Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Oh please. Churchill sends what - 2 kids to Harvard a year?
Wheaton send what 3 kids to any college? And all 3 of them then get crazy student loan debt for an an otherwise unremarkable degree and have to take a crap job to start paying it off. Then after a couple of months on fries they hit assistant manager and that is when the big bucks start rolling in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Oh please. Churchill sends what - 2 kids to Harvard a year?
Wheaton send what 3 kids to any college? And all 3 of them then get crazy student loan debt for an an otherwise unremarkable degree and have to take a crap job to start paying it off. Then after a couple of months on fries they hit assistant manager and that is when the big bucks start rolling in.
Funny, we have enough saved for college and graduate school. Do you?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Oh please. Churchill sends what - 2 kids to Harvard a year?
Wheaton send what 3 kids to any college? And all 3 of them then get crazy student loan debt for an an otherwise unremarkable degree and have to take a crap job to start paying it off. Then after a couple of months on fries they hit assistant manager and that is when the big bucks start rolling in.
Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Oh please. Churchill sends what - 2 kids to Harvard a year?
Wheaton send what 3 kids to any college? And all 3 of them then get crazy student loan debt for an an otherwise unremarkable degree and have to take a crap job to start paying it off. Then after a couple of months on fries they hit assistant manager and that is when the big bucks start rolling in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Oh please. Churchill sends what - 2 kids to Harvard a year?
Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Anonymous wrote:Back to the earlier question: Besides having well-advantaged peers, what is the difference for these students in the end?
Most people acclimate to the society around them; they strive to be in the lead group.
So, if you are in school among lots of financially well-off friends in advanced classes, then you are all ... wait for it ... AVERAGE in your school. It's a basic expectation and so not remarkable.
It would be EXCEPTIONAL to be the only kid going for Harvard at Wheaton -- at Churchill, it's AVERAGE.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The infighting between various gradations of middle class people in this thread is sad. Save that ire for the people who send all their three kids to St Albans or Holton Arms. You're all crabs in a (relatively comfortable) bucket.
Actually, I think that people who undermine our public schools with their unexamined fears—while using public resources to bolster their own “elitism”—deserve a special kind of ire. It’s hypocrisy at its finest.
Ha! And to think...this is one of the most liberal and progressive counties in the United States.
Our government's educational policy for decades has been to bring everything down to the lowest common denominator. So if some kids are sitting in class bored while the teacher goes through the same concept 10 more times to bring the bottom of the curve up, that's viewed as a win-win for "equity.". Meanwhile, it Shanghai our competitors are studying multivariable calculus. Then we are going to look up in 30 years and realize we seriously messed up a good thing.
But it's all ok if an overeducated underpaid progressive in Takoma Park gets to feel good between now and the day of reckoning.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The infighting between various gradations of middle class people in this thread is sad. Save that ire for the people who send all their three kids to St Albans or Holton Arms. You're all crabs in a (relatively comfortable) bucket.
Actually, I think that people who undermine our public schools with their unexamined fears—while using public resources to bolster their own “elitism”—deserve a special kind of ire. It’s hypocrisy at its finest.
Ha! And to think...this is one of the most liberal and progressive counties in the United States.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The infighting between various gradations of middle class people in this thread is sad. Save that ire for the people who send all their three kids to St Albans or Holton Arms. You're all crabs in a (relatively comfortable) bucket.
Actually, I think that people who undermine our public schools with their unexamined fears—while using public resources to bolster their own “elitism”—deserve a special kind of ire. It’s hypocrisy at its finest.
Anonymous wrote:The infighting between various gradations of middle class people in this thread is sad. Save that ire for the people who send all their three kids to St Albans or Holton Arms. You're all crabs in a (relatively comfortable) bucket.
Anonymous wrote:
>>>Thank you for your perspective. I’m sorry your child had such a hard time at Wheaton and I hope they are doing better at their current school, whichever one it is. Best of luck with the Harvard application.<<<
>>You handle their fragility with such wit. I love it!
-wheaton parent<<
ME, TOO. OMG.