Anonymous
07/04/2025 20:26
Subject: Female sexual desire
Your post is insulting.
I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.
This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”
I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.
This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”
Anonymous
07/04/2025 20:12
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.
You cannot possibly be for real. Turn on the news or sports. You will see tons of people talking about how great this man or that man is.
You cannot possibly be for real. Do you think the average man is the guy they are talking about on TV? Not even the average DCUM guy (who is way better than the average guy) is being praised on TV.
You are very very dim.
Okay. Come to my workplace. Men are constantly being commended for this or that, getting awards, getting promoted, etc.
Are you seriously telling me that no one ever tells men that they are doing well?
Anonymous
07/04/2025 18:56
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
Choreplay doesn’t work. It’s been tried by thousands of men. “He’s not doing X” is just an excuse women use. If the guy does X, she will immediately invent something new - “well he doesn’t do Y.”
Said like a man who doesnt understand women at all.
I understand perfectly when I’m being played. As do thousands of other men who have BTDT.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 17:42
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
Choreplay doesn’t work. It’s been tried by thousands of men. “He’s not doing X” is just an excuse women use. If the guy does X, she will immediately invent something new - “well he doesn’t do Y.”
Said like a man who doesnt understand women at all.
I’m a woman and I agree. How much DH “helps” around the house doesn’t matter in terms of my drive.
Men need to pay attention to their wives and make them feel sexy. That’s it. Be masculine enough to take the lead on at least half the things in your life together, stay fit, and have a genuine interest in your wife. That’s it. It’s much harder than chores, tbh.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 17:40
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.
Wrong. I compliment DH often and always have since we first started dating.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 15:36
Subject: Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
I’m a woman, and I think it’s actually even easier than this. You don’t even have to do the dishes, meals, and childcare if you acknowledge that she’s doing it, and you think she’s amazing for it. And you don’t have to make a lot of money either.
Think about it, women go to visit men on conjugal visits in prison. Those guys aren’t doing anything on this list.
Here is the real list:
1). Tell her how great she is, with specifics. If she’s a kick-ass lawyer, say that. If she’s an amazing mother, say that. If she keeps your ADHD self organized and you would be lost without her, say that. If she’s fat, but you love her giant G-cups, say that.
2). Initiate sex a lot.
3). Don’t get upset or hurt when she turns you down. Accept it and move on with your day. Initiate again the next day.
4). Don’t get hurt if she asks you to do something different in bed. It’s not meant as a blow to your ego. Just do it.
That sounds like good advice.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 13:13
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
Choreplay doesn’t work. It’s been tried by thousands of men. “He’s not doing X” is just an excuse women use. If the guy does X, she will immediately invent something new - “well he doesn’t do Y.”
Said like a man who doesnt understand women at all.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 13:09
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
Choreplay doesn’t work. It’s been tried by thousands of men. “He’s not doing X” is just an excuse women use. If the guy does X, she will immediately invent something new - “well he doesn’t do Y.”
Anonymous
07/04/2025 13:06
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.
You cannot possibly be for real. Turn on the news or sports. You will see tons of people talking about how great this man or that man is.
You cannot possibly be for real. Do you think the average man is the guy they are talking about on TV? Not even the average DCUM guy (who is way better than the average guy) is being praised on TV.
You are very very dim.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 12:09
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.
You cannot possibly be for real. Turn on the news or sports. You will see tons of people talking about how great this man or that man is.
DP. I don’t think celebrities are the proper analogy to everyday women.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 12:08
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
I teach my kids (2 boys, 2 girls) to compliment something about their friends and relatives pretty much every time they see them. “I like your hat.” “Those are cool shoes.” “Your house looks really nice nana.”
It’s not hard if you get in the habit of it.
Well I teach my kids not to focus on superficial BS and look for character.
God, I hate the people who look you up and down. I’m kind of shocked you would want your children to be those people.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 12:06
Subject: Female sexual desire
I wonder if the same incel started all these threads.
Sir… the men that are partnered up with attractive women aren’t sitting on social media all day bashing women. They are at the gym, socializing with friends, or hanging out with women. Not sitting in a basement stewing about their sexless existence.
Sir… the men that are partnered up with attractive women aren’t sitting on social media all day bashing women. They are at the gym, socializing with friends, or hanging out with women. Not sitting in a basement stewing about their sexless existence.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 11:59
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.
You cannot possibly be for real. Turn on the news or sports. You will see tons of people talking about how great this man or that man is.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 11:51
Subject: Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:As a husband, if you do these things, your wife will remain interested:
1. Do at least half of all child-related driving and watching, leaving your wife time for herself.
2. Do the dishes.
3. Make the beds.
4. Hire a cleaner.
5. Make plenty of money.
6. Help with meals.
7. Foreplay.
It's that easy.
I’m a woman, and I think it’s actually even easier than this. You don’t even have to do the dishes, meals, and childcare if you acknowledge that she’s doing it, and you think she’s amazing for it. And you don’t have to make a lot of money either.
Think about it, women go to visit men on conjugal visits in prison. Those guys aren’t doing anything on this list.
Here is the real list:
1). Tell her how great she is, with specifics. If she’s a kick-ass lawyer, say that. If she’s an amazing mother, say that. If she keeps your ADHD self organized and you would be lost without her, say that. If she’s fat, but you love her giant G-cups, say that.
2). Initiate sex a lot.
3). Don’t get upset or hurt when she turns you down. Accept it and move on with your day. Initiate again the next day.
4). Don’t get hurt if she asks you to do something different in bed. It’s not meant as a blow to your ego. Just do it.
Anonymous
07/04/2025 10:25
Subject: Re:Female sexual desire
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:^
Forgot to add that I agree with you that the men whining about this are losers. If your wife needs to be told she is beautiful and sexy everyday in order for you to get some, then that's what you do.
Dance, monkey, dance!
What's the alternative here? whine and pout until you get your wants and needs?
What a toddler.
The toddler is the one who needs constant praise and reassurance or she sulks and pouts.
Men get like one compliment a decade but women need them all day every day just to function normally. Who is the toddler again?
Maybe if you weren’t the kind of person who felt like complimenting others was a burden, people would want to compliment you more.
You're not getting it. Nobody compliments men, regardless of what those men think about complimenting others.