known each other since Nov. and live states apart seeing each other occasionally for long weekends. Yet according to her they’ve already moved past that early relationship need to impress and are now in that easy comfort of two soul mates who totally understand each other. I believe that’s what she wants to be true but the math doesn’t add up.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in year four after a horrific divorce (abuse/addiction). I am still single and doing a lot of healing and work.

I think it’s great if Jen has partnered up- no jealousy here- but definitely some quiet eye rolls and smirks at her telling anyone anything about “being alone” when she made it about a minute single. I find her rush to department sad and ultimately very very shortsighted.

It might have been fun to see her doing something more non traditional than finding a token African American to beard for.

Seriously questioning if it truly was easier for Jen to get over her divorce because her NPD doesn’t allow her to feel actual love.
Like Dirty John got over relationships real quick too, right? Stalking is a sign of “love” to some folks cause their definition of love is from a totally different dictionary.

Why does Big Sass have “actor” on his Facebook page?

Anonymous wrote:Btw I never see a photo of Brandon with his gal that I don’t think there’s some hot sex going on there. Real chemistry is easy to detect even in photos.

Ew David

Jen’s really woo woo on her latest post.

Btw I never see a photo of Brandon with his gal that I don’t think there’s some hot sex going on there. Real chemistry is easy to detect even in photos.

Anonymous wrote:I’m in year four after a horrific divorce (abuse/addiction). I am still single and doing a lot of healing and work.

I think it’s great if Jen has partnered up- no jealousy here- but definitely some quiet eye rolls and smirks at her telling anyone anything about “being alone” when she made it about a minute single. I find her rush to department sad and ultimately very very shortsighted.

It might have been fun to see her doing something more non traditional than finding a token African American to beard for.

About 6 years ago a dear friend of mine had a sudden very nasty infidelity divorce that totally crushed her. Ex was so vicious to her afterwards and he remarried quickly, of course. Like J&H they had got married right out of college.
Lots of therapy. Lots of learning that she can survive anything and she can adult all by herself.

18m ago she met a wonderful guy and they just got married! And we are all thrilled, because we know she actually *has* put in the work - and maybe the biggest part of the work was staying single and focusing on getting her and her kids’ shit together when she was so desperately lonely.
Hubs even tried to set her up w a great guy, and after one phone call she said she wouldn’t even meet with him because she could tell he wasn’t healed from his divorce yet. Annoyed us at the time, but now I see how wise she was. She said she was too far ahead of him in the process for it to be a healthy relationship.

It takes time to be reborn. Otherwise you just choose someone as broken as you still are.
I don’t think that happens in 12 months, Sis.

Tyler mentioned he used to dress women when he was on the double date podcast. Said that’s why he has an eye for how women look in their clothes and he loves complimenting them on their choices. 😳Not your typical job for a heterosexual male. My gay guy bff once initiated going thru my entire closet removing all my outdated clothes for goodwill.
Perhaps Tyler feels so safe cause he’s more of a male girlfriend than an actual fiery lover. I never see a photo of them that I don’t think buddies not lovers. Something doesn’t add up.

So yeah I agree, Brandon has a won in the post divorce coupling.

Anonymous wrote:“ Tyler used to be a women’s dresser” for real?

How very heterosexual of him. Straightest job a man can have, really.
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He loved Broadway too. And wears custom-designed t-shirts with BIG sassy slogans.

I tell you, next well learn he simply adores his mother and has a collection of chiffon scarves.

“ Tyler used to be a women’s dresser” for real?

How very heterosexual of him. Straightest job a man can have, really.
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