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Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

He got frustrated because Larissa wouldn't stfu and let Fernanda speak. His behavior is actually cultural, I don't see anything wrong with how was he was. You obviously don't know what the Siva Tau is. I actually teared up when he started to cry while talking about how he misses his mom. Him and Jonathan.
Are you white, and only English speaking? You don't seem very cultured, or seem to know what someone sounds like when English isn't their first language.

I'm white and I live in London. I speak three languages, and I've lived in five countries.

His issues and mannerisms are NOT all "cultural."

Fernanda and Larissa are perfect examples of Central and South American girls

I was super turned off by Fernanda at the reunion. I am far from a Larissa fan, but Fernanda saying "I smell her" or "what's that smell?" and then calling her trash reminded me of high school behavior. Her immaturity was showing. In a lot of ways, these two are a lot alike. Both very materialistic, but at least Larissa shows you who she is upfront. I couldn't help but think that Fernanda was sitting in a way so that we could all see the bottom of her shoes. Are either of them working now? Who knows, but I don't know any unemployed 19/20 year olds who own Louboutins.

Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

He got frustrated because Larissa wouldn't stfu and let Fernanda speak. His behavior is actually cultural, I don't see anything wrong with how was he was. You obviously don't know what the Siva Tau is. I actually teared up when he started to cry while talking about how he misses his mom. Him and Jonathan.
Are you white, and only English speaking? You don't seem very cultured, or seem to know what someone sounds like when English isn't their first language.

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Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

Also, his intense emotions are very unattractive in an adult. It seems like he bursts into sobs every episode. The tears literally drip down his face. I would not want him to be driving my little kids alone: what would happen if the kids started to squabble or the toddler had a meltdown?

Not just him, it seems like every single person on that couch was crying their eyes out at a drop of a hat. I mean, come on, yes, you miss your families, but you are all adults and nobody held a gun to your head to enter these marriages.

The person I like the most is Ashley, which speaks volumes abolut the quality of participants.

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Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

I actually felt empathy for him there. Jay also walked away and back, like "come on!" It sounds like it was explosive, and intense in person.

But I still think Asuelu has the emotional development of a 4 year old. I don't understand what Kalani saw in him - did she spend more than 5 minutes with him before having sex? Because something about it seems disturbing... almost... pedophile like. Yes he has the body of a grown man, but he has the brain development and voice of a preschooler. It's gross.

Yeah, I have known people from Samoa, and they did NOT talk like him. He's very...intellectually limited.

Also, remember when he said that "only slut people" use condoms? So, Kalani...had sex with him, with no protection, and is now pregnant again. WHY?

He is never going to be able to parent effectively, or be trusted with the kids alone, or have a job that would allow her to parent full time herself. He is going to be like an additional child to support.

Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

I actually felt empathy for him there. Jay also walked away and back, like "come on!" It sounds like it was explosive, and intense in person.

But I still think Asuelu has the emotional development of a 4 year old. I don't understand what Kalani saw in him - did she spend more than 5 minutes with him before having sex? Because something about it seems disturbing... almost... pedophile like. Yes he has the body of a grown man, but he has the brain development and voice of a preschooler. It's gross.

Anonymous wrote:How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

Also, his intense emotions are very unattractive in an adult. It seems like he bursts into sobs every episode. The tears literally drip down his face. I would not want him to be driving my little kids alone: what would happen if the kids started to squabble or the toddler had a meltdown?

How about the way Asuelu freaked out when people were shouting? He shrieked and threw up his hands and smacked around his head, like he was experiencing sensory overload. It was bizarre and I don't understand why it didn't draw more attention. At that moment, I understood why Kalani worries about having him around the kids.

I am starting to think that his limited language abilities actually mask some disturbing traits. We are assuming that some of his mannerisms are cultural differences, but they are really something else.

He makes me super uneasy.

Anonymous wrote:This show gets more uncomfortable to watch every week!

Larissa is quite a character.

I think she is being a total b**ch for the show ratings.
The way she acted out about the clothes/ and how they should look on a person that were presented to her

This show gets more uncomfortable to watch every week!

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else read that Leida was/is a tag chaser?

No I haven't heard that before but I believe it.

What's a tag chaser?

+1

Someone who only goes for military guys.

Tag=dog tag

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else read that Leida was/is a tag chaser?

No I haven't heard that before but I believe it.

What's a tag chaser?

+1

Someone who only goes for military guys.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone else read that Leida was/is a tag chaser?

No I haven't heard that before but I believe it.

I saw it on reddit along with accusations she did phone sex and massage!

Not suprising! Did you see the youtube videos of her with the other military men? I also saw it on reddit.

Leida and Steven would make a lovely couple.