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Anonymous wrote:When did you get pregnant and meet?

We met a weeks before my high school graduation. We dated for a few months, and then I got pregnant, and then we got married.

Whose idea was it not to use birth control?

I didn’t really know anything about birth control, but we did sometimes use protection.

Again, extremely childish for an 18 year old and no excuse for a 40 year old father of 3. My kids learned a lot about birth control in middle school.

It’s not extremely childish. I just hadn’t thought of birth control or knew what it’s use was before we started dating. OP

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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and have a child. He is a wonderful father to our child. Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.

But he won't take him on a vacation? Which one is it, OP?

He’s not perfect, nobody is perfect. He’s trying to punish us this year by not letting us go on vacation, because we’re upset that he’s going away for theee weeks with his ex-wife. OP

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Anonymous wrote:When did you get pregnant and meet?

We met a weeks before my high school graduation. We dated for a few months, and then I got pregnant, and then we got married.

Whose idea was it not to use birth control?

I didn’t really know anything about birth control, but we did sometimes use protection.

Again, extremely childish for an 18 year old and no excuse for a 40 year old father of 3. My kids learned a lot about birth control in middle school.

It’s not extremely childish. I just hadn’t thought of birth control or knew what it’s use was before we started dating. OP

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Anonymous wrote:Again, My husband wasn’t at a teen club; it was a 25+ venue, and he didn’t know my age. I never liked older men for financial reasons, I just liked three because they were older—that’s all. Also, I wasn’t a teenager when I was 18. While many 18 year olds who get pregnant by 40 year olds might be considered victims, that wasn’t the case for me. OP

You sound like a petulant and defensive teenager writing this now. I’m sorry your husband won’t pay for your vacation

How? My husband truly didn’t know my age, he thought I was 24. I just wasn’t a teenager anyway when I was 18, I think I stopped being a teenager at 15. And I wasn’t a pregnant teen either. OP

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Anonymous wrote:When did you get pregnant and meet?

We met a weeks before my high school graduation. We dated for a few months, and then I got pregnant, and then we got married.

Whose idea was it not to use birth control?

I didn’t really know anything about birth control, but we did sometimes use protection.

Again, extremely childish for an 18 year old and no excuse for a 40 year old father of 3. My kids learned a lot about birth control in middle school.

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Anonymous wrote:Again, My husband wasn’t at a teen club; it was a 25+ venue, and he didn’t know my age. I never liked older men for financial reasons, I just liked three because they were older—that’s all. Also, I wasn’t a teenager when I was 18. While many 18 year olds who get pregnant by 40 year olds might be considered victims, that wasn’t the case for me. OP

You sound like a petulant and defensive teenager writing this now. I’m sorry your husband won’t pay for your vacation

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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and have a child. He is a wonderful father to our child. Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.

But he won't take him on a vacation? Which one is it, OP?

He’s not perfect, nobody is perfect. He’s trying to punish us this year by not letting us go on vacation, because we’re upset that he’s going away for theee weeks with his ex-wife. OP

Anonymous wrote:OP, Do you regularly welcome his kids in your home? If not, this may be the only time he gets to see his kids.

Anonymous wrote:You can think whatever you want about my husband—that he’s a creeper or whatever (which is harsh, he’s my child’s father)—but you can’t make me think that I’m a victim. He didn’t know my age until long after we started dating. And not all 18 year olds are the same and have lived the same experiences. I’ve never been a victim, and I’ve never been taken of and I’m not being taken advantage of now. He might be a little mean sometimes, but he’s not exploiting me. I don’t have any trauma, and I’m not emotionally stunted. I also don’t understand why it’s hard to believe that a young woman can genuinely like men aged 40–60 for normal reasons, not just for money. About the pregnancy: I didn’t use birth control, but we were already planning to get married, and he wanted a child anyway. So it worked out—we weren’t very careful and just went with the flow. He took care of me a lot; pregnancy was a new experience, but he made sure I was supported. OP

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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and have a child. He is a wonderful father to our child. Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.

But he won't take him on a vacation? Which one is it, OP?

He’s not perfect, nobody is perfect. He’s trying to punish us this year by not letting us go on vacation, because we’re upset that he’s going away for theee weeks with his ex-wife. OP

Anonymous wrote:Are the three kids of his ex also his as well??

OP, no it is NOT the norm for exes to go on vacation together >> most especially when the kids are of age!!?

Your husband still has feelings for his ex to want to even participate in this trip.

I cannot believe that he wants you + your son at home while he vacations.

His priorities are messed up and I personally think if he actually partakes in this trip you should speak to a divorce attorney while he is gone.

Lucky you are still young and have many solid, good years left.

Him?
Not so much.
Haha!

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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and have a child. He is a wonderful father to our child. Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.

But he won't take him on a vacation? Which one is it, OP?

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Your husband and his ex wife are still banging.

I don’t really care about that, I just want him to give my son a vacation.

He doesn’t care about your son. He wanted to sleep with a teenager and you wanted to sleep with a man at least twice your age and your son is an unfortunate byproduct

No, that’s not accurate. He was not interested in sleeping with a teenager, and I was not interested in sleeping with an older man. He wanted to remarry and have a child. He is a wonderful father to our child. Not all relationships between younger women and older men fit the stereotypes you might assume.