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Anonymous wrote:I don't even know what this means.

I have a very engaged and awesome boyfriend (49yo.) I also have 3 boys - 21, 18 and 15. The 2 older ones have girlfriends. My dad is present and great.

None of them are away. If anything, my boys think social media has bodysnatched the girls.

What does this mean?

It means the tic tok and booktok girls cannot and do not socialize in person any longer.

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Wonder what posters here think of this and if things are equal in dc or no?

I would be curious if the author, in addition to her anecdotes, talked to 24, 34 and 44, and 64 year olds.

Screen addicts need to get off their screen.

All of them - male, female, old, young, purple, green, etc.

Be present!

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Anonymous wrote:Men found a solution to their problems. They either left women alone and retreated from the dating world altogether or they got a passport and went abroad to find the women they liked. American women, especially those in the academic and business fields, seem angry and embittered. They always complain men are going to Asia and South America for sex and subservient low educated women. But you almost never see American women in large numbers with foreign men who are hotter, more educated, and have higher incomes than American men. On paper, alot of European men match the qualifications and beliefs American women are looking for. Several off the bat I can name from Sweden, Switzerland, Norway that match the average progressive female. The truth is that those men don't want them either. And a degree and career is not a factor of attraction with most men. It's about your looks, femininity, humility and kindness, and maternal qualities. Younger women, especially those abroad, tend to have these factors in spades without the combative and propagandized nature of an older, educated, professional woman.

I love that the equivalent for men dating “subservient low educated woman” is a woman dating a “hotter, more educated higher income man”

Like you literally admit you’re buying sex and subservience from low educated women as a flex? Is this a joke?

I’ll also say, I don’t know any women complaining about these men. If they’re such a LBH, it’s likely the local women didn’t want him anyway. Instead of working on being a better person and partner, they go buy sex where it’s cheap. They don’t even have enough money to pay American sex worker prices 😂

DP. Isn’t the power dynamic still the same? Just indifferent price points?

The power dynamic is of the richer person targeting the poor uneducated person. If you’re trying to say Swedish men are the rich educated one and American women are the poor uneducated ones? Doesn’t that go against the rest of the post degrading women for having a profession?

Make up your mind 🙄

Except they didn't degrade women for "having a profession". They very clearly called out the collective demographic of older, single, professional, educated, women for not having found a viable male spouse in the U.S. or anywhere else across the world when they're supposedly these high value women that should have had their pick of men throwing themselves at their feet. That obviously hasn't happened. And they're angry and bitter because the men they want have left them in the dust and want nothing to do with them.

I think we call that a loser in the U.S.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Exactly. Even European men don't want these obese, angry, harpies. It's hilarious.

So the women who won’t f*** you are now obese and angry harpies. Keep going, what other insults do you have for random women who have higher standards than you’ll ever meet ?

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys arepaying to bang latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Fixed it for you. You’re really out here bragging about being a sex tourist and admitting you can’t get anyone without paying for their body?

Damn lady, what is wrong with you?

You're like a broken record, rambling on about how you think every guy in south america is hanging out with hookers. You've obviously never even been to any of these countries and you've somehow convinced yourself that you know what you're talking about. I mean, there is zero substance in your posts.

DP.. again, Latin men are mostly misogynists and don't like independent American women. You also can seem to attract independent women, clearly, so you have to go to a poorer country where the women are not as financially independent for you to get any. That is pathetic.

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Anonymous wrote:Men found a solution to their problems. They either left women alone and retreated from the dating world altogether or they got a passport and went abroad to find the women they liked. American women, especially those in the academic and business fields, seem angry and embittered. They always complain men are going to Asia and South America for sex and subservient low educated women. But you almost never see American women in large numbers with foreign men who are hotter, more educated, and have higher incomes than American men. On paper, alot of European men match the qualifications and beliefs American women are looking for. Several off the bat I can name from Sweden, Switzerland, Norway that match the average progressive female. The truth is that those men don't want them either. And a degree and career is not a factor of attraction with most men. It's about your looks, femininity, humility and kindness, and maternal qualities. Younger women, especially those abroad, tend to have these factors in spades without the combative and propagandized nature of an older, educated, professional woman.

I love that the equivalent for men dating “subservient low educated woman” is a woman dating a “hotter, more educated higher income man”

Like you literally admit you’re buying sex and subservience from low educated women as a flex? Is this a joke?

I’ll also say, I don’t know any women complaining about these men. If they’re such a LBH, it’s likely the local women didn’t want him anyway. Instead of working on being a better person and partner, they go buy sex where it’s cheap. They don’t even have enough money to pay American sex worker prices 😂

DP. Isn’t the power dynamic still the same? Just indifferent price points?

The power dynamic is of the richer person targeting the poor uneducated person. If you’re trying to say Swedish men are the rich educated one and American women are the poor uneducated ones? Doesn’t that go against the rest of the post degrading women for having a profession?

Make up your mind 🙄

Except they didn't degrade women for "having a profession". They very clearly called out the collective demographic of older, single, professional, educated, women for not having found a viable male spouse in the U.S. or anywhere else across the world when they're supposedly these high value women that should have had their pick of men throwing themselves at their feet. That obviously hasn't happened. And they're angry and bitter because the men they want have left them in the dust and want nothing to do with them.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Exactly. Even European men don't want these obese, angry, harpies. It's hilarious.

What's hilarious is that incels want young women with hot bods, and when they reject the incels those incels get upset, but tell the incel to go date an obese woman, and he'd rather stay single and whine about not getting any.

There are plenty of single not so good looking women who would date American men, but incels think they deserve the hot woman. Same for women; there are plenty of men who would date them, but some have unreasonable expectations in a man. No, I'm not saying people should just lower their expectations, but they should have reasonable expectations.

My DH is from the UK. He is tall, somewhat objectively good looking, earned good money when we met. But, he didn't have a great body. My British female friend was adamant that she wanted a tall man with a full head of hair and a good body. She ended up with a European guy who didn't make a lot and was bald.

Very very very few of us can get everything we want rolled into one person. Have realistic expectations.

That said, I do think that women have become way more independent and so they can be choosier, and clearly, some men are having a hard time with that.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Dude…the facts are that only the losers like you are moving to Central America to pay for prostitutes.

Literally…the facts are that almost no 18-34 year olds are moving to 3rd world countries in general.

BTW…it’s just you posting but you are pulling the DCUM shit and trying to pretend it’s multiple people.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys arepaying to bang latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Fixed it for you. You’re really out here bragging about being a sex tourist and admitting you can’t get anyone without paying for their body?

Damn lady, what is wrong with you?

You're like a broken record, rambling on about how you think every guy in south america is hanging out with hookers. You've obviously never even been to any of these countries and you've somehow convinced yourself that you know what you're talking about. I mean, there is zero substance in your posts.

I love travelling, I just don’t use it to pay poor people to f*** me while there 😂 your life is so sad dude

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

You think someone posting facts has got their feelings hurt? What does that say about your emotional post here? How is stating facts saying anyone is “bothered” by you being a trashy dude who pays for poor uneducated women to blow him?

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys arepaying to bang latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Fixed it for you. You’re really out here bragging about being a sex tourist and admitting you can’t get anyone without paying for their body?

Damn lady, what is wrong with you?

You're like a broken record, rambling on about how you think every guy in south america is hanging out with hookers. You've obviously never even been to any of these countries and you've somehow convinced yourself that you know what you're talking about. I mean, there is zero substance in your posts.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Exactly. Even European men don't want these obese, angry, harpies. It's hilarious.

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys are banging latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Question.. have you ever traveled for sex? Or do you just aspire to be a scum bag? You just seem like you’re full of shıt and living vicariously through what you watch on youtube

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Ah yes, the losers who have to pay for sex from women in poverty calling American women who won’t give them the time of day “shrill”, “embittered”, “banshees”. It’s like the jokes just write themselves

You're nothing more than a troll who makes up their own "facts."

Instead of being nasty and insulting people who have a preference, maybe you would benefit by looking at why nobody wants do date you.

I’m married so no, lol.

“Preference” for poor uneducated women is creepy af

+1 preference for desperate women is pathetic.

They intentionally target women they think they can abuse and control. I feel so bad for the girls these men go after. And you know it’s always “girls” and not “women” 🤢

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Anonymous wrote:This article and thread is ridiculous. It's not rocket science. Society (meaning women and teachers) spent the last twenty years telling boys they're toxic masculinity is killing America and they need to sit down, shut up and let the women lead. That's why men are not stand up any longer, at least some of them, and I do not blame them for one moment. My DS will not even open a door for a woman any longer that is not a relative, society has taught him that, women have taught him that, he did not learn that from his family.

+1.

Alot of men have started to realize this and take action by just going abroad. I think it's great. Leave the shrill, embittered, banshees, behind in their singledom and go find someone worthy of your time and whose also 10x hotter and friendlier.

Here is the same poster…the men are all going abroad.

Here are the expat facts:

5.4MM and the top 3 countries by far are Mexico, Canada and the UK…followed by Israel, Germany, Australia, South Korea, France and Spain

The vast majority are retirees followed by digital nomads. Most are highly educated. 94% have a bachelor’s or higher.

It’s estimated that 1% are 18-34.

Awwwwww....someone got their feeling hurt because guys arepaying to bang latinas. You must be a miserable old hag if this bothers you LMAO. And multiple people are posting and think you're an idiot. But I guessed you kind of answered the question. Who in their right mind would date someone like you when they have clearly better options?

Fixed it for you. You’re really out here bragging about being a sex tourist and admitting you can’t get anyone without paying for their body?