Anonymous
08/07/2019 14:44
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a V. I'd love to trick a woman into thinking she is tricking me into getting herself pregnant by not taking her BC and having all the crazy sex she can with me to "accidentally" get pregnant, but it never happens. Or she does, but not by me but tries to tell me it's mine. Yeah, that's Fd up I know.
this happens frequently, unfortunately
Women frequently "accidentally" get pregnant on purpose? Where are you getting this?
Yeah, they do. I know of several cases. Especially if they want to trap that guy into a LT relationship, or think he is about to leave her.
Same here, a lot of cases married or not. For the above, or they simply wanted a child and the guy was not on board. They claimed the birth control failed. I feel like every man should be responsible for his own birth control, but since many are so irresponsible the woman can easily stop taking hers.
Anonymous
08/07/2019 14:41
Subject: Re:Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
I can't believe this post. You are wrong, OP. If you are so concerned about your DH then don't leave him. To make him get a vasectomy only to leave him, just to ensure he never has any more children, is so sinister and evil that I just can't.
Anonymous
08/07/2019 14:39
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:This can’t be real.
Why not?
I have a friend that had been married to her husband for almost 15 years. They had three kids. Her husband up and left her when the third kid was still a baby. He had been having an affair with a younger woman at work and decided he'd rather be with her.
He went on to marry her and guess what? THEY had a couple of kids. Then he decided he didn't want to work anymore so ditched his legal career and stopped paying child support.
Sorry, but I'd protect myself and my kids first if I had the chance.
Anonymous
08/07/2019 09:51
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!
My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.
His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.
Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.
Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.
LOL
You tricked him and accidentally on purpose got pregnant. He's not even divorced, you're only the OW!
Now he's stuck, he has to be with one of you because he can't afford to pay 2 women. Wait and see, if he's smart he'll run those numbers. Then realize it's cheaper to stay with his wife and kids.
You're a great case for men to get a vasectomy once they their family! I agree with you OP!
You sound like one of those insecure wives who knows deep down that you will ultimately get left and your DH will end up with a younger and prettier woman.
If you were so great you wouldn't have had to trap him.
Anonymous
08/07/2019 09:45
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:you are batshit crazy!
My boyfriend has been separated for two years and will be divorced soon.
His ex wife is a controlling bitch who alienates him from his daughter and tries to limit his custody so she can maximize her CS.
Well she's got another thing coming because now I'm pregnant and we will have our own family. He doesn't have to cry every night from missing his child bc I will give him another one.
Oh and the ex wife kept saying that he better not have another kid. Bye bitch.
LOL
You tricked him and accidentally on purpose got pregnant. He's not even divorced, you're only the OW!
Now he's stuck, he has to be with one of you because he can't afford to pay 2 women. Wait and see, if he's smart he'll run those numbers. Then realize it's cheaper to stay with his wife and kids.
You're a great case for men to get a vasectomy once they their family! I agree with you OP!
You sound like one of those insecure wives who knows deep down that you will ultimately get left and your DH will end up with a younger and prettier woman.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 20:09
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Are you people insane?
You want to control the fertility of another person. Think about this. And potentially a third person as well. You all need some damn hobbies.
Not insane. Just evil.
You want to get pregnant by somebody who is done having children. You are evil and controlling.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 19:35
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have two kids together. He’s 38. Basically, the marriage isn’t working. He’s lied for the past five years, I don’t think I’ll move past it, but what keeps me from wanting to leave is the thought of him starting a new family at 40 with some late 20-something because now he has money.
It’s petty, but so were a his really stupid lies.
So you want to leave him because he has been dishonest. But before you leave him, you want him to get a vasectomy. Then you plan to kick him to the curb. That sounds pretty dishonest on your part.
Pot calling the kettle black.
I wonder if Anna Faris pulled this on Chris Pratt before he married his 29yo Schwarznegger bride.
I'm guessing no. They seem to have had an amicable breakup and maintain an amicable post-divorce relationship.
They also have one kid and are both very wealthy. I doubt Anna is not worried about how to pay for Jack’s orthodontia if his stepmom pumps out a half dozen kids (as a Kennedy is wont to do).
Anonymous
08/06/2019 19:30
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a V. I'd love to trick a woman into thinking she is tricking me into getting herself pregnant by not taking her BC and having all the crazy sex she can with me to "accidentally" get pregnant, but it never happens. Or she does, but not by me but tries to tell me it's mine. Yeah, that's Fd up I know.
this happens frequently, unfortunately
Women frequently "accidentally" get pregnant on purpose? Where are you getting this?
Yeah, they do. I know of several cases. Especially if they want to trap that guy into a LT relationship, or think he is about to leave her.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 19:28
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a V. I'd love to trick a woman into thinking she is tricking me into getting herself pregnant by not taking her BC and having all the crazy sex she can with me to "accidentally" get pregnant, but it never happens. Or she does, but not by me but tries to tell me it's mine. Yeah, that's Fd up I know.
A long time ago I saw a daytime talk show with this same scenario. The younger woman insisted that she hadn’t cheated. The man was angry and really wanted to shame her - he kept saying “I had a vasectomy!” Well, turns out theirs was the one in a million situation where the vasectomy was not 100% effective and he was the father.
He must have gotten his in some third world country. With mine, and this was a few decades ago, they didn't just snip the vas, they removed a piece, clamped and burned both ends. Now way was it growing back together.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 15:15
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a V. I'd love to trick a woman into thinking she is tricking me into getting herself pregnant by not taking her BC and having all the crazy sex she can with me to "accidentally" get pregnant, but it never happens. Or she does, but not by me but tries to tell me it's mine. Yeah, that's Fd up I know.
this happens frequently, unfortunately
Women frequently "accidentally" get pregnant on purpose? Where are you getting this?
Anonymous
08/06/2019 15:14
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP has to think about her children. If you think it's in their best interest to encourage him to get a vasectomy, do it.
If OP were actually thinking about her kids, she would not have had more children than she can support all by herself.
Pay attention, Ladies. DCUM has been especially enlightening about male attitudes this week.
Any nudes you send him, he will share with his buddies.
Men marry for sex.
Be able to support any kids he fathers with you all on your own.
Keep ‘em coming, guys. This is going to spare a lot of women.
And this thread also shows how many females view men and quite frankly it's terrifying.
Pay attention men:
You are a walking wallet. Any woman you marry will make sure you pay her way for the rest of your working life. Of course cough cough it's for the children.
As a man you cannot have any say over her fertility or her body however she will feel like she can have a say over yours.
Forget honesty, you will be manipulated and lied to for her to achieve the result best suited for HER.
You actually don’t know how child support works, do you?
It stops at 18 in the vast majority of cases. 21 in a few states and DC. Unless your kids with that ex-wife are a decade or more apart in age, CS is going to be a short obligation on your part and a brief benefit for her and the kids.
It is also typically a low sum unless you are a multi-millionaire (and we know YOU and most of your audience aren’t) so hardly enough to fully support the exwife and kids.
And unless you stopped having at kids at age 50, paying even 18 years of child support won’t be for the rest of your working life. Let’s be honest that you were never going to be able to retire early anyway.
Funny, so many assumptions you make. I'm female and will be retiring before 68 years old. From money I made FYI.
As a female I am a little horrified at some of the thought processes on this thread. There are some really low females posting here. Really really low.
Some appalling women. Don't any of you have sons?
1 son, 1 daughter. And I’m OP. It’s not like I’m trying to take something from him, he doesn’t want more children. He has been given two children, I’ve been pretty generous IMO. I gave him so much. Why is it too much to ask that he give me this security?
He gave you two kids. You need to have your tubes tied for everyones sake.
Their is a legitimate medical reason why my tubes were not tied after my second. I have an IUD. That’s a pretty comparable when you consider the invasiveness and permanence between an IUD and Vasectomy.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 13:42
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We have two kids together. He’s 38. Basically, the marriage isn’t working. He’s lied for the past five years, I don’t think I’ll move past it, but what keeps me from wanting to leave is the thought of him starting a new family at 40 with some late 20-something because now he has money.
It’s petty, but so were a his really stupid lies.
So you want to leave him because he has been dishonest. But before you leave him, you want him to get a vasectomy. Then you plan to kick him to the curb. That sounds pretty dishonest on your part.
Pot calling the kettle black.
I wonder if Anna Faris pulled this on Chris Pratt before he married his 29yo Schwarznegger bride.
I'm guessing no. They seem to have had an amicable breakup and maintain an amicable post-divorce relationship.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 13:39
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Oh look it’s our monthly vasectomy troll.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 12:07
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:Are you people insane?
You want to control the fertility of another person. Think about this. And potentially a third person as well. You all need some damn hobbies.
Not insane. Just evil.
Anonymous
08/06/2019 11:34
Subject: Having DH get a vasectomy before we seperate
Anonymous wrote:I have a V. I'd love to trick a woman into thinking she is tricking me into getting herself pregnant by not taking her BC and having all the crazy sex she can with me to "accidentally" get pregnant, but it never happens. Or she does, but not by me but tries to tell me it's mine. Yeah, that's Fd up I know.
this happens frequently, unfortunately