Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know what the point is, in posting celebrities and their sizes.
People wear sizes very differently - it really doesn't mean that much. While I/most adore Adele, it doesn't change the fact that she's carrying a bit of extra weight. But it isn't as though she's severely overweight, which is what people are talking about (Tess Holliday, for example). It's gross that she's an icon for "body positivity" while being morbidly obese.
Because for many people Adele in that pic is disgustingly fat. Not to me, but when people here talk fat often the Adeles are equivalent to the Tesses and that is a problem, too.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know what the point is, in posting celebrities and their sizes.
People wear sizes very differently - it really doesn't mean that much. While I/most adore Adele, it doesn't change the fact that she's carrying a bit of extra weight. But it isn't as though she's severely overweight, which is what people are talking about (Tess Holliday, for example). It's gross that she's an icon for "body positivity" while being morbidly obese.
Anonymous wrote:Why is Serena part of this conversation? Is there some weird hang up about her bcs white women hate her? She might have been a bit heavier on occasion, but so what? She is a muscular woman that has dominated a white sport like nobody's business. I don't like her personality here and there, but people really need to shut up about shaming one of the best female athletes that ever existed!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone who’s a size 16 is probably not affecting your life. Not spilling into the next airplane seat, not flipping out bc of the size of the seats in the movie theater, and not having a heart attack during a 5k or using the squat bar at the gym.
Also, stop saying that thin women are genetically blessed or totally disordered. That’s equally terrible.
Maybe if a body was just a body and people didn’t feel judged, shamed, or defensive, we’d all be more motivated to optimize our health.
I’ve been thin and I’ve been fat and I’ve been thin again. The objectification never stops, just swings from positive to negative and back to positive.
But OP, this is what I think: you can be healthiER at any size.
This is precisely what the fat acceptance/HAES is about - shaming fat people just makes them feel ashamed and encourages weight gain. Studies show this. Fat acceptance/body positive/HAES says you aren’t disgusting and you deserve to treat your body well, to exercise, to go and play with your kids, to swim in a pool, to dress stylishly, to embrace yourself and be happy. To be kind to yourself and be happy in the body you’re in.
Weight management RDN again: If this was ALL that fat acceptance/ HAES promoted, or if it was simply a starting point of an idea, then it would be fine. Of course, no one should view themselves or anyone else as "disgusting" and EVERYONE "deserves" to treat their body well. But the problem is, too many people stop here. Treat your body well, in the case of obesity, absolutely means that you need to lose weight.
I personally find HAES to be a very damaging and potentially dangerous policy. It also takes RDNs out of our scope of training. We are not shrinks, and we are not supposed to be validating people's feelings. As the only health care professionals who study the science of nutrition exclusively, we have an obligation to tell our patients the truth, and help them come to a place where they can make the changes they need to improve their health.
Me again. I missed this gem. With about 90% of people who lose weight regaining it all, this is a bananas statement that basically arrives at total fat phobia.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:99.9 percent bof all humans are not close to her fitness! This picture is fierce.Anonymous wrote:^ Gurl there is no way Serena is a size 16, at 5'9"
Even if she did actually wear a size 16, 99.9% of American women who are a size 16 do not come anywhere close to resembling her fitness.
So we agree some people are biologically destined to be size 16 and are not lazy.
Of course some people may be this size and very, very active. But just like when we look at the obesity epidemic and understand that BMI is meant to measure populations, the soaring BMI rates in America are not due to our super high number of body builders and genetic outliers like Serena for whom the scale is not accurate. You can always point at people outside the norm. Most people who are a 16 are not 5'10 with 15-20% body fat, max.
But the PP stated that nobody is naturally 16. Not true lots of people are naturally 16. Actually I suspect Serena is naturally an 18.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone who’s a size 16 is probably not affecting your life. Not spilling into the next airplane seat, not flipping out bc of the size of the seats in the movie theater, and not having a heart attack during a 5k or using the squat bar at the gym.
Also, stop saying that thin women are genetically blessed or totally disordered. That’s equally terrible.
Maybe if a body was just a body and people didn’t feel judged, shamed, or defensive, we’d all be more motivated to optimize our health.
I’ve been thin and I’ve been fat and I’ve been thin again. The objectification never stops, just swings from positive to negative and back to positive.
But OP, this is what I think: you can be healthiER at any size.
This is precisely what the fat acceptance/HAES is about - shaming fat people just makes them feel ashamed and encourages weight gain. Studies show this. Fat acceptance/body positive/HAES says you aren’t disgusting and you deserve to treat your body well, to exercise, to go and play with your kids, to swim in a pool, to dress stylishly, to embrace yourself and be happy. To be kind to yourself and be happy in the body you’re in.
Weight management RDN again: If this was ALL that fat acceptance/ HAES promoted, or if it was simply a starting point of an idea, then it would be fine. Of course, no one should view themselves or anyone else as "disgusting" and EVERYONE "deserves" to treat their body well. But the problem is, too many people stop here. Treat your body well, in the case of obesity, absolutely means that you need to lose weight.
I personally find HAES to be a very damaging and potentially dangerous policy. It also takes RDNs out of our scope of training. We are not shrinks, and we are not supposed to be validating people's feelings. As the only health care professionals who study the science of nutrition exclusively, we have an obligation to tell our patients the truth, and help them come to a place where they can make the changes they need to improve their health.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone who’s a size 16 is probably not affecting your life. Not spilling into the next airplane seat, not flipping out bc of the size of the seats in the movie theater, and not having a heart attack during a 5k or using the squat bar at the gym.
Also, stop saying that thin women are genetically blessed or totally disordered. That’s equally terrible.
Maybe if a body was just a body and people didn’t feel judged, shamed, or defensive, we’d all be more motivated to optimize our health.
I’ve been thin and I’ve been fat and I’ve been thin again. The objectification never stops, just swings from positive to negative and back to positive.
But OP, this is what I think: you can be healthiER at any size.
This is precisely what the fat acceptance/HAES is about - shaming fat people just makes them feel ashamed and encourages weight gain. Studies show this. Fat acceptance/body positive/HAES says you aren’t disgusting and you deserve to treat your body well, to exercise, to go and play with your kids, to swim in a pool, to dress stylishly, to embrace yourself and be happy. To be kind to yourself and be happy in the body you’re in.
Weight management RDN again: If this was ALL that fat acceptance/ HAES promoted, or if it was simply a starting point of an idea, then it would be fine. Of course, no one should view themselves or anyone else as "disgusting" and EVERYONE "deserves" to treat their body well. But the problem is, too many people stop here. Treat your body well, in the case of obesity, absolutely means that you need to lose weight.
I personally find HAES to be a very damaging and potentially dangerous policy. It also takes RDNs out of our scope of training. We are not shrinks, and we are not supposed to be validating people's feelings. As the only health care professionals who study the science of nutrition exclusively, we have an obligation to tell our patients the truth, and help them come to a place where they can make the changes they need to improve their health.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:99.9 percent bof all humans are not close to her fitness! This picture is fierce.Anonymous wrote:^ Gurl there is no way Serena is a size 16, at 5'9"
Even if she did actually wear a size 16, 99.9% of American women who are a size 16 do not come anywhere close to resembling her fitness.
So we agree some people are biologically destined to be size 16 and are not lazy.
Of course some people may be this size and very, very active. But just like when we look at the obesity epidemic and understand that BMI is meant to measure populations, the soaring BMI rates in America are not due to our super high number of body builders and genetic outliers like Serena for whom the scale is not accurate. You can always point at people outside the norm. Most people who are a 16 are not 5'10 with 15-20% body fat, max.
But the PP stated that nobody is naturally 16. Not true lots of people are naturally 16. Actually I suspect Serena is naturally an 18.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:99.9 percent bof all humans are not close to her fitness! This picture is fierce.Anonymous wrote:^ Gurl there is no way Serena is a size 16, at 5'9"
Even if she did actually wear a size 16, 99.9% of American women who are a size 16 do not come anywhere close to resembling her fitness.
So we agree some people are biologically destined to be size 16 and are not lazy.
Of course some people may be this size and very, very active. But just like when we look at the obesity epidemic and understand that BMI is meant to measure populations, the soaring BMI rates in America are not due to our super high number of body builders and genetic outliers like Serena for whom the scale is not accurate. You can always point at people outside the norm. Most people who are a 16 are not 5'10 with 15-20% body fat, max.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Someone who’s a size 16 is probably not affecting your life. Not spilling into the next airplane seat, not flipping out bc of the size of the seats in the movie theater, and not having a heart attack during a 5k or using the squat bar at the gym.
Also, stop saying that thin women are genetically blessed or totally disordered. That’s equally terrible.
Maybe if a body was just a body and people didn’t feel judged, shamed, or defensive, we’d all be more motivated to optimize our health.
I’ve been thin and I’ve been fat and I’ve been thin again. The objectification never stops, just swings from positive to negative and back to positive.
But OP, this is what I think: you can be healthiER at any size.
This is precisely what the fat acceptance/HAES is about - shaming fat people just makes them feel ashamed and encourages weight gain. Studies show this. Fat acceptance/body positive/HAES says you aren’t disgusting and you deserve to treat your body well, to exercise, to go and play with your kids, to swim in a pool, to dress stylishly, to embrace yourself and be happy. To be kind to yourself and be happy in the body you’re in.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:99.9 percent bof all humans are not close to her fitness! This picture is fierce.Anonymous wrote:^ Gurl there is no way Serena is a size 16, at 5'9"
Even if she did actually wear a size 16, 99.9% of American women who are a size 16 do not come anywhere close to resembling her fitness.
So we agree some people are biologically destined to be size 16 and are not lazy.