Anonymous wrote:OP here.
Sigh.
Let's try this again, shall we?
I think there is more than enough love, praise, high regard, etc. for UVA, W&M, and to an ever-so-slightly lesser extent, V Tech.
It is precisely because these three school are so dominant in most discussions that I wanted to create a thread that would allow for discussion about the other public colleges and universities in VA.
I accept that for some people (and at least one particularly persistent PP in particular) these schools are not worthy of discussion or consideration. I accept that might be your opinion.
There are also thousands of students attending these other VA publics, so for whatever reason (whether you UVA booster agree with it or not) students are attending these schools, and certainly there must be some people with juniors and seniors who are considering these schools.
I wanted to create a thread that would allow for discussion about these schools. I respectfully ask the UVA booster to please exit the thread. (Yes, I know it's an anonymous public forum and I can not force you, hence my respectful request.)
For folks still interested in discussing these other publics, my family is going on a tour of George Mason tomorrow. I'll report back after the visit. (Only other time I've been on the campus was to drive to the area for a concert at night--just a straight drive to parking lot, so this will be my first impression.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
My best friend from high school was admitted to JMU, UVA, and W&M, and graduated from JMU. He loved it and was a HUGE fan (he passed away recently). I think he viewed the choice as being an expression of his independence from conformity. That said, I did hear him speculate a couple of times on what it would have been like had he gone to W&M, so I'm not sure he completely escaped the weight of expectations. The best advice, which is probably tough to follow due to human nature, is to make your choice and don't look back. College won't (or at least shouldn't) define you. In the high tech field I work in, no one ever really talks about Alma Maters in a professional sense after the initial hire.
Just wanted to say sorry for the loss of your best friend.
When I read what you said about your friend viewing his decision as an expression of independence from conformity to attend JMU vs. UVA/W&M, this struck a chord with me about how my daughter views things but hasn't quite fully articulated (she's the one who has a fair chance at getting in UVA but not at all interested even though she hasn't actually visited. And did not like W&M after visiting.) That's totally her M.O. She's so independently-minded and always has been. Never one to do something because everyone else it. I think this hit the nail on the head.
Or she's a borderline applicant who is risk averse
Anonymous wrote:OP here.
Sigh.
Let's try this again, shall we?
I think there is more than enough love, praise, high regard, etc. for UVA, W&M, and to an ever-so-slightly lesser extent, V Tech.
It is precisely because these three school are so dominant in most discussions that I wanted to create a thread that would allow for discussion about the other public colleges and universities in VA.
I accept that for some people (and at least one particularly persistent PP in particular) these schools are not worthy of discussion or consideration. I accept that might be your opinion.
There are also thousands of students attending these other VA publics, so for whatever reason (whether you UVA booster agree with it or not) students are attending these schools, and certainly there must be some people with juniors and seniors who are considering these schools.
I wanted to create a thread that would allow for discussion about these schools. I respectfully ask the UVA booster to please exit the thread. (Yes, I know it's an anonymous public forum and I can not force you, hence my respectful request.)
For folks still interested in discussing these other publics, my family is going on a tour of George Mason tomorrow. I'll report back after the visit. (Only other time I've been on the campus was to drive to the area for a concert at night--just a straight drive to parking lot, so this will be my first impression.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
My best friend from high school was admitted to JMU, UVA, and W&M, and graduated from JMU. He loved it and was a HUGE fan (he passed away recently). I think he viewed the choice as being an expression of his independence from conformity. That said, I did hear him speculate a couple of times on what it would have been like had he gone to W&M, so I'm not sure he completely escaped the weight of expectations. The best advice, which is probably tough to follow due to human nature, is to make your choice and don't look back. College won't (or at least shouldn't) define you. In the high tech field I work in, no one ever really talks about Alma Maters in a professional sense after the initial hire.
Just wanted to say sorry for the loss of your best friend.
When I read what you said about your friend viewing his decision as an expression of independence from conformity to attend JMU vs. UVA/W&M, this struck a chord with me about how my daughter views things but hasn't quite fully articulated (she's the one who has a fair chance at getting in UVA but not at all interested even though she hasn't actually visited. And did not like W&M after visiting.) That's totally her M.O. She's so independently-minded and always has been. Never one to do something because everyone else it. I think this hit the nail on the head.
If a school other than UVA and W&M is doing something right and better at the undergraduate level, it would be good for the system for some top students to go there. Otherwise, it will encourage complacency.
Anonymous wrote:Agree or disagree?
Since undergrad is the new "high school" -- and graduate degrees are now expected, it doesn't matter as much where you go to undergrad. It's your grad school that will open doors.
(FWIW, this is how it worked for me 25 yrs ago. Went to big state U., did well on grad entrance exam, got into top 10 law school. No one cares about undergrad. It's the grad school name that people ask about.)
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
My best friend from high school was admitted to JMU, UVA, and W&M, and graduated from JMU. He loved it and was a HUGE fan (he passed away recently). I think he viewed the choice as being an expression of his independence from conformity. That said, I did hear him speculate a couple of times on what it would have been like had he gone to W&M, so I'm not sure he completely escaped the weight of expectations. The best advice, which is probably tough to follow due to human nature, is to make your choice and don't look back. College won't (or at least shouldn't) define you. In the high tech field I work in, no one ever really talks about Alma Maters in a professional sense after the initial hire.
Just wanted to say sorry for the loss of your best friend.
When I read what you said about your friend viewing his decision as an expression of independence from conformity to attend JMU vs. UVA/W&M, this struck a chord with me about how my daughter views things but hasn't quite fully articulated (she's the one who has a fair chance at getting in UVA but not at all interested even though she hasn't actually visited. And did not like W&M after visiting.) That's totally her M.O. She's so independently-minded and always has been. Never one to do something because everyone else it. I think this hit the nail on the head.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Could have saved more at a community college. That would have been really smart. Or do you think some educations are better than others?
I don't know why I am feeding the troll, but you cannot possibly believe that this response advances the thread in any meaningful way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a told my DD there is a school out there for everyone. The super elite schools can only take so many kids each year.
Some kids (like mine) knew early in high school that she didn't want to get into the rat race. I applaud those kids and parents who have endured it and I wish them all the best when the decisions roll out.
She has had an awesome HS experience without constantly stressing about AP test, SAT scores and class rank.
I have no doubt she will be successful at her less selective school with rolling admissions.
FYI - It is also possible to have received ED results by now from some schools (Wake Forest) so presumption of an acceptance to a school will rolling admissions is misplaced.
+1,000 to all of the above.
Incorrect. ED1 at Wake Forest IS rolling admissions. Why do they have rolling admissions? Only the schools that need to having rolling do it. The average ACT and GPA at Wake Forest are much lower than most of the VA schools discussed in this thread.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread really feels like it's deteriorated to "mine is bigger than yours" quality.
That's not the intent. The intent is honesty on an anonymous board. No kid with UVA caliber stats wants to go to JMU. Or VCU. Or GMU. You get the picture. They just plain don't. You need a very strong record for UVA, and the kids who work hard enough (or are blessed enough intellectually) to accumulate that record are simply aiming higher than the other schools. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the other schools; it's just reality.
But actually, I said earlier that my daughter prefers JMU and is not interested in UVA.
+1
My son actually did apply to W&M and UVA (because we insisted he apply to most of the VA schools). He was admitted to both, as well as Tech, but chose JMU because he absolutely loved it. The smartest kids are the ones who decide where they'll be most happy, period.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread really feels like it's deteriorated to "mine is bigger than yours" quality.
That's not the intent. The intent is honesty on an anonymous board. No kid with UVA caliber stats wants to go to JMU. Or VCU. Or GMU. You get the picture. They just plain don't. You need a very strong record for UVA, and the kids who work hard enough (or are blessed enough intellectually) to accumulate that record are simply aiming higher than the other schools. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with the other schools; it's just reality.
But actually, I said earlier that my daughter prefers JMU and is not interested in UVA.
+1
My son actually did apply to W&M and UVA (because we insisted he apply to most of the VA schools). He was admitted to both, as well as Tech, but chose JMU because he absolutely loved it. The smartest kids are the ones who decide where they'll be most happy, period.
My son's best friend, who had very high stats, was admitted to UVA, W&M & JMU (and some other schools as well.) He chose JMU because they gave him significant merit aid. He didn't get any from UVA. He'll graduate without any student loans - I think that makes him a very smart kid!
Could have saved more at a community college. That would have been really smart. Or do you think some educations are better than others?
Not sure why I'm still responding to what's clearly a troll, but if a kid wants to get core classes out of the way at Nova before transferring elsewhere to complete a BA, yes, I think that's smart.