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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want a NSA relationship, rule #1, say you want a NSA relationship.

And mean it. Don't delude yourself that is truly all you are looking for, not an exit out of an existing marriage/relationship....

I’m divorced. My “ex” was someone I was willing to solely have a FB/FWB situation. He was a neighbor, it was perfect. He claimed he didn’t want NSA, blah blah — I bought his snake oil - turns out he was married. Lying f*ck. He would have been better off taking me up on my offer.

He’s getting bent over by his wife now with no lube, so that’s fun.

He was married and you were his NEIGHBOR--yet did not know he was married. Was the wife tied up in the basement? How did you never see her?

He was on assignment and living in a condo.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want a NSA relationship, rule #1, say you want a NSA relationship.

And mean it. Don't delude yourself that is truly all you are looking for, not an exit out of an existing marriage/relationship....

I’m divorced. My “ex” was someone I was willing to solely have a FB/FWB situation. He was a neighbor, it was perfect. He claimed he didn’t want NSA, blah blah — I bought his snake oil - turns out he was married. Lying f*ck. He would have been better off taking me up on my offer.

He’s getting bent over by his wife now with no lube, so that’s fun.

He was married and you were his NEIGHBOR--yet did not know he was married. Was the wife tied up in the basement? How did you never see her?

MAGA rallies.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't know OP. Sure it could work out, but then again you could end up in a nightmare. Some of the wives I've known who caught their husbands tried to wreck the OWs life. Telling her friends, family and employer. Yes some wives don't confront, got divorced, or stay married.

Look at some of the guys who are posting/bragging here. You can tell they are total creeps and dirt bags. This is mostly who you'll meet.

If you're bent on doing this remember an affair increases the odds you could get caught. Whatever consequences that follow you have to be willing to accept.

So what she's not looking to get married she's trying to do some dirt on the side who better than creeps and dirt bags.

+1

Like meets like. The lowest common denominator: 2 cheating scumbags.

That's it in a nutshell. Druggies hang around druggies, criminals do the same, cheaters and liars find each other.

Yep. And they are friends with one another too. That's why you hear some women say all of their friends are cheating...and others that have no friends that have ever even mentioned a desire to cheat. Trash hangs out with trash.

I believe there is some truth to this. Stupid me, trash tried to fake class. Eventually the cookie crumbled.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you want a NSA relationship, rule #1, say you want a NSA relationship.

And mean it. Don't delude yourself that is truly all you are looking for, not an exit out of an existing marriage/relationship....

I’m divorced. My “ex” was someone I was willing to solely have a FB/FWB situation. He was a neighbor, it was perfect. He claimed he didn’t want NSA, blah blah — I bought his snake oil - turns out he was married. Lying f*ck. He would have been better off taking me up on my offer.

He’s getting bent over by his wife now with no lube, so that’s fun.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know OP. Sure it could work out, but then again you could end up in a nightmare. Some of the wives I've known who caught their husbands tried to wreck the OWs life. Telling her friends, family and employer. Yes some wives don't confront, got divorced, or stay married.

Look at some of the guys who are posting/bragging here. You can tell they are total creeps and dirt bags. This is mostly who you'll meet.

If you're bent on doing this remember an affair increases the odds you could get caught. Whatever consequences that follow you have to be willing to accept.

So what she's not looking to get married she's trying to do some dirt on the side who better than creeps and dirt bags.

+1

Like meets like. The lowest common denominator: 2 cheating scumbags.

That's it in a nutshell. Druggies hang around druggies, criminals do the same, cheaters and liars find each other.

Yep. And they are friends with one another too. That's why you hear some women say all of their friends are cheating...and others that have no friends that have ever even mentioned a desire to cheat. Trash hangs out with trash.

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Anonymous wrote:^^ Trapped and duped because she asks him if he wants to grab coffee? What kind of man cant handle going out for coffee with someone he otherwise has no problem spending time with?? Ladies, don’t waste a second with a guy like this. Know your worth and don’t crawl around with an emotionally stunted man-baby.

One who doesn’t want to be seen in public because they are both married. He only wants sex, not a relationship with her. 30 min wham bam No strings was the agreement. Now she’s taking risks and wanting to come visit out of the bedroom in public. No dice. She’s the one that changed the arrangement/situation.

When one chooses to behave in a unstable way, they will attract the unstable. There are no agreements with sick people.

I would say get therapy and heal oneself. Either get divorced, but get healthy. Don't take risks with your health or family. No stranger is worth it.

I was watching court tv last night. Some stupid woman with a doctorate in Psychology was dating a married man. They dated for 7 years, she knew he was married but along the way he lied and said he had divorced his wife. He pretended he was going to marry her right up till 2 days before the wedding. No intentions of leaving his wife and kids. His solution was to shoot her in the back of the head. A doctorate degree but zero self esteem, or morals who was seeing a psychopath.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know OP. Sure it could work out, but then again you could end up in a nightmare. Some of the wives I've known who caught their husbands tried to wreck the OWs life. Telling her friends, family and employer. Yes some wives don't confront, got divorced, or stay married.

Look at some of the guys who are posting/bragging here. You can tell they are total creeps and dirt bags. This is mostly who you'll meet.

If you're bent on doing this remember an affair increases the odds you could get caught. Whatever consequences that follow you have to be willing to accept.

So what she's not looking to get married she's trying to do some dirt on the side who better than creeps and dirt bags.

+1

Like meets like. The lowest common denominator: 2 cheating scumbags.

That's it in a nutshell. Druggies hang around druggies, criminals do the same, cheaters and liars find each other.

Anonymous wrote:If you want a NSA relationship, rule #1, say you want a NSA relationship.

And mean it. Don't delude yourself that is truly all you are looking for, not an exit out of an existing marriage/relationship....

If you want a NSA relationship, rule #1, say you want a NSA relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Try seeking arrangement. Yes, it's a sugardaddy/sugarbaby site, but the men there are decent. Your best option is to find a married man in a similar situation so you both have a big reason to be discreet. There doesn't need to be an exchagne of money -- just the men on there are usually not freaks.

She's too old

Late 40s for a sugar baby? Ha-Maybe if he’s in his 70s—but the junk won’t be working too well and she’s looking for d@ck she said.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^^ Trapped and duped because she asks him if he wants to grab coffee? What kind of man cant handle going out for coffee with someone he otherwise has no problem spending time with?? Ladies, don’t waste a second with a guy like this. Know your worth and don’t crawl around with an emotionally stunted man-baby.

He has no problem f—cking her. That’s a little different than spending time conversing and talking politics and life and anything remotely intellectual.

Yeah. My therapist if sex were off the table: would you still want to hang out with her? Hell no! Not my type.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know OP. Sure it could work out, but then again you could end up in a nightmare. Some of the wives I've known who caught their husbands tried to wreck the OWs life. Telling her friends, family and employer. Yes some wives don't confront, got divorced, or stay married.

Look at some of the guys who are posting/bragging here. You can tell they are total creeps and dirt bags. This is mostly who you'll meet.

If you're bent on doing this remember an affair increases the odds you could get caught. Whatever consequences that follow you have to be willing to accept.

So what she's not looking to get married she's trying to do some dirt on the side who better than creeps and dirt bags.

+1

Like meets like. The lowest common denominator: 2 cheating scumbags.

Anonymous wrote:^^ Trapped and duped because she asks him if he wants to grab coffee? What kind of man cant handle going out for coffee with someone he otherwise has no problem spending time with?? Ladies, don’t waste a second with a guy like this. Know your worth and don’t crawl around with an emotionally stunted man-baby.

He has no problem f—cking her. That’s a little different than spending time conversing and talking politics and life and anything remotely intellectual.

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Anonymous wrote:I found one at work and one at a conference. It's more of a numbers game if you are a man. Be charming and flirty and one in a couple dozen will reciprocate.

Full warning, most women who affair are ready to leave their marriage

Yep and it’s a line you will have to navigate. Aloof enough that they think they have a chance to be w/ you one day. You need to keep saying things like “when the kids are older” , and kick the cam down the road. Eventually you have to cut them loose because they take bigger chances and become a liability. But if you do it right you might be able to keep the sex going for several years without the hassle of trying to find a brand new side piece.

PP you are responding to, I agree about them taking more risks as thing go along. For me, I never said I was leaving my marriage, and in fact I didn't like talking about my wife at all. Wife and I are fine although I miss the sexual part of my marriage. I was very honest with AP that I still had sex with my wife about 1x a month.

+1. You need to dump them at the first sign of neediness.