Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 12:08     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are a HoCo parent, not smart to burn bridges when zero chance you’re planning on staying at Hoco.

Can someone explain this to me?


HoCo is not competitive with top clubs as girls get older. Players will leave for clubs like Heros, M&D, MDU, Capital, etc who field better teams and play against the better competition. For the most part, HoCo continues to field teams, but they are less and less competitive as the girls get older.


Could they not just plan ahead and plan to play better competition in a few years so everyone stays, or is there some sort of weird gatekeeping that locks them out?
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 10:08     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This board is full of haters and losers. Your daughters aren't talented enough to play for HOCO 34. Get over it.


Seriously, HoCo? It’s not even a B club, it’s a C club. Talent must be great in Howard county when Hoco has a good team, M&D & Hero’s going to be a force in a few years at 2034 level.



It’s not Howard County talent. Majority of the team if not the whole team is from Carroll County.


Don’t those kids go to Check Hers?
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 07:24     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This board is full of haters and losers. Your daughters aren't talented enough to play for HOCO 34. Get over it.


Seriously, HoCo? It’s not even a B club, it’s a C club. Talent must be great in Howard county when Hoco has a good team, M&D & Hero’s going to be a force in a few years at 2034 level.



It’s not Howard County talent. Majority of the team if not the whole team is from Carroll County.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 06:39     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:This board is full of haters and losers. Your daughters aren't talented enough to play for HOCO 34. Get over it.


Seriously, HoCo? It’s not even a B club, it’s a C club. Talent must be great in Howard county when Hoco has a good team, M&D & Hero’s going to be a force in a few years at 2034 level.

Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 06:37     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:I know of several solid refs that refuse to do NGLL at this point because of how bad parent behavior has gotten so that doesn't help


Ha that explains the lack of solid refs at ngll games
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 06:17     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The constant deflection by HOCO, as seen in previous posts, speaks volumes about the culture surrounding this program. Instead of accountability, there are excuses. Instead of sportsmanship, there is blame-shifting. A complete lack of remorse for their role in this fiasco only further damages the integrity of the program. The real question is: when will accountability and character become a priority?[/quote]

Can this be sent to the HOCO Board of Directors? There is no way they want their programs to be represented by their 34 coaches and parents.

Formal complaints to NGLL have been sent. [/quote]

The Hoco Director has a daughter on the team and is at everything the team is at. Her husband is an Assistant Coach for the team. She 100% co-signs on all of this. [/quote]

She poisons every pool she swims in. What a pip!
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 01:54     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

This board is full of haters and losers. Your daughters aren't talented enough to play for HOCO 34. Get over it.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 01:02     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

HOCO 34 has a short video up on Insta of their defense against Legends which is interesting because I think it shows fouls, including improper checks (above shoulder) and cross checks, no? Nothing egregious of course.

I’m sure they wouldn’t post what they thought were fouls but interesting choice of snippets.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 00:26     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The constant deflection by HOCO, as seen in previous posts, speaks volumes about the culture surrounding this program. Instead of accountability, there are excuses. Instead of sportsmanship, there is blame-shifting. A complete lack of remorse for their role in this fiasco only further damages the integrity of the program. The real question is: when will accountability and character become a priority?


Can this be sent to the HOCO Board of Directors? There is no way they want their programs to be represented by their 34 coaches and parents.

Formal complaints to NGLL have been sent.


The Hoco Director has a daughter on the team and is at everything the team is at. Her husband is an Assistant Coach for the team. She 100% co-signs on all of this.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 22:03     Subject: Re:2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is an inaccurate interpretation of the event. Both sidelines were out of control, both teams were disqualified, and both coaching staffs contributed to the situation escalating. Afterward, HOCo appealed to the officials and had the disqualification overruled, which should not have happened. Both teams had already been forfeited based on the conduct that occurred.


THIS!!! The director walked over and said, “I’m tired of both of your shit. This has been all season with you,” while looking at the HoCo coach, “and especially when you both play each other. You are done. You both forfeit.”
Ask any parent from FLC or Heros who was standing along that fence. It caught everyone’s attention. The director was pissed at both teams for their actions. It’s just that HoCo never seems to have to take responsibility for theirs.


Hero's not '34 here, and this is correct. She said they both forfeit. I don't know what happened after, but everyone on the other side of that fence was collectively going "wtf?!"


i hope the reputation of this team follows them into the summer season and every tournament is aware.


+1

It’s pretty rare for a team to take an L in league playoffs due to outrageous parent behavior so Im sure everyone who’s going to play MD United ‘34s this summer will know how awful their parents are.


One trick pony, this poster. Was expecting maybe even just an ounce of clever but clearly expecting too much. 🤮
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 21:22     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

I know of several solid refs that refuse to do NGLL at this point because of how bad parent behavior has gotten so that doesn't help
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:54     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If you are a HoCo parent, not smart to burn bridges when zero chance you’re planning on staying at Hoco.

Can someone explain this to me?


HoCo is not competitive with top clubs as girls get older. Players will leave for clubs like Heros, M&D, MDU, Capital, etc who field better teams and play against the better competition. For the most part, HoCo continues to field teams, but they are less and less competitive as the girls get older.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:49     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

Anonymous wrote:If you are a HoCo parent, not smart to burn bridges when zero chance you’re planning on staying at Hoco.

Can someone explain this to me?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 14:27     Subject: 2035, 2034, 2033 Girls

If you are a HoCo parent, not smart to burn bridges when zero chance you’re planning on staying at Hoco.