Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It all comes down to each school’s relationships with the colleges.
Sometimes this is true, like the spaces reserved for Princeton at TJHS. Privates and publics can have this arrangement, but only with one school and most do not have them at all. More claim to have them than actually do.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
So let’s assume this is true. How many students from four high schools in DC are going to this school each year from the “top of the class”? Those kids are going to HYPS or equivalent. Maybe 10-15? How many of those kids are taking classes from this one professor? The odds strains credulity that this “professor” has seen more than a handful of students who self identified their high school as well.
And if the kids are still young enough to not be in MS yet, let’s think about how long this person has realistically been teaching as a professor.
Nice try though.
I had 3 NCS girls and a Whitman student in my core (ie. prereq) class this fall, along with a couple students from Silver Spring area HSs, and I do teach at a HYPS. I sit on several scholarship and awards committees for the undergrads, so also see their CVs and transcripts. You're making a lot of incorrect assumptions.
I was worried I'd shared too much and potentially outed myself, so I'm somewhat relieved (and amused) none of you seem to believe me. Thanks for reminding me why I rarely spend time on this board!
Well, you don't teach at Yale since they've said they're not reducing the # of students they accept despite deferrals from last year (which you said the school you teach at is doing). You don't teach at Stanford because it's too far and there weren't 3 girls from NCS who went to Stanford last year. It also seems unlikely that were 3 girls from NCS at Princeton or Harvard, but maybe. Or maybe you teach at Chicago... The DCUM sleuths will get to the bottom of this!
Maybe the professor doesn’t teach freshman. Hmm?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
I have a kid at each. The top students at both Big 3 schools and a school like Whitman are all very bright and hard working. But public school kids often have more grit.
Private school parents love to put down the public schools, saying they can retake tests and have rampant grade inflation. The retaking tests is in MS. My kid at Whitman has never been allowed to retake a test. And there is grade inflation, which hurts the top students somewhat. But it is actually very rare for kids to graduate with a perfect 4.0 unweighted. The teachers and classes are tough. And there is not the hand holding that you get in private school. It’s more sink or swim.
Can you help me find the spot in the application process to quantify level of "grit"?
L.o.l. You are a desperate mom trying to include Whitman in a Big 3 discussion. I am a law professor. No one considers wealthy suburban white kids at Whitman to be "gritty".
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
So let’s assume this is true. How many students from four high schools in DC are going to this school each year from the “top of the class”? Those kids are going to HYPS or equivalent. Maybe 10-15? How many of those kids are taking classes from this one professor? The odds strains credulity that this “professor” has seen more than a handful of students who self identified their high school as well.
And if the kids are still young enough to not be in MS yet, let’s think about how long this person has realistically been teaching as a professor.
Nice try though.
I had 3 NCS girls and a Whitman student in my core (ie. prereq) class this fall, along with a couple students from Silver Spring area HSs, and I do teach at a HYPS. I sit on several scholarship and awards committees for the undergrads, so also see their CVs and transcripts. You're making a lot of incorrect assumptions.
I was worried I'd shared too much and potentially outed myself, so I'm somewhat relieved (and amused) none of you seem to believe me. Thanks for reminding me why I rarely spend time on this board!
Well, you don't teach at Yale since they've said they're not reducing the # of students they accept despite deferrals from last year (which you said the school you teach at is doing). You don't teach at Stanford because it's too far and there weren't 3 girls from NCS who went to Stanford last year. It also seems unlikely that were 3 girls from NCS at Princeton or Harvard, but maybe. Or maybe you teach at Chicago... The DCUM sleuths will get to the bottom of this!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
The top W kids are going to the same schools as the top big 3 kids
Yes, that is exactly what they are saying. See the comment about the top 50% private vs. top 15% public. People here are so insecure.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
So let’s assume this is true. How many students from four high schools in DC are going to this school each year from the “top of the class”? Those kids are going to HYPS or equivalent. Maybe 10-15? How many of those kids are taking classes from this one professor? The odds strains credulity that this “professor” has seen more than a handful of students who self identified their high school as well.
And if the kids are still young enough to not be in MS yet, let’s think about how long this person has realistically been teaching as a professor.
Nice try though.
I had 3 NCS girls and a Whitman student in my core (ie. prereq) class this fall, along with a couple students from Silver Spring area HSs, and I do teach at a HYPS. I sit on several scholarship and awards committees for the undergrads, so also see their CVs and transcripts. You're making a lot of incorrect assumptions.
I was worried I'd shared too much and potentially outed myself, so I'm somewhat relieved (and amused) none of you seem to believe me. Thanks for reminding me why I rarely spend time on this board!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No one on this board wants to believe that the top students at a public are as good or better than the top students at their private, especially the “big 3.”
Give it a rest. No one is saying they are not as good. It is the public school people who are saying how poorly prepared etc the private school kids are doing. For God's sake, we have lost our damn way if this is what people are arguing about. There are successful kids from all schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
I have a kid at each. The top students at both Big 3 schools and a school like Whitman are all very bright and hard working. But public school kids often have more grit.
Private school parents love to put down the public schools, saying they can retake tests and have rampant grade inflation. The retaking tests is in MS. My kid at Whitman has never been allowed to retake a test. And there is grade inflation, which hurts the top students somewhat. But it is actually very rare for kids to graduate with a perfect 4.0 unweighted. The teachers and classes are tough. And there is not the hand holding that you get in private school. It’s more sink or swim.
Can you help me find the spot in the application process to quantify level of "grit"?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I interviewed a kid from the "Big 3" for my HYPS alma mater and I'm sad she got deferred. She seemed great!
Did she tell you she got deferred or does the school tell you that?
The school tells me. You can login to your alumni reviewer portal and check on the status of kids you’ve interviewed. They ask you to contact anyone who got in to say congrats; they ask you not to contact anyone who didn’t. Anyways, I just really liked this kid — one of the best two I’ve interviewed in about 10 years — so I was disappointed she ended up deferred. No doubt she’ll get in somewhere great though.
To the interviewer -- if you happen to be the woman who interviewed my daughter, she loved talking to you, too. She is disappointed, but still holding out hope that she'll get better news during the regular decision round. Thank you for rooting for her!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^ NP. I am guessing that the Big 3 kids in your classes were not the ones in the top of the class at their Big 3s, but the W kids were probably at the top of class or closer to it. So you are not comparing the same tier of kids. I have kids who have attended public and Big 3, and am very confident that the top 50% at the Big 3 are at least as strong academically as the top 15-20% at a W school (and we are in a W district).
I doubt it. I don't want to out myself on this board, but there's no way a student not in the top of their class got into the school I teach at. We live in the DC area, I "super commute" when I am teaching in person bc my spouse works in this area. My kids go to a Big 3 but I'm thinking strongly of pulling them before MS.
It's not at all fabrication, but you believe what you want.
I have a kid at each. The top students at both Big 3 schools and a school like Whitman are all very bright and hard working. But public school kids often have more grit.
Private school parents love to put down the public schools, saying they can retake tests and have rampant grade inflation. The retaking tests is in MS. My kid at Whitman has never been allowed to retake a test. And there is grade inflation, which hurts the top students somewhat. But it is actually very rare for kids to graduate with a perfect 4.0 unweighted. The teachers and classes are tough. And there is not the hand holding that you get in private school. It’s more sink or swim.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I interviewed a kid from the "Big 3" for my HYPS alma mater and I'm sad she got deferred. She seemed great!
Did she tell you she got deferred or does the school tell you that?
The school tells me. You can login to your alumni reviewer portal and check on the status of kids you’ve interviewed. They ask you to contact anyone who got in to say congrats; they ask you not to contact anyone who didn’t. Anyways, I just really liked this kid — one of the best two I’ve interviewed in about 10 years — so I was disappointed she ended up deferred. No doubt she’ll get in somewhere great though.