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Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

I'm so glad you are so certain that I had a choice as a woman. It's just too bad that when I was 17-18 I didn't know where to go and apply to be a kept woman. Perhaps you could post the resources for the future generations so all these women don't get the wrong idea and get themselves these totally voluntary degrees and careers.

Go to college. Find a smart ambitious boyfriend. Marry him. If that doesn't work, go to grad school and repeat. You may still need to work for a while. After you have kids, quit your job to stay home and care for them.

I'll bet you this describes a large portion of the posters here on dcum.

Ultimately marrying a spouse with whom you can have a good solid and financial partnership and understanding (whatever shape in terms of work and gender that means: reverse roles, same sex..) is actually great advice. Some men are actually great stay at home dads too.

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Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

I'm so glad you are so certain that I had a choice as a woman. It's just too bad that when I was 17-18 I didn't know where to go and apply to be a kept woman. Perhaps you could post the resources for the future generations so all these women don't get the wrong idea and get themselves these totally voluntary degrees and careers.

Go to college. Find a smart ambitious boyfriend. Marry him. If that doesn't work, go to grad school and repeat. You may still need to work for a while. After you have kids, quit your job to stay home and care for them.

I'll bet you this describes a large portion of the posters here on dcum.

Where are all these men who bring home enough money to have a SAHM and kids?

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Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

I'm so glad you are so certain that I had a choice as a woman. It's just too bad that when I was 17-18 I didn't know where to go and apply to be a kept woman. Perhaps you could post the resources for the future generations so all these women don't get the wrong idea and get themselves these totally voluntary degrees and careers.

Go to college. Find a smart ambitious boyfriend. Marry him. If that doesn't work, go to grad school and repeat. You may still need to work for a while. After you have kids, quit your job to stay home and care for them.

I'll bet you this describes a large portion of the posters here on dcum.

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Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

I'm so glad you are so certain that I had a choice as a woman. It's just too bad that when I was 17-18 I didn't know where to go and apply to be a kept woman. Perhaps you could post the resources for the future generations so all these women don't get the wrong idea and get themselves these totally voluntary degrees and careers.

Go to college. Find a smart ambitious boyfriend. Marry him. If that doesn't work, go to grad school and repeat. You may still need to work for a while. After you have kids, quit your job to stay home and care for them.

I'll bet you this describes a large portion of the posters here on dcum.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

I'm so glad you are so certain that I had a choice as a woman. It's just too bad that when I was 17-18 I didn't know where to go and apply to be a kept woman. Perhaps you could post the resources for the future generations so all these women don't get the wrong idea and get themselves these totally voluntary degrees and careers.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

I read a story in the 00s about Mark Zuckerberg and the creation of the first Facebook code, that they had a joke about jerking off quick and getting back to work. As a guy, I'll admit that it's a valid tactic.

As to the topic, someone on page 5 suggested that we're comparing women who choose to have careers with men who all must have careers. Leaving out the women who are sahm. That's an option a man just doesn't have. It was an interesting point.

Anonymous wrote:Um why aren't we talking about this quote:

"Still, jerking off is better than scrolling. Galloway has turned this into a joke when Nolan disappears into the toilet to look at TikTok. “I bang on the door and shout, ‘Hey, start masturbating!’ ”

Completely inappropriate for a parent to say that to their child. WTF is going on in that household?

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Anonymous wrote:Misandry is socially acceptable now and even encouraged. Just look at some of the posts on this thread (not all.) They echo the disdain from red pillers towards women.

- liberal mother of 3 teen/YA boys.

Misandry is acceptable because the left has been pushing the message that boys and men are horrible for the past 40 years. It’s endemic to American media and pushed in American academia.

Anonymous wrote:He points to a number of potential solutions and real world models, including Israel’s mandatory service where young people are required to engage with, work with, and sometimes live with people from all walks of life United by one common goal. It breaks down stereotypes, labels, and perhaps more importantly creates an opportunity to develop and bond.

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Anonymous wrote:Misandry is socially acceptable now and even encouraged. Just look at some of the posts on this thread (not all.) They echo the disdain from red pillers towards women.

- liberal mother of 3 teen/YA boys.

Misandry is acceptable because the left has been pushing the message that boys and men are horrible for the past 40 years. It’s endemic to American media and pushed in American academia.

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I recall seeing him on some show in recent years (maybe with Bill Maher?) where one of his key talking points is that the most successful people are always out. You can’t make friends, find a partner, network, and be happy if you are always at home. That was such an obvious thing to say but again it underscores a big issue with Americans in 2025 (and it started before covid).

Anyway, I think he’s flagging a lot of real issues supported by facts and data.

Anonymous wrote:Why are you all so god damned nasty to one another?

Anonymous wrote:Misandry is socially acceptable now and even encouraged. Just look at some of the posts on this thread (not all.) They echo the disdain from red pillers towards women.

- liberal mother of 3 teen/YA boys.

Anonymous wrote:I mean, his work is backed up by actual data.

Even if you don’t agree 100%, it’s weird to dismiss his work outright.

I’m in my 50s and I do policy work on social justice type issues that include things like poverty, and some of his work tracks with what I’ve researched, read, and observed firsthand working with experts in the US and abroad.

I recall seeing him on some show in recent years (maybe with Bill Maher?) where one of his key talking points is that the most successful people are always out. You can’t make friends, find a partner, network, and be happy if you are always at home. That was such an obvious thing to say but again it underscores a big issue with Americans in 2025 (and it started before covid).

Anyway, I think he’s flagging a lot of real issues supported by facts and data.

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Anonymous wrote:The social contract is broken for everyone in this country.

+1. I have no issue with highlighting the issues facing boys, but it's not just boys/men. The economic issues are facing women as well, but we don't have as much history with women being financially independent or breadwinners so it's glossed over.

As to the first question posed - whether girls have been favored or just put their heads down and have worked, uh, it's the latter. And any cursory review of the facts will bear that out over and over. If we had favored women then we'd have at least 50% representation in Congress, in board rooms, as CEOs, law partners, etc.

So I have a real problem with blaming boys' lack of progress on girls. I could write an entire essay on what I think the causes are, but girls aren't it.

I don't think anyone is blaming girls.