Anonymous
Post 02/25/2021 21:37     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:If this man is half the atrocious shitgoblin you are, he’s compensating the ex for pain and suffering.


LOL
Anonymous
Post 02/24/2021 07:44     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
OP much easier to find a guy without kids. Move forward, this will be nothing but headaches.
Anonymous
Post 02/24/2021 00:36     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He makes like 150k. The mom makes even more than that. Just seems crazy.


who has custody? my ex makes 180k. I make 100k. I get $400. It is nothing. 2 kids. in VA. what state are you in?


50/50 custody?


yes


Maybe he is lying to you because he doesn't want to share his money with you. He's been there done that has no intention of repeating the same "mistakes" . All states have different laws re whether marital assets can be garnished/liened re child custody disputes, should he say fall behind. No way I would tie my wagon to that!


You realize dad has the kids half time and mom has good income.
Anonymous
Post 02/23/2021 08:24     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
If this man is half the atrocious shitgoblin you are, he’s compensating the ex for pain and suffering.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2021 19:34     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Because he wasn't able to make a relationship work.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2021 19:33     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He makes like 150k. The mom makes even more than that. Just seems crazy.


who has custody? my ex makes 180k. I make 100k. I get $400. It is nothing. 2 kids. in VA. what state are you in?


50/50 custody?


yes


Maybe he is lying to you because he doesn't want to share his money with you. He's been there done that has no intention of repeating the same "mistakes" . All states have different laws re whether marital assets can be garnished/liened re child custody disputes, should he say fall behind. No way I would tie my wagon to that!
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2021 14:53     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He makes like 150k. The mom makes even more than that. Just seems crazy.


who has custody? my ex makes 180k. I make 100k. I get $400. It is nothing. 2 kids. in VA. what state are you in?


50/50 custody?


yes
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2021 12:33     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He makes like 150k. The mom makes even more than that. Just seems crazy.


who has custody? my ex makes 180k. I make 100k. I get $400. It is nothing. 2 kids. in VA. what state are you in?


50/50 custody?
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2021 12:09     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is this normal in DC??


Must maintain same standard of living as before.


No, not true at all.
Anonymous
Post 02/21/2021 12:09     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:He makes like 150k. The mom makes even more than that. Just seems crazy.


who has custody? my ex makes 180k. I make 100k. I get $400. It is nothing. 2 kids. in VA. what state are you in?
Anonymous
Post 02/20/2021 16:02     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Is this normal in DC??


Must maintain same standard of living as before.


This isn’t true.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 22:30     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:Is this normal in DC??


Must maintain same standard of living as before.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 20:43     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My nephew pays $800 a month for one kid with no court involvement, he's paid it for 13 years, totally voluntary. If he did go through the courts it would likely be about half that based on his income and Va laws.

He does it because he wants to.


Ok it costs a ton to raise a kid. $800 isn’t much at all. In the summer camps are $400 a month


Camps sre 400 a week in Arlington


County camps are much cheaper. And camps are only 8 weeks and dad should get time in the summer.
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 06:05     Subject: Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My nephew pays $800 a month for one kid with no court involvement, he's paid it for 13 years, totally voluntary. If he did go through the courts it would likely be about half that based on his income and Va laws.

He does it because he wants to.


Ok it costs a ton to raise a kid. $800 isn’t much at all. In the summer camps are $400 a month


Camps sre 400 a week in Arlington
Anonymous
Post 02/19/2021 04:12     Subject: Re:Why does my partner pay $2400 a month child support for one kid?
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Anonymous wrote:All of you piling on OP, back off. I would worry that if the guy loses his job and they're married, would OP be obliged by the court to cover CS for him?


Then don’t marry him. It’s that easy.


This.

And if OP has baby fever she should fish in other ponds. Like unencumbered dad ponds.


NMNK men are picky, which is why women eventually start dating dads with obligations. Then they pull out the calculator and get upset.