Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 12:07     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

I would get a small set but already have multiple auto immune and inflammatory issues, so figure i’d end up one of those BII people. Better bras it is. Good luck OP - people are making way too big a deal in here.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 12:07     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

The “they must be jealous” posters are so icky. When women bring up real concerns about going under the knife for vanity surgeries that’s always the first response. This site leans heavily wealthy, it’s quite likely most women on here could afford implants if we wanted them. The point is that we don’t, which is why we don’t have them or want them and point out the flaws in the pro-surgery narrative.

Women jumping to call other women jealous is not a flex. It’s pick me behavior and should be left in the 1900s.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 12:04     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So bizarre that the fact fake boobs look fake is so controversial. Guessing the women who paid tens of thousands don’t want to admit that? I’m not sure why they’d be arguing against reality so hard otherwise.

But yeah, fake boobs look and feel fake. Sorry not sorry. If they make you feel good about yourself good, but don’t ignore reality to live in delusion.


They look fake to you. To 99% of women and men they look natural. That’s the reality and experience of many women with small breast implants. Even medical professionals can’t tell.


Why is reality so hard for you to face? Your boobs don’t look like michaelangelo lol. They look like you paid for them. Which you did. Because you don’t want society to look at your body and think “she had 3 kids” because to you that’s shameful. But no, you aren’t fooling 99% of people and if your medical professionals are as delusional as you, I wouldn’t let them near me with a 10’ pole.

It’s sad that so many women on this board are shaming women for having natural bodies and noticing the (very obvious) fake additions people make. If you want to surgically alter your body more power to you - it’s your body. But don’t put down everyone else by saying we can’t tell. Cmon.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 12:00     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So bizarre that the fact fake boobs look fake is so controversial. Guessing the women who paid tens of thousands don’t want to admit that? I’m not sure why they’d be arguing against reality so hard otherwise.

But yeah, fake boobs look and feel fake. Sorry not sorry. If they make you feel good about yourself good, but don’t ignore reality to live in delusion.


They look fake to you. To 99% of women and men they look natural. That’s the reality and experience of many women with small breast implants. Even medical professionals can’t tell.


Uh no. Neither of these are even remotely true. You are living in lala land.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 11:55     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t do it. Being active, healthy and in shape will make you a good candidate for a standard recovery at your age. But the no if I were in your shoes is the upkeep. In 15-20 years when they need to be replaced you fa e a major surgery in your late 50s to late 60s, either replacement or removal. The risks for that will be double your risks today.


The removal or replacement is a very simple procedure
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 11:54     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:So bizarre that the fact fake boobs look fake is so controversial. Guessing the women who paid tens of thousands don’t want to admit that? I’m not sure why they’d be arguing against reality so hard otherwise.

But yeah, fake boobs look and feel fake. Sorry not sorry. If they make you feel good about yourself good, but don’t ignore reality to live in delusion.


They look fake to you. To 99% of women and men they look natural. That’s the reality and experience of many women with small breast implants. Even medical professionals can’t tell.

Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 11:44     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

So bizarre that the fact fake boobs look fake is so controversial. Guessing the women who paid tens of thousands don’t want to admit that? I’m not sure why they’d be arguing against reality so hard otherwise.

But yeah, fake boobs look and feel fake. Sorry not sorry. If they make you feel good about yourself good, but don’t ignore reality to live in delusion.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 11:32     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

I wouldn’t do it. Being active, healthy and in shape will make you a good candidate for a standard recovery at your age. But the no if I were in your shoes is the upkeep. In 15-20 years when they need to be replaced you fa e a major surgery in your late 50s to late 60s, either replacement or removal. The risks for that will be double your risks today.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 11:10     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are 48 y/o. Your implants will look ridiculous sonner rather than later.


I'm an RN. I've seen lots of naked bodies over my career. Implants that are done well look fine at any age. Bad implants look bad at any age. It's not an age question. It's a question of getting a good surgeon.


It's not a question of "good" or "bad". Implants, no matter how well done, look like implants (i.e. fake). It's not necessarily "bad", it's just not natural or invisible.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:28     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:You are 48 y/o. Your implants will look ridiculous sonner rather than later.


I'm an RN. I've seen lots of naked bodies over my career. Implants that are done well look fine at any age. Bad implants look bad at any age. It's not an age question. It's a question of getting a good surgeon.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:25     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No implants look natural because natural breast sag as you age. So firm perky breasts are a clear sign of being fake, regardless of size. Women (and in some cases men) do all kinds of things to their bodies to try and avoid signs of aging. They try to erase aging on the outside but eventually she catches up anyways. To many youth is what is beautiful so the more they can surgically or cosmetically recreate youth on their bodies, the better they feel. You see it on social media all the time, middle aged women commenting on how they get mistaken for their daughter’s sister or they get ID’d or everyone is shocked they are old enough to have a teen etc. For many women, there is a strong anxiety and fear of aging, they want to pretend they are still 20s/30s so they alter their bodies as best they can to replicate a younger body.


Speak for yourself. My 5 ft 2, 105 lb 53 yo wife has perfect boobs and never had any surgery. Genetics are the factor here.


While your 53-year old wife may well have perfect 53-year old natural breasts, they aren't teen boobs. Genetics don't defy gravity.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:23     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:I’m 48, happily married with three kids. My boobs have been reduced to flat pancakes after breastfeeding our kids for a total of four years. The youngest is 7 so I think I’ve given my body enough of a chance to “bounce” back and the boobs are just not budging. I’m in great shape otherwise.

I would love to get conservative implants, just so my clothes fit the way they used to. I don’t even necessarily want a bigger bra size, I just want more fullness.

DH thinks this is crazy. He thinks anyone wanting plastic surgery is vain and almost mentally ill. It’s not a financial issue.

WWYD?



Get a better bra. If your reasoning is truly "just so my clothes fit the way they used to" this is easy to accomplish with proper undergarments. Look for padded balconette-style bras, which will provide lift and supplement the fullness. Depending on your breast shape, halter-style bras will also create lift and fullness. Side and lower-cup padding are your friends. They make silicone pads (industry term: chicken cutlets) that can be used in any style of bra.

The problem you're looking to solve has several non-surgical solutions.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:23     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:No implants look natural because natural breast sag as you age. So firm perky breasts are a clear sign of being fake, regardless of size. Women (and in some cases men) do all kinds of things to their bodies to try and avoid signs of aging. They try to erase aging on the outside but eventually she catches up anyways. To many youth is what is beautiful so the more they can surgically or cosmetically recreate youth on their bodies, the better they feel. You see it on social media all the time, middle aged women commenting on how they get mistaken for their daughter’s sister or they get ID’d or everyone is shocked they are old enough to have a teen etc. For many women, there is a strong anxiety and fear of aging, they want to pretend they are still 20s/30s so they alter their bodies as best they can to replicate a younger body.


Speak for yourself. My 5 ft 2, 105 lb 53 yo wife has perfect boobs and never had any surgery. Genetics are the factor here.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:20     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:People will know you are a bimbo.


I’m a professional woman with high income and nice implants. I love when men call me “babe” !


You're an obese 62 yo man in Cleveland on 3 BP meds who hasnt had an erection in 4 years and your name is Carl.
Anonymous
Post 07/13/2025 09:19     Subject: Disagreement over breast implants

Anonymous wrote:Men buy sports cars to replicate the adrenaline and testosterone of youth. Women buy their teen / college daughters bodies to replicate their youth


Hey! I near some cosmetic surgery strip mall shops are offering a tramp stamp tattoo for free with each double D boob job!